Hello, What do you think about people who have a habit of shouting when they don't like something? They raise their voices when someone has a different opinion from them and they want to impose themselves, argue, and create scandals, rejoice, make fun of, etc. They do not know how to have a calm and meaningful conversation, and are not interested in the other in communication, interrupt it, shout, get up, and everything I described above. How would you liken such behavior? It is clear that the person is as he is, he will not change, it is a matter of character of emotional maturity, of upbringing even, but I am interested in reading someone else's opinion. Do you meet such people and where, how often, do they predominate in your daily life or rather not?
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Well, don't you see that 99% of the Ganyovites are just like that. Don't you see that here, when a complex peasant is told the truth and what people do in real life, they immediately eat themselves in the comments. It is clear that his thinking has nothing to do with reality, but he is pushing more and more to impose himself. To most people, it may seem like a quarrel between simple peasants in the market, but I think it's a serious mental problem looking at what extreme and unrealistic statements they come up with. It's like dealing with a schizophrenic, he's daydreaming and you don't know when and how he's going crazy.
Those who impose themselves and make fun of themselves are not always the same ones who "shout." There are people who behave aggressively without raising their voice and without using obscene words. These people also interrupt and cannot accept other people's opinions because they consider themselves the smartest in the world. These people cause others to shout and shout quite often. Otherwise, it is clear that shouting is not pleasant to anyone. People shout at each other when they can't understand each other. I know, you're talking about those who raise their voice about everything, they just don't have the ability to be patient. But not everyone who raises their voice can be put under this common denominator of "irritant". Quite often he is annoyed. Usually the irritants are the ones that provoke them and they throw them off balance. Then it is clear what is happening. But they annoy me more, those who wave a finger and just want to slap you without being able to listen to you. These people challenge you to yell at them, and then they complain about you, and they get the bad guy because you "shouted." Another issue is that they did not hear what you shouted and did not understand what you shouted. You can't talk to such people normally either, because they provoke with their arrogance. Not only do they get on your nerves, but then they reproach you for screaming. It almost turns out that you did something wrong and that only you have to listen. That is why it is best to stay away from such people. So they don't get on your nerves, nor is there a chance for someone to shout and get out of your nerves. Another issue is that they did not hear what you shouted and did not understand what you shouted. You can't talk to such people normally either, because they provoke with their arrogance. Not only do they get on your nerves, but then they reproach you for shouting. It almost turns out that you did something wrong and that only you have to listen. That is why it is best to stay away from such people. So neither do they get on your nerves, nor is there a chance for someone to shout and get out of your nerves. Another issue is that they did not hear what you shouted and did not understand what you shouted. You can't talk to such people normally either, because they provoke with their arrogance. Not only do they get on your nerves, but then they reproach you for shouting. It almost turns out that you did something wrong and that only you have to listen. That is why it is best to stay away from such people. So neither do they get on your nerves, nor is there a chance for someone to shout and get out of your nerves. That is why it is best to stay away from such people. So neither do they get on your nerves, nor is there a chance for someone to shout and get out of your nerves. That is why it is best to stay away from such people. So they don't get on your nerves, nor is there a chance for someone to shout and get out of your nerves.
There is a difference between your title and what you described after that. According to the title - I am personally more temperamental and impulsive by nature. I have learned to behave in a balanced way, but my character is a character and in certain, I emphasize certain situations in which I think I am right, and the other side is trying to bother me or carry water from 9 wells - I'm crazy :) With reasonable and sincere dialogue, without cunning, or talking, there is nothing to get me out of control, on the contrary, conversation is a pleasure. But if someone thinks that he will push cheap numbers, undermining my intellect, it is disrespect to me, I reflect on the same. What you are describing is a person who is insecure, reacting at the first sign.
They irritate me and I try to avoid them. Screaming is a sign of rudeness and lack of basic communication skills. Obviously you mean someone. If he is close to you and it bothers you, be honest with him, and tell him to try to limit the treble, because he doesn't help with anything.
As a person who has endured such people for many years, I will tell you that these are complexes that rely on the simplest manipulation of fear. When they shout or pretend to be scary, they impose themselves, but it is important to note that in many cases they raise their voices most deliberately because they have noticed how people are startled by someone who pretends to be crazy.
just this type of people can be quite successful!
I think I communicate with such people relatively well. My relatives describe me as very calm and balanced, although I know about my labile moments, but surely it has an impact. I speak the same to everyone, I avoid raising my voice, I try to be a mediator in a situation where the tension is rising. This does not mean that I do not express my opinion, but that I try not to be a participant in intrigues. I am looking for an approach for each person, there is no universal way. I also know more emotional people. It happened that I said something and the person in front of me got up, lit a cigarette, started shouting and knocking, raising everything on his head. I let him scream. How much can he shout at all if I don't react? It usually takes about a minute or two to relax a bit. I ask him why he is shouting, what has affected him, what has bothered him, what compromise he can come up with and what exactly he disagrees with. Believe it or not, a large number of people drop their degrees when they get such a reaction. Then the conversation becomes more constructive, although it is still emotional. At least we listen to each other, and that's enough for me. I avoid conflicting personalities. Around the dry forest and wet. I am such a person, I like to be quiet and I avoid noise and aggression. I do not meet such people every day because I avoid them becoming part of my environment. Sometimes a stranger decides to shout about something small - it could be a customer, it could be the person in the next seat on the bus, it could be a neighbor or a passerby, but that doesn't bother me much. Again, I wait for him to get his emotion out and ask him exactly what he wants to do and what exactly has made him so angry. Sometimes a person just blames the day, and others obviously blame life. I don't bother with their problems, there's no point in thinking they're on my head. I like emotional people, with them everything is sincere, but I do not like aggression, I do not tolerate it and I do not allow it in my life.
Well, according to my observations, most Bulgarians are like that, especially from the previous generations of the sets born before the 80s. Well, not that there are no calm and balanced among them, but most of them are not. As of course, there are a lot of those in question in your topic and in the newer sets, but they are less compared to the previous sets, at least according to my observations. In general, it seems that the poorer countries are still like that - irritable, with a lot of complexes and a strong desire, but unrealized (due to huge lack of emotional and social intelligence, and often abilities) in the external environment (think in society, in work, etc.) to command, to be perceived as an authority. That's why they behave as you described quite well and, which is why I don't see any sense in writing more :) I will only conclude that Bulgaria is a country of complexes,
To me, this is an internally insecure person who thinks that by shouting and shouting at others, someone will pay attention to him. If you know the price and know how to defend your opinion, you just don't need to shout and force yourself to convince others of your rights. By the way, this is quite typical behavior for domestic abusers, with the difference that their violence escalates and leads to beatings, but internally they are just pathetic people who feel a frantic fear that no one respects them and think, that by shouting they will gain respect. A pitiful story! With shouting and shouting you will not achieve anything with me, at the same time I know people who are enough to say just one word to me and in a completely calm tone and I know that it is better to agree and end the argument. However, these people have earned my respect and precisely because I know them well, I do not allow myself to pretend to be open to them. Otherwise, if someone yells at me and stomps on me… will apologize to me, but he looks like a spoiled child who thinks that by jealousy with his whole throat and stomping his feet repeating "Iskaaaaaaammmmmm!" To infinity and finally there is no way to does not become his. Well, yes, but it doesn't work.
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