Hello! I am 17 years old and have been having sex for almost a year, at first I was in a lot of pain, then I went through a period when I didn't feel anything, everything passed and now it's just pleasure, thank God, I have a question. , like a burst, after which everything happens in a liquid and a lot of it .. Is it an orgasm and if so why don't I feel those contractions, tickling in the vagina?
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Yes, it is an orgasm, but different. It's called squiert and about 30% of women have it, because not all women have the necessary glands - a remnant of embryonic development, in which we were all boys first - later in women the penis becomes a clitoris, and in some it remains part of the prostate with the corresponding glands at the very beginning of the vagina. You experience something like a man's orgasm. You cannot control these processes - it is not about urine - the liquid does not smell and does not have the color of urine, but rather has a body odor and is transparent. In most women, the glands in question are underdeveloped or even missing. For most who have them, they produce only a moisturizing secretion and no emptying. Very few women can experience a squiert orgasm. Women who don't have the glands in question won't be able to understand you and will write that you pee,
To №1 well done, that's right, you explain it very accurately. women and men who have not experienced it, do not write stupid comments. don't worry about the author and don't be ashamed of it, just indulge in the pleasure (squirt - the so-called female ejaculation) and experience it as only you know. He left everyone else.
You don't feel those contractions and convulsions just because you end up differently. As 1 and 2 wrote to you, you are just experiencing a squirt orgasm. You should not be ashamed and suppress it, but be proud of that fact. Indeed, a small percentage of women can do it because it comes from the Bartholomew glands, which are part of the parautral glands, and not all women have them. The name comes from the English meaning of the word squirt-splash, spray. Whoever tells you something else is not aware of female physiology and sexuality. Be proud of the fact that you can end this way. Magicians
And will I be able to experience the other type of orgasm?
Until the previous ones commented: Doesn't squirt not contract the muscles of the uterus? That would not be the case if we think logically. Ejaculation in men is also accompanied by contractions of muscle mass. Aren't these convulsions pushing the fluid out of the gland? !! I don't agree with the number that this is a squirt. Or rather - I doubt it. I am not looking for arguments, but only to exchange information and experience. I've had a few squirts, but I've always felt the contractions. Even then, they seemed stronger and deeper than usual. However, I've heard of women who fail to fully relax when they feel an orgasm approaching and start thinking "now what's going on" they stop having an orgasm. In this case, the convulsions are not strong and given the abundant moisture it is normal not to feel. There is a point of reaching extreme arousal ... or I've heard it as a "pre-orgasmic state" when the body is ready to release the necessary fluids. Excessive hydration during intercourse may also be related to the acidity of the environment. Our bodies are unique machines. They produce as many substances as are needed to complete a process. We know that female moisture helps preserve sperm (which, like our men;) are very capricious) and abundant hydration prevents the acidity of the environment and the young heroes survive to go to the egg. In my opinion, in the case of the author, she has just reached that high point of arousal when an orgasm follows. Many Eastern teachings say that this moment can last a very, very long time,
Number 5 - there is no way to explain - a man can explain to you how it ended. There is an emptiness and a feeling of bliss. Otherwise - during a vaginal orgasm, the muscles of the vagina contract, not the uterus. As far as I know, the uterus is the womb, which I don't know what role it plays in the female orgasm ... at least for me it doesn't play any, but I don't deny that there can be other women - why not? Otherwise, every woman has a different orgasm. Try to urinate at orgasm - it will not work. There is a difference between copious moisturizing and squiert. In squiert, the fluid actually sprays, but don't watch porn - again, women urinate there or have previously injected fluid into their vaginas with syringes. Who can't end like that - a big deal. Everyone has their own way. The author had a question and I'm trying to? helped because many women in the past were ashamed of it and hid - me included, which meant that I voluntarily stopped my orgasm before it happened, which is a pity, because I personally can not have a more intense orgasm. Every woman can ejaculate clitorally, many women can also ejaculate vaginally, but only in 30% of women are the glands so well developed that they feel ejaculated as in men - why should your uterine muscles contract when they are not involved at all - you empty your glands, sometimes there may be vaginal contractions, but this is not necessary as it does not necessarily happen with a clitoral orgasm ... It does not mean absolute truth - the important thing is that every woman gets to know her body and has pleasure in sex without shame and to control and refuse orgasms. and this meant that I voluntarily stopped my orgasm before it happened, which is a pity, because I personally cannot have a more intense orgasm. Every woman can ejaculate clitorally, many women can also ejaculate vaginally, but only in 30% of women are the glands so well developed that they feel ejaculated as in men - why should your uterine muscles contract when they are not involved at all - you empty your glands, sometimes there may be vaginal contractions, but this is not necessary as it does not necessarily happen with a clitoral orgasm ... It does not mean absolute truth - the important thing is that every woman gets to know her body and has pleasure in sex without shame and to control and refuse orgasms. and this meant that I voluntarily stopped my orgasm before it happened, which is a pity, because I personally cannot have a more intense orgasm. Every woman can ejaculate clitorally, many women can also ejaculate vaginally, but only in 30% of women the glands are so well developed that they feel emptying like in men - why should your uterine muscles contract when they are not involved at all - you empty your glands, sometimes there may be vaginal contractions, but this is not necessary as it does not necessarily happen during a clitoral orgasm ... It does not mean absolute truth - it is important for every woman to get to know her body and have pleasure in sex without shame and to control and refuse orgasms.
до 6 от 5 Де да знам, така го написах "свивания на матката", защото, особено, когато получа squirt усещам едно.. ох... сякаш някъде много дълбоко в мен нещо се втърдява и отпуска и когато се отпусне, усещам "плисване" на течност. При оргазъм обаче на мен всички мускули ми се стягат, мацка... Даже усещам на прасците как се стягам и отпускам. просто тялото ми тяло се гърчи, но първоизточника се усеща някъде много дълбоко навътре... ако трябва да го определя.. усещам го някъде зад пъпа. Подобни дълбоки усещания получавам и при оргазъм след анален секс, но тогава не е имало плисване. Да, всяка жена, всеки човек е уникален и просто трябва да се нслаждава на това, а не да се чуди какво се случва с него. Спирала съм оргазмите си умишлено. Точно в онази точка на крайна възбуда... но с цел единствено да ги забавя. Мисля, че се наричаше оргазмено плато.. това, което аз правя. Спирам, задържам, забавям.. после усещането е много по-"на широко". Цялото ти тяло в продължение на една минута някъде го усещаш сякаш се разтяга и свива и не си сигурна можеш ли да издържиш на това усещане, защото сякаш е против всякакви закони на физиката. Занимавам се много с медитация и от години се уча да познавам всеки трепет на тялото и да го контролирам. Понякога при медитация усещаш сякаш нямаш тяло, сякаш пропадаш нанякъде и тънеш в едно сладко блаженство. Горе долу подобно усещане (на емоционално ниво) изпитвам и при оргазъм, но е много по-разтърсващ и интензивно
Squirt orgasm is something wonderful and shocking. I only want to correct Maggie in that the glands in question are not Bartholomew's but Bartholin's, and yes, the fluid comes out of the paraurethral glands. For me, 95 percent of the fluid comes out in the form of a jet as "under pressure" and the stronger the orgasm, the stronger the jets and the more. The feeling is unique .... but unfortunately I get it only with prolonged stimulation of the clitoris. During sex and stimulation of the famous G-spot with the hand, unfortunately I did not get it, only after a lot of wetting you get that funny clapping sound as if there is fluid inside your vagina, but it never comes to emptying.
Hello! I am a married woman and I have never had an orgasm with my husband, and more precisely I have had an orgasm only with one man and with my vibrator! Please help me, what should I do, is it my fault?
I'm like number 10 - I never end with sex or oral love, I only end with a vibrator. I read, I read, I still can't and that's it. I get to a pre-orgasmic level of arousal and that's it. This is already shaking my current relationship, I'm sad ....