We have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and our sex has always been very good. We never limited ourselves to one pose, and one of his favorites was to watch me touch myself or masturbate while on top. For a month, however, he has been falling in every position except in the back. He doesn't want any other, I offered him to be on top, an inverted rider - he still doesn't want to. I manage to do it with whistles too, but with the poses ... I no longer dare to do something different, because if I change from one back to another, I fall immediately. He liked her before, but that's it. I asked him what was going on, he said that at the moment he was not strong in other ways, then he could ask again, he didn't know. I'm starting to think he's no longer aroused by anything but my ass. Otherwise, nothing else in our relationship is different, he behaves wonderfully. However, I'm worried about this monotony lately - only the back and whistles. What could be the reason? I wonder if we stop having sex completely for about a week, will it have an effect or will it get worse?
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You're tired of him ... that's why he doesn't like watching you anymore and he's not cool!
Well, since he loves to stare at your ass so much ... Maybe he wants you to let him in there. If the idea of anal sex is not unacceptable to you - offer him ... With the firm condition that it is not in the background. (You can always ride it for example). But even if the above is not an option for you, I think I have the right to ask for a different position. In the end, it's the same thing every time - Emmy writes, so if it's the most exciting thing in the world.
Hello. The situation is quite similar for me! I don't know why, but I can guess: they're kind of tired. Why don't you predispose him to talk about it? I will follow the topic.
My girlfriend likes the ass and quite deliberately rubs her anus in front of my eyes, to irritate me.
The back sling is a prelude to anal sex. The man in this pose has direct visual contact with the brown petunia. He imagines, dreams and this keeps him extra firm. I'm telling you, daughter, remember daughter-in-law. There is nothing to talk about - do it. Yes, most likely he is in a difficult time - how to break away from the forbidden fruit. Stopping sex is not an option - it leads to obsessions with purely martyrdom or physiological excuses. The life of the Balkan lady is complicated in constant dilemmas but not Shakespearean ones! Good luck and have fun or work! :)
And my husband and I had such a problem and I just went crazy why he only wants us to do it in the back ... one day he admitted to me that he was dying to fuck me anal and that my ass completely drove him crazy and terribly wants to feel me from behind and that he just hit the checks and thinks how he fucks me there .... I was speechless and I call him well why didn't you tell me so long !!!! He was afraid to gossip about a pervert !! In the evening I did an enema and put on a sexy body with a hole in the back and we did it..it was so hard that he was dying for fun and passion and I went crazy and I never thought I would get such unique orgasms .... and let me tell you My husband is fine and we start vaginal all poses and then we end anal with unique orgasms.
Many men like the sight of a sling. I also prefer this pose because it excites me the most ... especially if we end up with anal. M 39
I don't think he only likes your ass, the view is even better with the inverted pond. Some time ago, I always fell on my back because I felt my partner was very wide when she got aroused.
Uffff, in no word AT ALL!
Male, 36 years old. To leave an opinion on the topic. I met a woman about a year ago, our relationship developed and we later had sex. The first 3-4 times everything was OK, we changed positions, we did it in the bedroom, next to the block on the bench, in the car, but in all sorts of places, it was great. But when I love her on a back sling, I can't take my eyes off her anus, which looks quite tight and virgin. Over time, however, all poses except the back sling fell to me. During one of the sessions, I asked her if she minded doing it there, and she replied that she had tried it a long time ago, but it hurt and she has not wanted anal sex since. She doesn't even like to do anything else to her anus, such as licking, finger massage (without penetration). The very sight of her anus during rear thong sex, in combination with her categorical refusal and the ideas I have for him, I find it extremely exciting, I fantasize about fucking her there and this is probably the reason why I keep the tool working until I'm done. I don't get so aroused when I have sex with a missionary, rider, or inverted rider, even though her body and breasts are divine. In my opinion, everything is in the head and fantasies keep the erection for a longer time.
He wants to slap you in the anus, what is not clear?
Women! understand it now .. our men are dying to fuck us anal and the very idea drives them crazy, enjoy this unique sex and let there be peace and passion and love at home and between you .... my husband and I really are very nice and we are calmer than how we practice anal sex more often, and the feeling of anal orgasms in me is many times more than vaginal.