I met a man from England online, we liked each other and decided to see each other. At first the plan was to go to England with him next month, but he did not wait and decided to come. He has money, he has no problem, but I don't. I'm 18 and I don't even work, and he has booked a super expensive and luxurious hotel .. He tells me not to worry and that I don't need money, but I can't do that .. What can I do, I'm very uncomfortable , and on top of that I am worried about whether he will like me live, but also because of English .. Not that I have no knowledge of English, but it is not enough .. I had decided not to write to him anymore before buying the plane tickets because I was super stressed, but I couldn't stand it and now it's too late .. He's a good man and very handsome, I don't want to disappoint him. He only paid 700 leva for the round trip and he will have to pay 500 for a hotel for 4 days, and I don't want to pay everything, but I don't have the opportunity to do anything. In general, I'm super worried whether cover and stop writing to him He says he's in love with me and I'm in love with him, but I don't know what to do ... Please approve my story and give advice because next Friday is coming ..
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Well done, as a typical Eastern European, you sell yourself for money to foreigners. Then when he treats you like a rag you will have to roar.
They will make you a "white slave." Earlier they were recruited through beauty contests and sent to become "models" and "models", and this deception stopped, they switched to the "prince on a white horse" - a very handsome and wealthy local young man falls in love with a "Cinderella" from Eastern Europe. , invites her as a guest, collects her passport and sends her to "work out" the costs of her arrival at the brothel.
You didn't give us a lot of information, nor did you give us such details, but you only explained your problem to us, but I'll tell you one thing: Don't fuck the man, since he was so kind to scatter his papers to come to Bulgaria, to rent a nice hotel to make you feel comfortable in his presence, so listen to his advice and do not worry ..
You worry about the completely wrong things. It is more likely that when you go to England you will have to "work off" your expenses with the oldest profession. Be very careful not to fall into the trap, because such people are looking for naive girls like you. Even if he comes to Bulgaria, do not go to his hotel room or at least without leaving information to anyone where you are going and for how long. Trafficking in human beings is a reality that is little discussed in modern society.
He has already liked you and comes with the setting to break you from fucking for these few days during which he will be in BG and to leave alive and well. Are you worried that only he will bear the costs? !! When I go to Bulgaria to knock Bulgarian muffins, not only do I bear my own expenses, but also their ...
In principle: do they give you, take it! However, in your case, everything seems somehow too good to be true. How old is your man? What does he do? To pay so much money - even by their standards, is enough to be with a girl you've never seen ... isn't it a little doubtful. I'm not saying he's necessarily some kind of outcast or criminal, just keep one thing in mind. When he comes, he will expect sex. Are you really ready to go to bed right away with someone you haven't seen live? Hey, I think you should be uncomfortable with that. Imagine not bathing, or making you do things in bed that you don't agree with? And then he will return to England and show off how he killed a Bulgarian woman and what things he did with her ... you can see yourself in action later on the Internet. Well, I don't like what you're getting into.
After all the effort, time, and money on his part, the dumbest thing you can do is disappear and not write to him. He's already spent the money, so at least have a good time these 4 days. Even if you don't fit in live (I hope it doesn't get there), I don't think he'll regret it - in the end you have to try to find out if someone is for him. And he will have seen a new country (I guess he hasn't come before). Don't think about it, relax and have a good time.
Well, he will come and have sex with you. I don't know what else you expect. In general, what are your plans? One sunny day to move permanently to England? If he went looking for women on the Internet, then he is not very literate ... In the sense that women are over in England, that he will come all the way to Bulgaria for one sex? Either he's some kind of scoundrel, or he's a pervert, or in the worst case he's a criminal, I hope he's not! In any case, DO NOT MEET HIM! Don't be naive! There are many boys in Bulgaria with whom you can build a full relationship. That he will pay is your least problem. Just because he's nice in a chat doesn't mean he's a good person. And the fact that he is in love, let me tell my grandmother ... You are still young and you are attached to him, but don't. You think right. Cover yourself, block it and never write to strangers on the net.
Oh, and are you sure this man is what he pretends to be? Don't you end up in a ditch, raped and beaten? I'm sorry to be so brutal, but it's for your own good to think about your personal safety. And there are tickets from / to Great Britain for about 50 leva ...
Well, go and see him. It will either work or it won't. And don't worry about the money, given the standard of living there, the amounts listed by you are not unheard of. The only thing you need to worry about is your safety, because sometimes the people you talk to online aren't as pure-minded as you think, so I advise you before you go to them, tell someone where you're going and they'll like it. you call by a certain time because you never know. It is good that you did not run alone to England with someone you only know online, because there alone in a foreign country, without money and without acquaintances, anything could happen. It's different in your city, you know it, you know a lot of people, etc., and still be careful. I don't want to pay you and tell you scary stories, you're not a little girl, so I guess that you know how to take care of yourself. I know it doesn't sound very romantic, but unfortunately the world is cruel and we need to know how to protect ourselves.
Don't think about money - he made the decision. Not to mention that for their standard, this is not who knows what. For the rest - see yourself, but be careful. Don't fly in the clouds. Men who claim to be in love from just a few conversations are questionable - even if they are really in love! F29
A typical scheme for trafficking in prostitutes. I will enchant you, take you to England and make you a prostitute. Even if you get out, your life will be ruined forever. No cool man, neither English nor Bulgarian, would have anything to do with a prostitute, even if they forced you to - just the fact that you got involved with such people (pimps) is repulsive enough.
If he was normal, he would find a woman from England if he had to buy a girl online, so this man is not well and no woman in real life wants him. How is he so in love with you that he hasn't even seen you? You know very well that he does not love you, but is desperately looking for sex and is ready to pay for it. And you know what - you're just as pathetic and desperate when you're selling for some uncle's money, and you're ready to sell yourself while you're chatting! You are very light.
Tuesday - Apparently most of you misunderstood me .. I sold for money? How the hell did you solve this .. The man is serious, he is a dentist and it's not like he's lying, he sends me pictures of his work every day, even his colleagues I already know .. I won't mention the age because you will understand me even more incorrectly. We spend at least 5 hours every day in front of the cameras and in the chat. I told him that I am worried about going to England and that is why he will come here just to make me feel calmer. I'm not as stupid as you think, nor as naive. If I were like that, I wouldn't even write on this site.
Girl, who is this serious person who will be engaged in online dating with girls, obviously much older than you and spends 5-6 hours in front of the camera, every day? I'm 32 and honestly, there's a huge emotional gap between me and the girls your age. Besides, I can't spend 6 hours with my girlfriend in any way, given that I work. She to me too. This is a 100% prostitution scheme! Beware, just disappear from the online space and no longer look for it. In a few days he will feel that he has not succeeded. If you are worried about the money, do not, it will cancel the flight and the hotel, so the loss will be minimal.
The very fact that you expected a different type of answer is a testament to your naivete. Photos, etc. are no problem to fabricate with the appropriate props. If a gentleman is involved in human trafficking, the money needed to achieve the illusion is a drop in the ocean compared to what he would make from another victim. The peculiarity of internet chat is that it does not prevent you from talking to several people at the same time without knowing about each other, meanwhile everyone believes that he is the most special. If you still decide to see him, just be very careful, do not accept drinks that you have not prepared yourself and do not visit his hotel room. Don't worry about his money - if he's really a dentist, then he has plenty.
Don't worry about the money, if it comes, then you can afford it, in Bulgaria it is cheap for them, if it is of an average standard. Be honest with him and tell him that you do not have the financial means, but for example 1 coffee can be consumed. I advise you not to go to his hotel, do not sleep with him once and keep in mind that they are completely different people from us, with a different mentality, etc.
Go to a meeting, but don't be in a hotel - preferably in a public place, such as a restaurant. Tell someone close to you, better a man, to come with you and stand at the next table, for example. After the meeting, decide if you want to meet him again, but by no means alone.
You are not naive, but on top of that! And this is understandable, because you are 18 and you don't really have any life experience. When you acquire it, your naivety will disappear. So - I wonder in your mind, girls who make acquaintances online and accept them as real relationships? !! The easiest way to lie on the Internet is to enchant, enchant, etc. You have been in love, are you okay? He hasn't seen you, you haven't seen him live, you haven't spoken live, what does he really know about you or you about him? Think about these things and then decide exactly how to bury yourself. This story stinks everywhere, smart!
And the dream of the 18-year-old Bulgarian came true. 40/50 year old foreigner. They will get married and live in a fairy tale ...
So today is "next Friday". I sincerely hope we've been able to get a little brain in your head and not go on a date with him. Please write that we succeeded!
Yes, very handsome and with money and he will look for a bride on the Internet ... And he will push himself with a bag of money to come to the other side of Europe, being extremely aware that either you can tie a tin can and burn him with a bag money, or that you may not be the one in the photos, or that you can get away with the hard fucking for which you grind your teeth. The other option is to find yourself on the island and be torn there by fucking 5-6 to 10 ugly Englishmen a day. Abe, girl, what world do you live in?
From the author - At the moment we are together, we talk all day and walk. I think we liked each other, he stays at the hotel and I come home in a few hours. See you again tomorrow! :) Thank you for the tips, I appreciate them, but 90 percent of them were not useful to me. Greetings, good evening! :)
They weren't useful to you because they didn't contain what you wanted to hear, because I didn't sit down to think if there was a dose of truth in them. You are not looking for advice but for encouragement to do what you have already decided. But here is a free forum and everyone expresses their own opinion without setting a goal to please you. I hope it turns out that critical comments are wrong, because otherwise they will be very useful in retrospect.
Do you seriously believe that from the very beginning he would have almost sold you for a white slave? Of course, now there is an additional enchantment until he takes you to his native land ... She was not naive ...
Well done, author, the thrill is great, I've experienced it too. Do not listen to the insults here in your address, if you are with a foreign man there are always such stories. And the worst thing is to cover up without explanation just before he comes, be honest with him if you start a relationship. Write how your story unfolds and if you need advice
So why do you engage the space with your problem after you have decided to do what you want. Isn't it worth it to insult those 90% who are somehow trying to protect you or you just want to rub their noses. When you want to break your head, no one can stop you. Shushumiga
Do you realize that he can put on an apron and pretend to be a dentist, actor, nuclear physicist, etc. An acquaintance of mine, now an adult, 70, once had a friend in the company who fell in love with some Irish girl in Golden Sands. They fell in love, had a good time and the girl returned to Ireland. After a while she sent him a letter for the holidays with a photo of her riding a thoroughbred stallion in front of a mansion with an endless yard, with centuries-old trees around ... it turned out that she was the daughter of some sir, they were from an old noble family and so on. Ours, in order not to be left behind, returned a similar telegram to her, also introduced himself as an aristocrat (nothing that was communism), with a horse borrowed from a man from Aksakovo, photographed in front of the Girls' High School in Varna, as if it were his the mansion. He did not expose us, well, he presented the Bulgarian glarus well. The story is 100% true, but as cheerful as it is, it reminds me of your case. Which dentist, as you claim to be this "gentleman", will leave his job in the office to chat online for 5-6 hours with some deluded girl from Eastern Europe. Sorry for the question, do your people know what you do online? Watch your lessons / study / work, and don't look for easy recipes for social prosperity. Easy solutions are expensive, the risk of watching you on the news that they are looking for Interpol and your crying loved ones on the air will come to me more, and I have problems! By the way, I read a cool joke on the Internet - in hotels in Europe and in Dutch shop windows, our girls immediately know each other by the Mantu that this "gentleman" is, he will leave his job in the office to chat online for 5-6 hours with some deluded girl from Eastern Europe. Sorry for the question, do your people know what you do online? Watch your lessons / study / work, and don't look for easy recipes for social prosperity. Easy solutions are expensive, the risk of watching you on the news that they are looking for Interpol and your crying loved ones on the air will come to me more, and I have problems! By the way, I read a cool joke on the Internet - in hotels in Europe and in Dutch shop windows, our girls immediately know each other by the Mantu that this "gentleman" is, he will leave his job in the office to chat online for 5-6 hours with some deluded girl from Eastern Europe. Sorry for the question, do your people know what you do online? Watch your lessons / study / work, and don't look for easy recipes for social prosperity. Easy solutions are expensive, the risk of watching you on the news that they are looking for Interpol and your crying loved ones on the air will come to me more, and I have problems! By the way, I read a cool joke on the Internet - in hotels in Europe and in Dutch shop windows, our girls immediately know each other by the Mantu and don't look for easy recipes for social prosperity. Easy solutions are expensive, the risk of watching you on the news that they are looking for Interpol and your crying loved ones on the air will come to me more, and I have problems! By the way, I read a cool joke on the Internet - in hotels in Europe and in Dutch shop windows, our girls immediately know each other by the Mantu and don't look for easy recipes for social prosperity. Easy solutions are expensive, the risk of watching you on the news that they are looking for Interpol and your crying loved ones on air will come to me more, and I have problems! By the way, I read a cool joke on the Internet - in hotels in Europe and in Dutch shop windows, our girls immediately know each other by the Mantu
I'm glad you succeeded, good luck and future author, but be careful! I support the theory that the person may not have completely pure intentions, but the comments here are pure hatred and malice, nothing more! You made the girl a prostitute just because she decided to meet a foreigner. It even seems to me that I feel a little envious, lol G28
Have you talked! Do you want me to believe that you speak English so well that you can talk to an Englishman for 5 hours?
If you just walk around and talk, fine. Be careful though. Oh, and don't let him.
Author, I have been living in Western Europe for 15 years now and I can tell you that foreigners are not as perfect as they seem in your eyes. Here I know a lot of locals who are looking for a woman from abroad on the Internet and all of them are knocking on their board and no woman here wants to deal with them. That is why they are forced to look for ones from abroad, because they know that they generally have a good reputation there and, above all, that they live in a well-organized and well-run economic country that every Ganka dreams of. Such, "foreigners", may have serious mental problems, there may be other intentions towards you, and not the ones he represents, etc., etc. I know a Nashenka who, like you, starts with a fairy tale, he comes to bg, hotels motels entertainment, she falls in love with him going to his country there they get married and soon he finds himself with mental problems. Porn maniac. She gives all the money for all kinds of porn attributes and she is poor and has to live in poverty. She gave birth to a child who apparently also inherited mental problems. They divorce because she can no longer tolerate it. She is now on social benefits with a sick child and will probably grow old with only two cats on foreign soil. Don't be angry that people give you sensible advice. I have also had relationships with foreign women, but I have not yet started a family, because they are a completely different mentality from ours. I would like to start a family with a Bulgarian woman. Yes, neither we Bulgarian men are perfect nor Bulgarian women are perfect. But there is nothing better than a Bulgarian family. Yes, I want to live my life abroad at least until retirement age, but I want my children to be 100% Bulgarian. To speak Bulgarian, to eat Bulgarian cuisine in our country, to go to Bulgaria by sea in the summer. Both me and my future wife to speak Bulgarian. Marriage of a Bulgarian-foreigner or a Bulgarian-foreigner does not last long. Greetings M35
The story sounds good. Don't worry, you may be lucky. But in no case do you agree to go to England. Let it stay for at least a few months. To take a house, to go and do various things, as if you have a Bulgarian boyfriend. Introduce him to your friends, let him accept them, and they him. Only this will show that he has no hidden intentions.
How old is this man? If he is up to 26-7 years old, but if he is older, then he is a desperate psychic who cannot find his own like him and runs away from reality (looking for a younger woman from Eastern Europe).