Hello! I am a normal 16 year old girl. The problem is that a mentally ill acquaintance of my mother's (34) has cast an eye on me. I never liked this man, even when I met him he seemed disgusting. I am kind out of decency, but I don't want to have any connection with him, I don't want to meet him in my life at all, I want to forget that he has it. As nasty as it sounds, this is the truth itself. I'm scared, he's still mentally retarded, I understand that maybe he wants to have a boyfriend, but I'm not the man. I told ours and even cried. They told me he wasn't bad. Dad stayed serious, but Mom laughed and started convincing me not to worry that he just wanted to communicate. He offered me to go for coffee after school, to use the Internet, he shouted '' You know you're in strong hands! ''... What do you think.. I explained to my mother that I would not talk to him anymore and I would do that .. Who knows what he had in mind if he caught me .. I can't .. I just shiver with terror .. This will haunt me for a long time, I will not forget it soon .. Why does it happen to me that he is the first MAN !!! who pays attention to me .. What to do .. HELP !!!
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If he understands what you're telling him, tell him you don't want him around. Tell him to keep his distance and I guess that's exactly what he'll do if you tell him.
I have nothing to lie to you .. it's a joke: XX .. and I would be scared .. but you have to take matters into your own hands ..! means: avoid him (when your mother or one of you wants to see him you say you don't want to ..) if you want try to talk to him but if there really is a mental problem it will be difficult but still try .. show his that you are not interested .. I understand you completely ..! There is nothing for anyone to lie to you .. There is a reason to fool around, but try not to think about it and so on .. :) this will pass .. SUCCESS :)
Complain to the landlord, you personally. Then tell him you really did it. №2, the author says that she will not forget the incident for the rest of her life, because he appeared as her first boyfriend and that is why the perpetrator will hardly "pass". Because the author is not very likely to find out the reason why he looks at a minor, since he is insane, outwardly.
The first and last piece of advice I want to give you is ... it is very rare to write on such sites, because 70% of the commenters here give extremely funny and stupid advice, such as with the house manager (nothing personal to number 3). Consider all the options by which you have the opportunity to avoid this person. As a last resort, talk to your FATHER more seriously about this case.
№ 4, even if the author does not complain, may intimidate the person in question. But intimidation is not recommended, because it has become established even in timid criminals.
Pretend you're already busy. When he invites you for coffee again or to use the Internet, deviate by saying that you have a date with a boy. This non-existent boy can gradually become the "serious relationship" and even the "love of my life" to stop him from trying to do anything with you. If this number works, be careful not to pay attention to it. If you want to feel safer and not be so afraid of it, take some self-defense tool - spray or folding stick, but learn how to use them most effectively. Or the person may not be mentally retarded, but simply shy or closed / introverted. It may be crazy, but it can be completely harmless. Are you sure that your assessment as a 16-year-old girl is correct for him? I guess your parents knew him for a long time, than you him. They may have known him when he was a kid. Take more conversations with them and find out what kind of person he is and whether you should really be afraid of him.
The author should be very careful with such people
Share your worries with your mother ... or just talk to him at the right time.