I'm a 15-year-old girl. I listen to metal music and I like metal bands! I have red locks, I wear black bracelets, necklaces and skull stuff * my way of dressing is not black or gloomy only * immediately people think I'm some kind of puffer! They think I'm emo - but I'm not. I am actually a very smiling and positive person. I have many wonderful friends, but there are too many people who do not know me and say bad things about me! For example, on the way to school or when I come home, it often happens that someone passes by and says * Dumb emo * and starts behaving rudely! People from other classes have said how arrogant I am and that I was a very nasty person - even some thought I was fighting, but I didn't! I don't know how to show it to them. I have friends - I care about them and I always help them! I have a family - I love them so much. I try to treat people well and despite everything they still make me sick! How do I get them to stop Please advice and without hate - I do not want to change for someone :)
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You don't have to like everyone, and not everyone has to like you. Enjoy your friends and family and there is simply no point in paying attention to people who are not even close to you. :)
Hello! I am a girl of almost 15 years old who also likes mat. I like spiked bracelets, dark clothes, but I haven't dyed my hair, sometimes I dress like a metalhead. But only sometimes. I think a lot of people think I'm bloated, but it's not because of the metal. In general, I'm tighter and I don't talk much. Maybe there's something in my broadcast, I know. Otherwise, I have friends, though not many, who appreciate me, as well as a good family. I advise you not to change for the sake of others. If you are ever going to change anything, let it be because of yourself, let it be because you want it. The important thing is that there are people who support them. In general, few people can boast of real friends, glad you have them. Rejoice that there are still people who have wanted to meet you. He left those others, rather they are arrogant, as well as narrow-minded when they judge by music, which you listen to and the way you dress. I think it's very stupid to judge a person by the way he dresses or the music he listens to.
And you don't have to change! The sage speaks when he has something to say, and the fool speaks when he has something to say.
Познатооо. Lately, everyone who dresses in metal style people think of him as strange, crazy, in your case - emo and so on. I'm 18, heavy metal to the end of the world: P, and I'm usually in a band's T-shirts and sweatshirts. Some time ago I met a girl who is a scoundrel. After 15 minutes of talking to her (or rather an interrogation), I imagined that I was in a zoo, in a cage, with the inscription "Metal". And this girl says, "Yayayaya metal, let's snatch it with a stick to see how it reacts." Many people, especially between the ages of 14 and 18, when they hear metal, think mainly of bands like Immortal, Cradle of filth, etc. And of course I am the emotionally abused oligufrenes from American soaps. And they tell you you're weird without even knowing what it's about. Get used to it and don't care. If you have good friends that you care about, what do you care what someone says about you. Once your friends know what you represent, let others blow it. I am so. I broke away from a company of about 10 people and I am with them 95% of the time. There are 2 of us, all the others are hip hop and rap. At least we don't have rotten bastards. No doubt, there are people who listen to chalga and have great characters, but most are absolute muffins. Even the boys. So don't care. The problem is if your friends start talking, and believing, naughty things about you, based on various nonsense from others. In the interest of truth, then it is clear who is actually your friend. : P And when they ask you what you listen to metal just tell them "I need metal in my life, just like an eagle needs to fly" And get out :) you care what someone says about you. Once your friends know what you represent, let others blow it. I am so. I broke away from a company of about 10 people and I am with them 95% of the time. There are 2 of us, all the others are hip hop and rap. At least we don't have rotten bastards. No doubt, there are people who listen to chalga and have great characters, but most are absolute muffins. Even the boys. So don't care. The problem is if your friends start talking, and believing, naughty things about you, based on various nonsense from others. In the interest of truth, then it is clear who is actually your friend. : P And when they ask what you listen to metal just tell them "I need metal in my life, just like an eagle needs to fly" And get out :) you care what someone says about you. Once your friends know what you represent, let others blow it. I am so. I broke away from a company of about 10 people and I am with them 95% of the time. There are 2 of us, all the others are hip hop and rap. At least we don't have rotten bastards. No doubt, there are people who listen to chalga and have great characters, but most are absolute muffins. Even the boys. So don't care. The problem is if your friends start talking, and believing, naughty things about you, based on various nonsense from others. In the interest of truth, then it is clear who is actually your friend. : P And when they ask what you listen to metal just tell them "I need metal in my life, just like an eagle needs to fly" And get out :) I broke away from a company of about 10 people and I am with them 95% of the time. There are 2 of us, all the others are hip hop and rap. At least we don't have rotten bastards. No doubt, there are people who listen to chalga and have great characters, but most are absolute muffins. Even the boys. So don't care. The problem is if your friends start talking, and believing, naughty things about you, based on various nonsense from others. In the interest of truth, then it is clear who is actually your friend. : P And when they ask you what you listen to metal just tell them "I need metal in my life, just like an eagle needs to fly" And get out :) I broke away from a company of about 10 people and I am with them 95% of the time. There are 2 of us, all the others are hip hop and rap. At least we don't have rotten scum. No doubt, there are people who listen to chalga and have great characters, but most are absolute muffins. Even the boys. So don't care. The problem is if your friends start talking, and believing, naughty things about you, based on various nonsense from others. In the interest of truth, then it is clear who is actually your friend. : P And when they ask what you listen to metal just tell them "I need metal in my life, just like an eagle needs to fly" And get out :) but most are absolute muffins. Even the boys. So don't care. The problem is if your friends start talking, and believing, naughty things about you, based on various nonsense from others. In the interest of truth, then it is clear who is actually your friend. : P And when they ask you what you listen to metal just tell them "I need metal in my life, just like an eagle needs to fly" And get out :) but most are absolute muffins. Even the boys. So don't care. The problem is if your friends start talking, and believing, naughty things about you, based on various nonsense from others. In the interest of truth, then it is clear who is actually your friend. : P And when they ask you what you listen to metal just tell them "I need metal in my life, just like an eagle needs to fly" And get out :)
Haters gonna hate .. There will always be fools who will not like you just because you are different. Don't pay attention to them "They hate me because I'm different ... I will hate them because they are the same!"