I WANT TO ASK THE READING LADIES, HOW WOULD THEY REACT, OR WHAT WOULD THEY THINK, IF THEIR FRIEND WAS IN EVERY DISPUTE LIKE WHAT TO ACCEPT, DEAR LADIES READING THIS. AND YOU LORD, WHAT WILL YOU TELL ME, MAYBE YOU WILL BE ABLE TO LOOK FROM THE OTHER SIDE OF THE BARRIER AND TO "TRANSLATE" HIS WORDS?
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The exact translation of these words is absolute indifference and lack of feelings for you on the part of your friend! These comments show to some extent an expectation on his part to end the relationship, but not himself to be the initiator of the separation and you to take this responsibility! finding a mutually beneficial solution to the problem! MAN OF 40 YEARS.
he tells you in plain text that he doesn't want to be with you - maybe there is another one, there are so many men ...
THANK YOU FOR THE COMPREHENSIVE ANSWER.
This is a manifestation of hypocrisy. He can't say it in plain text, so a mental "test" suits you. He tries to play when there is a lack of feelings and complete indifference.
In my opinion, he wants to tell you in a subtle way that he wants you now, but let me tell you, when my friend makes me angry, I talk to him in the same way, because I am very impulsive and he regularly told me "Get out!" because he's the same as me, but then it's all a fairy tale and we say to each other how much we love each other and how we can't do without each other, so ask him directly so it's best, and maybe you need a little break from each other for two years we have made two in a few weeks and each time is more beautiful than the last, each needs freedom to breathe and feel independent, although the heart knows where to go next! If you haven't been together after that, that's how it should have been..I think so, I'm not saying I'm right ..!
And I think he just wants to get rid of you. This is a hint to leave and leave him alone. I advise you to do just that if he tries to keep you talking to him about his behavior and deciding what you both want, but if he lets you go, it means he's not the person for you. After all, you can't feel unwanted forever because of such words, because there will be a moment when you will want to leave, but you will not be able to do so. :)
It depends on the intonation, so writing it is not understood! Judge for yourself - you can't listen to others! Everyone makes their own decisions! It's in your hands! You take it!
As much as he doesn't care if you live with him or not - leave! Why should you feel unwanted, unnecessary with this man, when (I am convinced of that) someone who loves you and needs you is looking for you somewhere or waiting for you? Drop it - There is no more love between you or he is so selfish that he has no feelings for you.
The fact that he doesn't realize (or doesn't want to realize) that you, maybe you love him, and not just tolerate him, maybe speaks to the fact that he doesn't love you and just tolerates you and judges you for himself. . He attributes to you what he feels. I don't know if I expressed myself clearly enough. But my advice is run away from there and leave it. There are so many men who will understand you much better and behave differently. It's not worth just harassing yourself and not thinking about it.
Honey, what happened to your case, how did it develop, because I think I'm in the same situation!
Darling, I, as a man, think that he rather wants to know how far he can go in his relationship with you and whether you can bear it. Just check your feelings. You have to choose what to do.
Apparently he's offering you to leave if you're tired
Hello, I will try to tell my cases, in short ... I had an affair with a girl but over time she became indifferent to me and began to not care if he was alive, if he died alone .... but still not -she wants to delete me completely from her life, considering that she doesn't want to remove me from her phone and profiles, but I can't do that either, I just can't fight my feelings for her for several months, nor are we looking for each other, nor do we write to each other, nothing big ... would you give me advice, how can I overcome this indifference on her part, if at all possible, thank you in advance for the advice !!
G30: I don't have to put up with you, but I do it so as not to hurt you ... I don't have to put up with you, but I will do it until you pick your pears yourself ... Go!
I see that most of the comments are unanimous, but I want to insert my opinion if I can: My husband, with whom we have been together for 12 years, I do not remember a case in which we quarreled and he did not say he wanted a divorce. that he still has this ... it's something like his repertoire, and I have to tell you that I'm absolutely sure that he is dying for me, he's just very afraid that someone will steal me and out of pride, I don't know, as if at any moment he expects our relationship to collapse and it doesn't turn out that I rubbed him, he declares from now on that he is not asleep !!! Which is very funny and damn stupid, because I love him and I will never leave him