Hello! I did not find a topic like mine, so I decided to ask if anyone would give me advice or if he was in a similar situation. Girl, I'm almost 20. The reason I haven't done it yet is not so much the lack of a suitable person, but the panic I start to feel almost every time I kiss a boy. Panic attacks, depressive states, worries and low self-esteem ... all this prevents me from having a full-fledged relationship and a normal sex life ... As cool as it is for me to push with a boy I like, a panic starts to rise. , doubts, arrhythmia, I'm short of breath ... it's awful! When it comes to sex, even if I want to, I run away. I have taken measures, I go to a therapist, I struggle with my problems, but I still find it difficult to relax, and I want so much:
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Seek the help of a psychologist. I don't think the problem is a joke, but I believe you will be able to deal with specialized help. You are not too old, the right boy will come when you overcome the panic.
Drink to the brim or sniff and then give boldly. Then you will wonder in your mind until now what a fool you were and what you missed.