At the beginning I say that I have never been against women in any way, I even seem to have gone too far with romance and indulgence, but as we know, a person changes. What do I mean. It has happened more than once, but I will only share what I noticed recently. I went out a few times with a girl with whom we matched a lot in conversations and opinions on many issues, but it turns out that the theater is a strength of some, and the phrase "I'm not like that" we heard it. So what was it like for strong and independent men, dear ladies? I work in two places, I live independently, I take care of the old ones because we know what the pensions are ... Yes, but the lady met a charming gentleman in a club and now she is with him. She didn't even cook because his mother sent food every day :))) Not that I needed her to cook for me, I've been doing everything on my own for a long time. I wondered, however, what exactly do you mean, dear ladies, by a single and strong man? I remain convinced that a self-employed person means spending his salary for fun, and mom and dad to tighten their belts. And by strong is meant to push in the gym, not to take care of two old men, one of whom is disabled. And don't think that I don't find time for fitness either. So, I'm sure only love interests you, it's good that I understand it already.
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You may be a good person, caring for your parents, considerate, good-looking, etc ... but you don't attract her. Young women do not hunt for such bait because they have no serious intentions for the future. If you do not attract her physically, you may be the most worthy in the world, she will not shine on you. No woman engages in a man who does not sexually attract her except for profit. Do you want this?
There is no rationality in women (in most), even in the worst case in men, you see at least that - rationality. Don't believe their definitions, it's important that their heart beats at the sight of you, so you have to show (not too much) that you want her, and she should ask and prove it to her in practice. And of course, you need to know (think) how special it is, the latter helps a lot. Then your evil becomes special to her. Dude obviously knows how to do it, you're for the few valuable women. But look at the site, you should know that there are not many ...
It is a myth that a woman can appreciate a man ... In principle, women like men with a female type of character, because they are more similar to them mentally. Read, there was a topic on how to behave with a "dominant man". If you don't know, a "dominant man" is a "player" who spins you, doesn't know what he wants and uses for sex. You should also keep in mind that at least 80% of these girls did not have a father in place (or a father at all) to set an example for them as a man. Most are just looking for attention, drama and things like that.
Dude, I understand from what you've written that you're a good man, a nobleman. What are you doing for women who don't deserve you? No wonder just keep one thing in mind for the next lady M35
It's your own fault, you attract such people. Work on yourself and change what attracts such women to you. This advice cannot be given to you by a man, so that you are not his competition :)
I am the author. I must point out that after what was written here, I was already with two women. I don't want it to sound like a boast, I just realized it's not worth the attention or anything. I pass several times until I get tired of the next number. Apparently that's all they can do. At number 1 I will say that I have witnessed how such people are very attracted, then they go to complain about this and that. But I didn't attract them, he said. I have a story that he thinks about that job ... then he has no right to complain.
Author, and you like most people - claims, requests, expectations. How come one / one on this site doesn't fall in love without waiting for anything from the person on the other side. It's like being in the queue for help - "I cook, clean and don't fart, and she / he doesn't pay attention to me". Well done, excellent, next!
From the text it seems to me that you need all women to like you and adore you. Aren't you the only child pampered by a mother as the best? Your "achievements" "I work in two places, I live independently, I take care of the old ones" are elementary everyday life that does not make you attractive in the eyes of women. Another mistake you have in your thinking is, "I was dating a woman, we didn't get intimate, why do all women hate sex?" Just keep trying until you've gained enough experience to ask the right questions.
That's how you become an old bachelor.
Ah, brother, don't worry, no matter what happened. Most people go through things like that, but they are for good. For example, until I was 26, I was super naive and thought that infidelity, lies and pretense are almost only in the movies and that if you are with someone, you really love them. Well, I came across such an actress that you have a poor imagination of what theaters were played out, not only in front of me, but in front of everyone in general. I thought about how I came across the perfect girl, making plans for a life together and a family. In the end, my ideas were turned upside down very quickly, but this gave me a very valuable lesson - not to believe in words, but in deeds and to be careful. By careful I do not mean suspicious and prejudiced that everyone is lying to me, but just to look for things below the surface. Although the incident in question was unpleasant, I am very grateful to the Lord for her for the lesson I learned. This subsequently saved me a lot of trouble because it kept me from much worse future experiences. However, my advice is not to deal with muffins, because you will just waste your time, and it is super valuable. I made a similar mistake and maintained a purely sexual relationship for several years, thinking that in this way I would somewhat fill the lack of a real partner. Nothing of the kind! First, I felt empty all the time and I wasn't really happy. And secondly, I missed a lot of valuable girls who turned out not to be as far away as I thought. Therefore, you better concentrate on yourself and look for a person who will really suit you. because it kept me from much worse such future experiences. However, my advice is not to deal with muffins, because you will just waste your time, and it is super valuable. I made a similar mistake and maintained a purely sexual relationship for several years, thinking that in this way I would somewhat fill the lack of a real partner. Nothing of the kind! First, I felt empty all the time and I wasn't really happy. And secondly, I missed a lot of valuable girls who turned out not to be as far away as I thought. Therefore, you better concentrate on yourself and look for a person who will really suit you. because it kept me from much worse such future experiences. However, my advice is not to deal with muffins, because you will just waste your time, and it is super valuable. I made a similar mistake and maintained a purely sexual relationship for several years, thinking that in this way I would somewhat fill the lack of a real partner. Nothing of the kind! First, I felt empty all the time and I wasn't really happy. And secondly, I missed a lot of valuable girls who turned out not to be as far away as I thought. Therefore, you better concentrate on yourself and look for a person who will really suit you. that in this way I will somewhat fill the lack of a true half. Nothing of the kind! First, I felt empty all the time and I wasn't really happy. And secondly, I missed a lot of valuable girls who turned out not to be as far away as I thought. Therefore, you better concentrate on yourself and look for a person who will really suit you. that in this way I will somewhat fill the lack of a true half. Nothing of the kind! First, I felt empty all the time and I wasn't really happy. And secondly, I missed a lot of valuable girls who turned out not to be as far away as I thought. Therefore, you better concentrate on yourself and look for a person who will really suit you.
Author, the only thing that sets you apart from the real man is that you wrote here. Build your life as you see fit, do the right things, and don't have to consider people who aren't able to do what you do. I have great respect for taking care of your parents at a time when half-men are waiting for help from the elderly. Yes, it probably won't be easy for you with women, but is this the main thing in a man's life? He stood up, recharged, and continued his life. Forget sites like this, work hard, train hard, gain respect among your colleagues with competence and skill, have friends but also enemies, do not bend to the emotions of different leagues and sooner or later the investment in yourself will begin to return. Too much fog has risen around the concept of a real man, and it slowly took on the appearance of a lady's dream. I'm sorry, if I sound moralistic, it's just that with so much internet marketing, it's normal for a young person to lose the leap and what's important.
I'm the author, thanks 11, I came in here for nothing but to see what the general opinion would be, I saw. Reading 7, 8 and 9 ... it is clear to me what the intellectual level of the population is. I bragged about everyday life, I was a mother's child :))) Well, why not brag, I handle everything myself and enjoy listening to various shiny muffins how the big and masculine just farted on the couch. I don't know how much of a mother's child I am, I don't have anything in my life that has been given to me, I have received it myself, I don't see why I shouldn't brag about it, given that half of the Pendai people who like it a lot can't wear shoes. to tie themselves. Like I said, it's still mine. I will not become a misogynist, I just realized in time that women are only for one thing and that is why I will use them. And by the way, I have a new goal for tomorrow :))) wish me success.