I'm an 18-year-old girl ... but what happens to me torments me, and I want to get advice on how I can stop thinking and love a person. so far I haven't had an affair with any boy ... I don't know why ... those who like me I don't like them those who like me they don't like me ... I met one of the chats we exchanged phone numbers - every day SMS The problem was that I showed him a picture that was not really me, but a girl who looked a lot like me. He kept telling me that he would come to see me, that he liked me, that he fell in love with me. in beauty and in my heart and thinks serious things about killing us, etc ... I decided to tell him the truth and showed him my picture ... He asked me why I did it ... I explained to him then he told me that nothing it hasn't changed in him that he loves me again ...
But I feel that he wants to get away from me without hurting me. I really seem to have fallen in love with him, I constantly think about him, I cry, I don't go out, I don't talk to anyone, I just think what will happen ... He stopped texting me, to call me after I showed him my picture. We chatted once after that for 5 minutes and I couldn't ask him what he decided, what will happen - we will continue or we will end please give advice on how to sleep, what to do, especially what to tell him ...
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These are obsolete. Tighten up, you're so curled up that you love him, you even believed. You can't fall in love with someone without seeing him live and having something to do with him. On the phone, everything is rosy, but the reality is completely different. And I was a crazy four-year-old and I talked to a guy all night and they paid our phone bill, but I'm telling you, this is complete nonsense. After all, my advice is, don't bother at all. Forget about the whole story and the chat - this is great nonsense, you will see for yourself in time, and meet real people in real situations. Good luck :)
IT'S VERY BAD, THAT'S NOT BEING DONE THAT, AND HE'S A HUMAN AND THIS IS NOT HUMAN. IF YOU ARE TREATED THE WAY YOU WILL FEEL. THINK AND CONCLUDE BETTER THIS CONNECTION THAT HAS NEVER EXISTED.
Let this be an earring on your ear! Never underestimate yourself to be who you are and not another! Overcome your complexes, be honest with others and believe me you will get what you sowed! I advise you to call him to apologize for everything you lied to him without panicking and to tell him that everything from now on depends on him that for the time you wrote to each other you loved him more or less and that you are terribly blamed for what you did. If he wants and has feelings for the person he wrote to, I believe he will forgive, but if he ignores you, he is either too selfish or he simply has no serious intentions towards you. And one more piece of advice, go outside, believe me, it's better and truer than contact EYES IN EYES there is no chat left for your friends to find out where, when, what to do and love is looking away from cables and buttons; P
So, I think it's best to apologize to him and tell him everything you feel about him (if you feel anything at all)
When there are lies in the relationship between two people, you always get there.
Kiss .. there is no way to pull if he wants you .. and at least you will feel how he feels ... just if he does not want you and there is no dragging the kiss will not work.
Well, now you're writing to him anyway and we'll either continue where we went or I'll grab my rags. If he starts dodging from you, you can only conclude that he doesn't want you ... and that he's not even in love with you and the words that I fell in love with you so much not in beauty but in your heart were a kind of lie because if it was so he would not stop writing to you and avoid you after all if he loved you he would not behave like that ... Think a little more realistically, there is no point in fooling yourself if there is no hope .....
Meet him face to face. Then to draw :))
The sooner you forget it, the better for you.
I want to ask if it's bad to go out with someone older than me .. say-1, 2, 3 years .. many people think it's funny, but for me age does not matter