I have been married for 20 years. My husband and I have long since broken the thread of love. The time came when waking up in the morning I felt the need to be loved. This need became an urgent need, and at one point I imagined that I had found the person to feel happy with. We saw each other every day, I loved him and he said the same thing. I did not divorce so as not to hurt my children, and he did not insist. So we continued for three and a half years. I was sure that the man next to me would be faithful to me for the rest of my life, as I was to him, but alas, at a moment when I least expected him, he informed me that he had reunited with another woman, also married. It hurts terribly. I feel more unhappy than before. Advise me what to do and where to find people with my destiny who would understand me and help me get out of depression.
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Hi, I'm not a girl with a lot of experience in life, not even very big at all. I just want to tell you that because of your children, you have to deal with the situation, they don't have to suffer because of mistakes made by their father. This will stay with them for a lifetime and may reflect on their family life. Make your husband realize that he is about to destroy what he has created. That's what I can tell you. Bye and good luck.
; (wow, I'm like that too, I have an ideal for eternal love, but I don't have the strength, I already have a man next to me, but he doesn't believe in eternal love and without him I'm doomed ....
I want to share my disappointment with what I read above. My story is similar. Except my marriage years were 22. Well, on the subject. I don't understand - you can wag your tail for three years and do your pleasure, inflict moral damage on your partner, deprive him of the original right to a family, and when he finds a way to get what he is deprived of - she offended. What does this look like - you can break (without commenting on the reason, but it's been three years ... sh) and finally offended that after three years you put his horns on him, he gave it back to you. Shame, immoral, but I will refrain from using other words that are appropriate for the occasion.
I'm sorry (it's about the commentator above) but why are you making a comment when you don't understand at all what they wanted to tell you. The story is not about a wife, but about the man she has been dating for 3 and a half years.
If you can see him again, that's fine. Otherwise it is very bad. You have to look for a new lover.
No need for someone to advise you look into your heart it will show you the real way don't think about anyone else just for your happiness
I understand you perfectly! I know that you don't feel like living, that you cry and grieve constantly, that you can't sleep well at night ... You only needed one adventure to overcome and get out of this routine of family life. You shouldn't have fallen in love and gotten used to this person, but I know perfectly well that this is not very easy! It is difficult to get out of this state in which you are. Don't waste any more. Do different things by force if necessary. Do not close yourself with your feelings. If you know how much I suffer now ... I understand what you miss and what you want. Find another nice guy and have fun with him, but this time without digging. I wish you success!
IF YOU HAVE A GOOD HUSBAND, TRY TO DISCOVER YOUR FEELINGS. REMEMBER WHY YOU FELL IN LOVE WITH HIM 20 YEARS AGO. GO TO THE PLACE OF YOUR FIRST MEETING. GO WHERE YOU LIKED TO WALK THEN / OF COURSE TOGETHER /. MAKE A NEW HAIRSTYLE. RENEW YOUR WARDROBE. SURPRISE HIM WITH A ROMANTIC DINNER, JUST FOR YOU BOTH. GO SOMEWHERE TO A HOTEL ON SATURDAY AND SUNDAY. I AM SURE THAT IF YOU MAKE A LITTLE EFFORT, YOU WILL ALSO BE ABLE TO FEEL WONDERFUL IN THE FAMILY HEART. I WISH YOU SUCCESS.
Madam, I will help you a little. 1. Communicate with friends 2. Delete from your heart 3. Make new acquaintances and find the person in your heart 4. This will pass do not think about him and will pass very quickly 5. Have fun and think about happiness