Hello. I know that what I will write will not be liked by 90% of the people who will read it, but ..... I am dating a married man - the greatest man I know. Our relationship is entirely based on sex, but I like that. I don't expect anything from him, I know where the border is and I don't have vain illusions. Many of you will say I'm a slut, "put yourself in his wife's shoes," and comments of that sort. Well, it's not my fault that his wife doesn't give him what he wants and he's looking elsewhere. I'll be with him until I get bored - and that won't happen soon, I think. Everything with him is great. He gave me what I wanted - me to him too. Such is life-nasty, why shouldn't we be like that with it. I don't feel guilty about anything, I don't want to ruin families, but as long as there are women like him, there will be people like me. I will read each comment and respect all of them. Everyone has the right to happiness - this is mine. Everyone has the right to an opinion - this is mine. Let me hear yours now. Thank you.
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Hello! I am a married, but very beautiful and smart woman. This man, I'm going to break up with you so fast you can't feel it. In any case, he will stay with his wife and do not believe his complaints that they do not give him what he needs. On the contrary! You are his "consolation prize" at the moment, and there is something else ... You can very easily fall in love with him and then you will suffer a lot. Be with him as you like, but be careful. I myself am now with two men and I suffer a lot for one .... of course not for mine!
I will not take anyone's position..I will neither blame.. nor will I defend .. I will only tell you that everything in this life comes back..perhaps you will one day be in the place of his lawful wife and you will understand that no you need to give a man a reason to cheat on you :) I wish you a wonderful evening
Hello! I will not judge your actions, but rather express my opinion on what the result of such a relationship would be. Feeling good about him is good. But how can you really be sure that his wife really doesn't give him what he wants. She may be doing it, but he's just decided to find a little variety outside. I also agree with one of the comments above that in time you can really fall in love with this person and then you will suffer. The fact that he is great as you describe him only attracts you even more, and one fine sunny day you will realize that you can't base this man, but will he leave his wife for you? My advice is to think carefully about where you are going with this person so that you do not fall into the trap of your own feelings. It is in the nature of each of us to look for a person who treats us well, loves us, in a word the ideal. And as much as we don't want to fall in love after we've found it, it's getting hard. One cannot command one's feelings that I have been useful.
As I listen to you: wonderful, perfect, aren't you in love anymore?
Hello, before I got married, I had a relationship with a married man and I said to myself, "What's the matter - if it's not me, he'll find another one and he'll cheat on his wife again." Gradually, I fell for him and decided that we should stop everything - and it happened. He offered to leave his wife and live together - I flatly refused. At this moment I am happily married, but naturally in this life everything comes back - my husband had caught a mistress. As soon as I found out, some quarrels broke out. Still, he stayed with me, but it took me about a month to live with him again. In conclusion, I just want to say that I do not know a man who can share with his mistress how happy he is with his wife and that his extramarital affair is a pleasure. And men apply their tricks. However, to keep a woman by their side, they have to make her feel significant in some way. I wish success to all in love !!!
Don't do what you don't want them to do to you.
For a long time I wondered if I should share what I think about your case, because the tone of this "confession" is too arrogant. Maybe because I am in the place of the deceived, deceitful wife, a waterfall of insulting words rises in my chest. My handsome man has a doll like you, which teaches him "non-standard" love and because the difference in their age is very big makes him take pills. These pills caused him to have a heart attack, but he still did not rest. For me, the satisfaction remains that in addition to having an intimate relationship with her and her friends. Remember one thing, happiness and love are not built on other people's unhappiness. If for the moment you feel satisfied and "happy", don't forget that this is the moment of Retribution!
Live your life !!! I also sleep with a married man. Sex with him is the best I've ever had in my life. I love him because our relationship is 7 years old and he knows it. He feels nothing for me except the great desire to have sex with me. After all, we haven't been bored for 7 years. For me, he is just the perfect partner, and obviously I am for him. Despite my strong feelings for him, I am glad that I love my wife and have a child recently. But he is the one who cheats. I don't think I'm the woman who should feel guilty. This is his choice. He didn't even know her when it all started between us ... I'm sorry I deepened things so much. I just wanted to say that you are experiencing the moment. Even if you fall in love ... there's nothing wrong with that, as long as you don't go so far as to ruin his family. You just set a limit and that's it. But do not deprive yourself of pleasure. Take from life what you can! Because some things should not be experienced, but experienced !!!
Hello, I am a 20-year-old woman. I have a relationship with a married woman who does not intend to leave her husband because she claims to love him, but recently shared with me that this love has become just a respect and a duty. In the meantime, I have a friend, now I have a lover, here he is on the next computer and he writes to his mistress, we are liberal :) live your life so you don't care! everything came back - yes! you have a life!