Hello, we have a daughter of almost 16. My wife and I sometimes diversify sex with a vibrator. I keep it in my nightstand. I noticed it was touched. I always leave it the same way, in the same place. I asked my wife and she denied touching him. Our daughter remains. We are shocked. She must still be a virgin. I left a scar on the vibrator - red thread. In the evening we checked - the thread was under it. My wife is talking to her. She denies having sex. She admitted that she tried to masturbate, but rarely before. It was not about aids. Where the hell does 18 cm of silicone go? On the one hand, I hope she is still a virgin, but on the other ... she is still small for anal sex. I do not see a solution. If I hide it, he'll find a replacement. It is possible to find a boyfriend. We decided to pretend that nothing had happened, but it bothered me. Have you been in a similar situation? If so, what did you do?
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herthacole answered · July 16, 2020
There is no reason to worry, if you touch it, then everything is fine and healthy. Doesn't that satisfy you? I would be worried if my son was in your situation.
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xinnocence94x answered · July 16, 2020
At her age, I had sex for the first time. Honestly, her age is quite good, I hear more and more often about 12, 13 years old ... accept the fact that she is already a young woman, and it is completely normal to start her sex life soon. What else do you want - to have problems with communication and to be super blown up to 30 ?? When will it be "normal" for you and your wife to have their first sex? Hide your vibrator and don't dig into her personal life anymore, because I don't think anything good will come out of such future conversations.
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irishkinksters answered · July 16, 2020
So, there are two possibilities. Let your daughter lie to you or your wife lie to you. It is normal for your daughter to lie to you, she is probably ashamed. Especially with parents who treat sex and maturing so hostile. You question her as if she were a criminal, and by law she can have sex quite easily. And she doesn't have to tell you, these are intimate things. What needs to be explained to her is that it is unhygienic for different people to use the same sex toy.
Or if they do, they must put a condom on her. You have nothing to be shocked about, at 16 it is absolutely normal for a person to study his sexuality. Do not plant complexes, masturbation is quite normal.
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shygirlsweet answered · July 16, 2020
She may not have used it at all for its full 18-centimeter potential. She may have used it to some extent or just looked at it out of curiosity.
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18_couple_bondage answered · July 16, 2020
How much did you do? She will decide and it's too early for me, but one has choices. Why can you use it and not?
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sweetnsilky69 answered · July 16, 2020
You're crazy. At 16, it's normal to masturbate. Didn't you, man of 16, polish the cane? If you don't know, many women at 16 already have children, that's nature. Your poor daughter. Buy her a vibrator and her if you do not want to touch yours.
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lilyallegro answered · July 17, 2020
Put on miniature cameras and record what she does when she is alone with you.
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saraydirty answered · July 17, 2020
I also found a toy of ours, but I would never use it. Otherwise, out of curiosity I looked at the vibrator, there was even a period when a friend came home I showed it to her and she saw a vibrator. There was underwear, it was very beautiful and for the first time I saw such socks with garters, I tried them on.
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pussypink__ answered · July 17, 2020
Don't attack her, and she's not small anymore. She is mature enough.
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kalisa_pearl answered · July 18, 2020
How will your vibrator use it, it's disgusting !!!
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sol_live answered · July 18, 2020
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She is still too young for sex
Where are you going ...
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Is this an "erotic" magazine?
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terahubby answered · July 18, 2020
She is not 100% virgin no matter how much you calm down
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littlebitchwanttofuck answered · July 19, 2020
Such toys are good to lock in a closet.
You shouldn't have asked her if she used the vibrator. This is her job, not yours. It is normal if a girl her age, if she finds out that there is a vibrator in the house, wants to try it.
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tashatoni420 answered · July 19, 2020
Just as you wrote it, a person is left with the impression that the vibrator is not yours, but yours and you keep it zealously.
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s3xyc0upl398 answered · July 19, 2020
Buy a personal vibrator and explain that sex other people's sex toys are not used, and their own - are not shared. For purely hygienic reasons.
And how he uses it - he can use it externally. Nobody said they were holding him back.
And whether she has sex or not and whether, what and where she goes - it's her job.
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ialwaysswallow99 answered · July 20, 2020
Your approach is disgusting. She is 16, you write twice about her virginity. Will you wave a sheet? You need to talk to her about safeguards, not pretend to be a moralist and embarrass her and admit that she masturbated. Disgusting. You are jeopardizing your relationship in the future. And why do you keep a vibrator in the nightstand, that is, leave it straight as a decoration in the bedroom? Your child is not guilty of anything, the reason for this is all of you, firstly where you keep him, secondly how you crush her. Kel benefits that you will be silent.
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freak_in_ink answered · July 20, 2020
The inventions of another boring uncle ...
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misshotdream answered · July 20, 2020
Well, buy a vibrator on it too and it won't use yours.
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gutterballsbbk answered · July 20, 2020
I hope they are really the inventions of an uncle who is bored ...
Otherwise, a vibrator for the first time I saw a second or third grade from a neighborhood friend who proudly educated us a whole group of children that his mother has.
At 16 you should know that such toys are not used by more than 1 person due to hygienic habits, you may be out of curiosity.
And even if she masturbates ... big deal. Better a poor horse than no horse at all.
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drinkbrandi15 answered · July 21, 2020
In my bedroom, in my locker. The child has no job going in there. I haven't stepped into my parents' bedroom since I was 4!
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sexman26_1994 answered · July 21, 2020
"You shouldn't have asked her if she used the vibrator. It's her job, not yours. It's normal for a girl her age, if she finds out there's a vibrator in a house, to want to try it."
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brooklynrunner358 answered · July 21, 2020
Haha why she must have used it, she may just be interested and look at it or show it to friends.
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dg49333 answered · July 21, 2020
There is no problem that the girl is masturbating or that she will soon start a sex life (hopefully reasonable and with literate people), but rather I hope she does not open without asking with this vibrator that she will not wait for the special and first moment with the chosen one.
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purr_meow answered · July 21, 2020
How can you have such a horrible approach to a girl? What does he have to admit to you? At 16, a girl is fully developed sexually, can have sex and even have children. It is absolutely normal at this age to be interested in sex and masturbate. With this behavior, you can only harm her mental health and make it more complex. Sex is nothing shameful or dirty. If you are going to pretend to be a great moralist, be prepared for your daughter to hide everything from you in the future and have no confidence in you.
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ayelen_space answered · July 22, 2020
'What are we going to do? Our daughter masturbated and had sex. Let's throw her on the stake ...
What are you kidding? The girl alive and well, that's the most important thing.
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amyblushie answered · July 22, 2020
"Where the hell does 18 cm of silicone boil?" - where do you and your wife boil it !? The pear does not fall far from the stem!
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thisgirlwants1 answered · July 22, 2020
Well, people, you seem to have forgotten that you were once children ...
Sex and such things are talked about when you are 12, and by 16 all living things have sex. Teenagers at this age are the most curious and active in this regard. When I was 16, the other kids already thought they were a piece if you hadn't had sex by then. (Now I realize how funny that is), but teenagers are like that. They want to enter the world of adults quickly. I wonder how many people have forgotten that they were once like that ..
On the other hand, I think that it was written by a chikidji and in fact the story is fake.
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pd1138 answered · July 23, 2020
It is normal and better if she is not a virgin, because she will not be afraid the first time.
Regarding the vibrator, in your place I would give one to her personally and explain how to wash it and use condoms, so it is better for you and from a hygienic point of view it is better. I live in another country and very often you see in drugstores or pharmacies young boys or girls with their parents choosing condoms or toys and this is normal.
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surfbro44 answered · July 23, 2020
Explain to her that these are personal belongings and at least it is extremely unhygienic to be used by other people, be it her family members, and it is also a very gross violation of your privacy. Lock your room if the little one can't learn where to touch and where not to.
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1ewf answered · July 23, 2020
This nation will not grow soon ...
Ignorance and stupidity rule him.
And what if she's not a virgin? Is there no one to take her? That who marries today without having tried, do they match the candidate? As long as you are enslaved to your own slavery!
I started masturbating when I was very, very young. It was difficult to find vibrators then. Granny found me once, and a week later I found a perfect copy of my penis under my pillow. It was made of wood. There were also a bunch of condoms. I didn't know what they were for and I asked my grandmother, she told me to put them on the wooden penis and then use it. I was already 12-13 years old. It wasn't until I was 20 that I realized that Mom and Dad were up to date.
Come to reality, forget your medieval morality.
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sexyoftm answered · July 23, 2020
I know where my mother keeps her vibrators, but I haven't told them. One is a large silicone. The second is smaller metallic and smooth. It is written on the Internet that it is anal.
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guyfromthewest answered · July 24, 2020
32 people give competent advice. Two are waiting for approval ... And most of you think that it is normal at 16 to dig in your parents' bedroom, and if you accidentally find a vibrator, immediately use it as your own ?! And should the parents be happy and grateful that their child is normal? Take your pills, people
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ambrosiasparkles answered · July 24, 2020
The other time, not a red thread, but a ribbon, and make sure he doesn't find the gun.
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sunchari answered · July 24, 2020
It is normal to be interested in these things. My parents accepted surprisingly calmly that I was masturbating with my mother's panties. When I was first ... caught doing it, they just explained to me that I had to be careful not to have such ... bumps.
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pussynow1 answered · July 24, 2020
Tell her directly that you know about the vibrator. Tell her it's immoral and she shouldn't have sex before the first wedding night. Impose appropriate punishments on her - without going out to restaurants, without pocket money. Get her a computer and all the privileges. Make control calls to her unexpectedly.
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brett145 answered · July 24, 2020
To 32: Come on! It was unhygienic to use a vibrator by different people. Is it more hygienic to use the same penis by different people?