I am a 19-year-old girl and Mr. Inaccessible is 22. Some time ago we met on Facebook, we wrote to each other for a while, we talked on the phone because we are not from the same city. During this time he did not stop looking for me and called. We met and understood that there can be nothing more than sex between us for now. Just sex. That was the deal. For the first time in my life, I decided to relax and do what I wanted, not what I needed to do. Even after our first meeting, I was left with my mouth open. He spoke vaguely, saying everything in half. We debated whether a relationship that started only with sex could stay that way or would necessarily change. He said he could, but in general it depends on the person. Then he asked me with a sneer, “Aren't you going to chase me now?” I laughed and thought he was thinking of a big macho. He is really very beautiful, he has a terrible charm and a killer look. The next few days before our second meeting, I realized that this man was going to be difficult, that he was pretending to be inaccessible, and he wanted me to look for him.
At our second meeting, he got angry because I complained about where we were and a bunch of other things and did it to change them. He was obviously nervous about my whims. We kissed, undressed, and he asked me if he would do it with or without. I said with, and he got even more nervous. We got somewhere. We did it for 1-2 minutes, then he pulled away, I started to kiss him, and he turned his head. I asked him what was going on, and he just replied, “I don’t want to!” On the way home, he didn’t say a word, didn’t want to give me any explanation. I called him the next day. We stayed with the appointment to see each other, to call me in the evening to arrange details. He didn't call and said he had forgotten. After a few days, I asked him again with the question of whether there would be any "friendship with privileges" between us or not. The answer was that we could get along, but not on the phone, but when we saw each other. I offered to call him later to make an appointment, but he hung up twice. What is he doing? What does he want?
Why did he give up when we got to what we both wanted?
I am open to any opinions, advice, etc. Thank you for your attention! :)) what do we both want? I am open to any opinions, advice, etc. Thank you for your attention! :)) what do we both want? I am open to any opinions, advice, etc. Thank you for your attention! :))
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Hahahahahahaha. This is a large compressed air. Once you started doing it and then he didn't want it to happen (or more precisely not-happened) only one thing - it didn't happen to him :))). And under the pretext of pretending to be inaccessible, he wanted to get out of the situation. I am a man, so you can trust my judgment and opinion. I think he's also worried about you not being able to do the job. Which is no problem, but it just behaves dumb. Megatron
remain a familiar situation from my experience so far, gain another ten pounds, mention beforehand that you do not like hair removal and are very much against razors, hint that only Italian prostitutes wear thongs, and you prefer comfortable and cotton pants, tell him that only porn actresses make "blowjobs" and see the result, if everything described here does not apply to YOU 1. My apologies, or 2 it means he is gay with respect: Alexander
Don't you guess? The man didn't get his dick, which I think is completely normal after your whims and your grunts. Either it's just sex or it's not. I don't think you're into it yourself, and he's even more so. You better find a real macho and fuck him. You don't need sex, you need a real man and a real relationship.
From the author: Thanks for what you said, but still, give me some advice. I really like how it looks, how it kisses and other similar things, which for me are completely enough for JUST SEX. I would like to see you. So, give me advice, what to do, keep looking for it or what?
PS by the author: As for the comment on number 3, I soon ended a long and painful, for me, relationship. I don't need a commitment right now. I need something that doesn't bother me. My apologies, but I don't like having sex in a public place full of people in a car. If it's sex, be it. After all, I'm not some blood that is ready for anything, just to have sex.
And I'm in the same situation only that in my case it's my fault that it happened that way ... explain to me how to convince him that there is no problem with that?
Congratulations, you came across not a man, but a little lady. Enjoy!
No, no ... Congratulations, you came across a man! The man just wants a hole in which to occasionally put it for variety. You say yourself that it is attractive, which means that it has a great choice. After you started applying various murafats on the second date, the person decided that there was no point in wasting time with you, because he has a large enough choice. Something almost the same happened to me. Tanned checkers here will never understand it because they are ready to do anything just to smell a pussy and would tolerate all sorts of tricks and claims. Don't listen to their advice. A real man is not the one who will do everything possible to have a woman. On the contrary - he has a lot and can choose. He does not tolerate excessive pretensions, especially from women with whom he is not committed. He may not have liked sex with you or you may not be attractive naked yourself. If in the middle of his sex he fell as they write above, then this does not speak badly about him, but rather about you. That's the truth - you're not good enough for him.