I wonder what people think about this kind of relationship between a man and a woman. It is clear to me that the films cannot be trusted and that this is not really the case, so I am interested to know your opinion. Do you think that there can be a relationship between two people based on sex and teasing without strong feelings and obligations. I personally like a person who is attached and I don't think I could maintain such a relationship, but at the same time I think it depends on the other person. If it doesn't attract me as a character but only physically? Give your opinion, I think the topic would be interesting to many people. It will also be nice to add gender and age. I am also interested in what the female audience thinks, but everyone is free to comment. Please post the topic will be useful.
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I don't think a normal woman can have a long sexual relationship with a man without being attached. Paid priestesses may be able to, but not ordinary women. At least that's what my experience and that of my friends show. F, 38
Of course you can. I guess there are a boy and a girl who are best friends (just friends) who sleep together!
Number 2 means you think best friends aren't attached to each other?
There are people and their cars who get aroused and all sorts of natural phenomena are observed, of course there are women who practice this type of relationship without commitment and are not one, not two, we are people ... if men can, then and women can, but women are less likely to admit it, and it's more unusual for them to have that happen.
Well, first ask yourself what the real role of sex is. of feelings and attachment in the survival of the human species. But the real one, not the one we've been used to giving them lately. And by thinking in this direction, you will surely come to the truth. Don't watch movies - they are movies because everything is possible there. These are someone's fantasies, or someone's dreams, and that's why they're interesting.
About 3 years ago I met a girl with whom we were sexually attracted. Shortly before that, I had ended a difficult relationship from which nothing came out. I didn't care about deep feelings, dramas, etc. I just wanted sex and fun - and it was summer, somehow the sunny season predisposes to adventures and new experiences. At first it was just sex, very tender, but also rude and passionate. The girl and I complemented each other a lot. Feelings came unnoticed that we could not hide. Before we knew it, we were already in love and simple sex grew into something much deeper and more beautiful. We have been together for over 2 years. A man of 24 years.
Of course, it can and does happen in many cases nowadays. It's even normal. Look, in Bai Toshovo, when there was morality and everyone got married, it was different.
N2, if they are best friends, they should also have an emotional connection. The fact that for some reason they have decided not to advertise as a couple does not mean that they are not.
Sex is for pleasure and it is quite possible to have sex only with someone without commitment, without feelings and such nonsense. You don't have to love him to sleep with him, you don't have to get used to him as long as you both know that this is non-committal and the only thing you are looking for is sex for problems, for sharing NO. In such a long relationship, it is quite possible to have feelings at such a time, everything ends before it's too late. This is great for single people instead of dealing with engaging relationships and additional annoyances, and the problems they create just to have fun. I had such a relationship with a man, if it can be called that at all, we only wrote to each other or called to discuss when and where, we do what we do, and everyone from where he came began to pay me a little more attention at one point and it all ended then I did not have a gram of feelings, but I did not want them to appear. After about half a year we met by chance and started looking for it again, but somehow feelings awoke in me, in fact he was the culprit, he started to make me go out, he behaved terribly nice and well, but he didn't want a relationship and that's it. I didn't want to fall in love because he is like that, he doesn't want relationships, but the hell his attitude was completely different, we started sleeping together and only in the morning we started going out to cuddle and he didn't really want anything, but I think I made the right choice. I stopped everything because I didn't want to fall in love with a man with whom nothing would come out. After a while I tried again with another, but I didn't like it, I preferred different ones for 1 night than so, because sooner or later you get used to this person. Now they will call me most easy or bloody, no, I don't consider myself one, it's better for me with more partners and less times than relationships, which will end painfully and there will be tears and dramas. Now I have a friend with whom I am, but honestly if I had a lover or we just had sex, everything would be much better now there are quarrels, there are problems and sex becomes a kind of obligation and not just a desire. This passion and this desire that I had no longer evaporated, I just know that I have to do it once and for all, it is my duty not to accept it as a pleasure anymore. Who wants sex has sex, who wants relationships deals with relationships this is my opinion at first it's good, but then gets tired of the feelings they have they stay, but sex definitely gets boring. J. 23
I had a relationship only for sex, but I became attached, and he fell in love, that's why I ended it. He is not a person with whom I would build a serious relationship. The fact is, however, that as we spend more time with the person and get to know each other, attachment follows. Maybe we shouldn't say personal things, not show our essence, but direct consumption and bye, in order to be left alone on a physical level. However, we also met for lunch / dinner, we talked about personal things, we even celebrated some personal successes, but it got more complicated.
Haha, we have such a relationship with a lady. Thanks to sex we became friends, we help each other for various things that we would help each other without having sex if we knew each other. However, the main relationship remains purely sexual, without feelings, without falling in love, etc. However, there is an option for her to get married soon and the end of the relationship. On the other hand, the good thing is that we don't care who is fucking with whom and there is no jealousy. So here's a living example.
I do not think such a connection is possible. Not a connection in the full sense of the word. Sex and teasing - great! Yes - it is possible. However, if these jokes are not an attempt to attach the other to yourself, but you just want to talk and get annoyed. Sex - good, but only once every few months, provided that the two participants in this game are busy. Teasing and sex, provided that the two are free or intend to be soon (for example, are in a period in which they break up with their old relationship) are not possible.
Why? Because a person falls in love (namely falls in love) - he is impressed, he likes, he is interested, nice, new, he is attracted, excited, and the regular "use" of these jokes and sex will lead to that transition of falling in love with something more serious, something with obligations and rights that people call a relationship, and the slightly wiser have no obligations and rights, and falling in love changes its appearance and becomes love .. Once or short-term (for example, three times sex in two months and about 10-15 times teasing, which means communication in two or three days) and then a clear and definite end - yes it is possible. Without an end and in the presence of a desire to continue this relationship or more often than described above in parentheses "use of sex and teasing" - speaks of the presence of feelings and hence the consequences. Consequences as a relationship or at least desires for one Without an end and in the presence of a desire to continue this relationship or more often than described above in parentheses "use of sex and teasing" - speaks of the presence of feelings and therefore consequences. Consequences as a relationship or at least desires for one Without an end and in the presence of a desire to continue this relationship or more often than described above in parentheses "use of sex and teasing" - speaks of the presence of feelings and therefore consequences. Consequences as a relationship or at least desires for one