I am an 18-year-old girl and I am about to graduate. Since I am still studying, I live with ours. As for school, they have never limited me and set rules, they are not the ones who want me to be perfect. But I myself am studious, more modest and shy, but ambitious and hardworking otherwise. However, the problem is in the control over me and their behavior - it has not changed since 1st grade, seriously! To them, I'm still the little girl and they're looking at me in a pot! I understand that they want to protect me, but that's too much. After all, I am already a woman, whether they want to accept it or not. I have never been one of those who go to discos, get drunk, go out in big companies and do not go home. I go out for coffee a maximum of once a week during the day and 100 calls from them follow - where I am, who I am with, what I do. Now the vacation is even tighter! I will celebrate the first new year with friends, and our people are about to have a heart attack if someone doesn't do something to me. I chose a dress that was tighter (not naked, it's warm), and my father said I wouldn't wear this even if I had a sweater and pants. We argued a lot and finally I said that at 18 they have no right to tell me what to do. I know I live in their home, but I've always respected them, I can't stand it! They don't let me have a boyfriend because it's good to be a virgin until I get married or live with a serious man, like we're in the 19th century! And they are not Muslims, they are not even believers, they are just very old-fashioned! I'm not a money launderer, a drunk or a drug addict, or a boy. What more do they want If I really moved out, I won't let them interfere with me! I love them very much, but conversations don't help. First they argue that they think well of me, then they roar at me that they love me very much and they won't do that again, and finally the old song in a new voice! I also have a little brother, he is also obsessed, but he is quite small after all. PP My father's parents were very strict (my grandfather - a former general, my grandmother - a teacher), they, alive and well, have a very big impact on my family. We live in a medium-sized city otherwise, albeit a district one. And my mother comes from a village, and although they are quite educated with my father, they are not broad-minded and have a conservative mindset. I decided to share so you know what it's about. The other grandparents are the same and influential. In fact, I am alone against everyone. My father's parents were very strict (my grandfather - a former general, my grandmother - a teacher), they, alive and well, have a very big impact on my family. We live in a medium-sized city otherwise, albeit a district one. And my mother comes from a village, and although they are quite educated with my father, they are not broad-minded and have a conservative mindset. I decided to share so you know what it's about. The other grandparents are the same and influential. In fact, I am alone against everyone. My father's parents were very strict (my grandfather - a former general, my grandmother - a teacher), they, alive and well, have a very big impact on my family. We live in a medium-sized city otherwise, albeit a district one. And my mother comes from a village, and although they are quite educated with my father, they are not broad-minded and have a conservative mindset. I decided to share so you know what it's about. The other grandparents are the same and influential. In fact, I am alone against everyone. The other grandparents are the same and influential. In fact, I am alone against everyone. The other grandparents are the same and influential. In fact, I am alone against everyone.
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Well done to you. Here with such discipline everything will be fine. And not at the age of 16 to give whistles to drink and take drugs. Listen to yours and you will succeed. In time you will be very happy and grateful to them. God bless everyone with such parents. I have seen the consequences of bad parents who have given up on their children - such children become criminals and then have no friends and cannot find work.
You can see that you are very smart, conscientious and literate. And behind all this are the efforts of yours. Most girls your age have long tried the forbidden things and will soon be rags. That's right they don't let you have a boyfriend. Men are users and they just want sex and then they will leave you and then you will roar with a broken heart. They want to protect you because they love you and you are part of them. No one wants his daughter to be defiled and then unhappy. When I was 18, everyone around me was a drug addict, they went to the police. I was with a girl who at 13 was already having sex and at 16 she already had over 10 relationships. Is this normal? Don't you watch the news? Fighting at school, drug addiction ... the case of how those 14-year-olds undressed and beat another girl and insulted with swear words is still fresh. The best example of 'good parents and not old-fashioned' are those of Suzanne. She smokes, drinks and walks with men and is not 16 years old. It is stripped and is a complete degrader. Do you want to become like her? Do you think your parents are good people? And are they disciplined? Are you ashamed of them? Are they valuable people? Of course they are valuable but they have become so successful thanks to their parents. Not to the Suzanites in Bulgaria
Your parents are victims of their own and that explains things, but does not justify them! Their problem is that they do not realize what they have done to them and they are doing it to you to break this terrible tradition. They will not change, they are, endure a little more and take your life in your hands. Just don't go to the other extreme, I can't believe it, but I hope you don't have problems with communication and connections, because the traumas from childhood a person carries with them all his life. Here we start with stories of terrible parents who emotionally poison their children ... it's so sad! I wish you good luck!
Get out while it's time. They will not change.
Yours are not old-fashioned, but have principles, morals and know what is better for you. You better listen to them now, not to say to yourself at 30 - if my parents were talking, I had to listen to them. I'm 30 now and I want your parents to be like yours at your age and to limit me a little more.
The solution is to graduate, find a job that can be combined with lectures or study part-time and leave. For NG you go out in front of them with some clothes, take the dress in the bag and change clothes with a friend.
Girl, you're 18. Find a job and run. My situation was almost the same, at the moment when I turned 18 I started working 6 hours a day and at the same time I was studying. I moved out to live with 2 more girls and to this day I live with them. I am already 20, I am a student and I work. I manage to handle the rent and all the fees I have on my own. If you have the desire, you can achieve everything.
When you graduate, go to study in another city so that you are not in their hands. They are scared to see what is happening in the media, but they go a little overboard.