Hello! Recently, my parents started asking me what I thought about the grass, if I had tried it, etc. The truth is that I have tried several times, but I have not smoked for at least 3 months. 2 days ago, when I came home we just had a lot of fun and fun for no apparent reason, in fact there was a reason, a girl, but I do not talk to my parents about such things. So, seeing that I was having a lot of fun, he asked me if I smoked weed today, and I told him I hadn't smoked and had never tried. I lied to him, yes ... but I still can't tell him that he smokes weed, he knows about cigarettes. They talked to me about drugs all night, and I felt dull or rather nauseous because they told me the same thing, I didn't listen to their words, and I went to my room to go to bed. Okay so far .. But in the morning my father asked me again if I smoked, he explained to me, that I don't need it, etc. I told him again that I did not smoke weed, nor did I try. This is repeated every day. How can I explain to him that I do NOT smoke? I'm just happy and joyful, because maybe I found the girl for me, there's no reason to sit down and I'm happy .. I'm 17 years old, I have well above average success for the Bulgarian student, I go to training, go out with friends .. Any advice? :)
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If you are as successful as you say and listen to your parents, they will hardly think you smoke weed. Tell them you know how harmful it is and you wouldn't even try because your parents think in a limited way and never, but never tell them you've smoked even once.
Looks like you have a great life. Have fun. I think you have to be honest with them. Go in front of them and tell them, "Mom, Dad, I asked for weed a few months ago, I didn't like it, and I've never taken more since. The reason I'm happy is that a lot of things are changing in my life for the better: I have friends, my success is good, I have no problems - what more? I am sorry for my previous act and I promise that from now on I will be honest with you. "And I think that this way you will both gain their trust and calm them down. Congratulations and good luck !!!
The simplest solution - tell them about the girl, that's why you're happy, for example. On the other hand, you can just ignore them. In my family, when they decided that I smoked weed, I never managed to dissuade them until they realized, the funniest thing is that I don't smoke cigarettes either, but parents ... what can a person do? Maybe you should talk to them about why they think they heard you smoke weed, because they can't have decided it out of nowhere, or so I guess. Good luck.
Tip: - Never lie! When a person lies, he is always noticed by those around him, so your father is suspicious of you; Why did you lie to him (and not once), why didn't you tell him the truth, tried it once but didn't like it and didn't try again? At 17, you think you're very big, but when they turn white, you look like shitty babies. Your father wants to take action in time and protect you, because then he will not be able to save you. He does it for your own good, for that you should be grateful to him, and not talk him out of the forums. And when you are so arrogant, wait another year, become an adult and get away from your father, then break your head as you wish.
Take him with you for a blood test, and you'll convince him that you don't smoke.
hello, first you can't say you don't smoke ... unless the question was: "do you smoke today?". It's normal for your parents to worry, especially if you haven't been in such a good mood before. Tell them you're in a good mood for a girl and end it.
Tell them to do a test from the pharmacy, they are 4-5 BGN and you can't report for 2 months unless you have the slowest metabolism. This way they will be calm and will have no reason to doubt you :)
Call your father and pee in front of him on a test for all kinds of drugs and if you are sure that you did not take anything, the test will show a negative in all paragraphs. Some time ago I gave urine in a plastic bag or in a condom (because I don't take drugs) to friends whose parents want to do a drug test for them :). Who hasn't made these marafettes. And we were 15-16 years old. But you, because you do not take, have nothing to fear. Even ask yourself to do tests and you will see that everything will be ok. Regards, Uzunov
The easiest solution is to tell your father to buy you a weed test from the pharmacy, pee in a cup and dip a strip inside and show if you smoked weed and it will calm down, but the big problem is that it shows in the relatives 8 months, and you haven't smoked for 3 days, it will turn out that you smoked, you have to wait for your body to clear and then tell him to do the test for you, to calm down. Otherwise, for now you can explain to him how harmful the grass is and how you do not want to waste your future. I am a girl and I smoke weed, although rarely, but I have in us and my whole room measures without smoking inside and ours asked me like yours and I scolded them and gave them a lecture that I am a smart girl and what they say offends me and that I want to have a future and I don't smoke and they believed me.
If your parents question you so insistently, then they know you're lying. The best thing you can do is be honest "I tried some time ago, I don't like it and I don't intend to try more, it was just curiosity. The girls are more interesting to me". You will see that they will calm down and leave you alone. Well, you will be watched, but that only means that you have good parents who try to protect you and ensure that you will not harm yourself. Between the ages of 13-18, it is most difficult for your children (searching for your place, unfolding the wings, etc.), but also for the parents - where will they find themselves in search, so that their wings are not overheard etc. So talk to them from time to time so that they can see that you are fine and you are not going downhill and everything will be ok. You don't need very personal things, but here, quite generally speaking "
Well, they are so very skeptical - take it for granted, so that at least yours is not wasted! :)
Pharmacies sell weed tests - if you haven't smoked for a long time, your body has been cleansed and you can take a test to prove that you don't smoke weed. This, of course, may be a bit of a last resort, but at least you'll prove you've never taken anything like it. Talk to them seriously, let them know that you are a smart boy and you know about the harm of these things, you are old enough to think for yourself. I know how annoying and unpleasant it is to be teased all the time, but they do it because they worry about you.