In the end, it's all about money and interests. Especially with the younger ones, in their heads is only who has what money, property and cars, then you are loved and busy, otherwise you are barely noticeable in the gray mass. Even if there was a thrill and love in the beginning, it gradually fades or fades and everyday life, money, interests, benefits come to the fore. Even in long-term relationships, material interests, the benefit of someone or something, the habit of the good old, and only then love and affection are in the foreground. So my question to women is - did you have sex for money, an expensive gift, promotion and tolerance at work or other benefits - or was it all dictated by love, affection, thrill? Or the material has never seduced you. The question for men is - did you give money or other benefits to a woman to have sex with you or did you take her off only because of your physical and intellectual qualities? I am a man and I admit that I gave money and gifts to women to have sex with me. I'm not talking about professional prostitutes, but about ordinary women from everyday life. You are on the move - let's see if you are all spiritually elevated and have sex only out of love and feelings and only I am the offshoot of society and have resorted to giving money.
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I am a woman, with a clear conscience I can say that I have never had sex for money, gifts or business gain. And what of it? For me everything happened the hard way, I did not bloom and tie. Yes, we live well with the man me, but it's because we work hard. And an acquaintance of ours, who is not even a beauty, played her cards so well and plucked so many men to the core - one even attributed a great house. I, like you, wonder who is the most profitable in all this work. Maybe it's not me ...
I haven't had sex for money. My husband didn't own anything when we met - now we have a high standard and we are happy with our lives, but we started from scratch and built everything together. I also have women around me who, when choosing a man, are primarily interested in what he owns and how much he is willing to give them. Unlike number 1, however, my observations are that they score it themselves with this attitude, and firmly. I don't see that they have failed, on the contrary, they have rather harmed themselves and for some of them it is too late to start a normal family. Men are not so stupid - seeing that he is not interested in them, but in their money, they simply have no hesitation in using it to the maximum and treating it as garbage, and then dumping it without any remorse. Whatever called - that's what called.
I've never had sex for money. But I only need a few minutes for the man to grab me and after one or two days to be his, why not the same night hahah. The attitude wins. If men were better at words and attitudes toward women, they wouldn't have to pay. Hey why wasn't I born a man !!!?!
I've only been with two, one is my husband. Let me tell you, I want him to take me there, to buy me presents, but I don't have such a man. I haven't watched these things, but it's nice to have them sometimes. He is definitely not given money to make me happy.
As for me, I do not regret that I have never sold myself, not that I have not had opportunities and offers ... True, I have not gotten rich, I have not achieved career peaks, but I sleep peacefully ... We live with my old boy and I can look our children in the eye with a clear conscience.
I am a divorced woman of 34. I have a daughter of 7 years. I do not rely on my ex-husband. I stopped believing in pure and sincere love a long time ago. I'm not looking for a man to share my life with. I just want to raise my child calmly. I have a high percentage of male attention. I hate tight men. However, I will never sleep with a man just because he gave me one or two compliments or treated me to a cup of coffee or a dinner. There is still a lot of work to be done. Draw your own conclusions ?!
6, you are now 34 and if you are saved, they are still working for you. But after 5-10 they will not work, and after that much more you will have to work for them. After 5 more and work you will not shine. It's not hate, I'm just saying that now you have a choice and that's why you don't get caught up in 2 compliments, but then you will look for those compliments, but there won't be any.
The only reason I slept with a man was because he was physically attracted to me. What I got in return was what I wanted - sex. In my opinion, men who think that women generally do it for material gain are quite complex. That's why many people try to "persuade" someone in this way. Of course, they only succeed with such. With others they have no chance.
I have not had sex for money or any other material gain. Only by love / physical attraction. But I've been thinking about it ... I wouldn't say I've been in love - they used me, insulted me, some killed their complexes on me, and so on. Then I started asking myself what is the point? Obviously no one will love me sincerely, I will always be the one with a broken heart, at least to get something, even material. I'm a little jealous of women who can grit their teeth and sleep with a rich uncle.
I can't speak on behalf of all women, I think that the generalizations like "they, everyone wants money, the young now like that, the old like that ..." are stupid and untrue. Nobody has observations on everyone to make such conclusions. with her husband when we were students, he was left without a father (died) from a baby, they lived on his mother's small salary, scholarship and money earned by him.You can imagine what riches we are talking about ... When we got married most -our valuables were books and paintings.Now - our children.Plus books, paintings and pets.We may not be rich, but we have never sold- in every sense for money, posts, benefits, etc. and I'm proud of that. That's what we taught our children. He never deprived me of gifts, flowers, travel, etc., to the best of my ability, of course.
I am a man, I have never given money or gifts for sex. I am lucky to have grown up in a good environment, and over time I have surrounded myself with quality and decent people - men and women. I'm not rich, I'm not poor. I have always "won sex" with vision and character. Life is as you made it. If you are in the company of some playmates, mercantile women and mutres, you will probably think that everything happens with a lot of money. If you are in the company of normal, working and educated women with ambition and intelligence in their heads, then you will not need money for sex.
I could never sleep with anyone for money. It is simply impossible because: 1. It is below my morals and dignity. 2. I am terribly disgusted. If it's for money, then I don't like the man, and if I don't like him, then he is at least disgusting to me, and if he dislikes me, I can't have sex or anything else with him. Only when I imagine it and it rises ... 3. I make my own money, with honest work. I don't need strangers. It doesn't take me long to be happy. I just need a young, handsome, valuable, honest and moral man with whom we can build a beautiful future TOGETHER. F, 22
Author, I have now read the other comments. They write people who do not have sex for money, etc., the mercantile and unprincipled are obviously embarrassed to answer you frankly.
Everyone looks at their own interest, you're right! He grabbed me like a man, with intellect, charm and an incredible sense of humor, but since I saw his huge penis ... I realized what an amazing curiosity I really am ...! I don't stop wanting this cool, crazy, pink head everywhere in me and I don't even think about restaurants, vacations and expenses ... Only sex is in my head, but that's what I was looking for - that's what I found! :-))
I am the author - from what I have read so far I understand that I live in the Island of Morality inhabited by principled, moneyless people who may not be very rich… but for money or other benefits would never be willing to compromise with their body and conscience and it was for a sex that would bring them financial relief or other relief in domestic or business aspect. As in my initial post on the topic, I clearly noted that I am the only offshoot of society after I honestly admitted that I gave women money and gave them gifts / coat, shoes, excursion, dinner, etc./ to have sex with me as well as the few ladies who have accepted my humble generosity. Interesting !!!
A 43-year-old woman. I am. My first relationships were until I was 19. And they all started with chemistry and passion. They didn't buy me presents, but a flower, coffee was something in order, even after we were in a relationship. Now, after my divorce, I was in a relationship with a man. He was a normal man working in a company. And yes, at our first meetings I expected him to take over the bills, even though I insisted on paying. I am from the old generation and after a man invited me to a meeting I expect him to try.
15 - What is so interesting to him? That some have self-respect, pride, principles and do not want to go to bed with every bastard for money and gifts? If you move only among women who are sold, you do not believe that there are others. As there are cool men who receive attention, love or just sex without paying with something material. Different people, different ideals. You ask, people answer you. It's your job, if you want to believe, if you want - no, ironize, make fun of, that's all.
I'll admit it, haha and I don't see anything wrong. I had a friend, I was faithful, he didn't value me very much. I worked in 2 places for no money and I was severely humiliated, I had loans and second-hand clothes. I went abroad as a prostitute and in 3 months I earned 20 thousand net savings. Which do you think I will choose ?? The love of words and the interest of some mold, to serve him? Come on without
Dude, do you really expect these "revelations" to spill out here now? Few women have sex for money, but that doesn't mean they don't look for sex with men for money ... There's a difference. The second category, at least, they think they retain dignity, and simply prefer successful men with money who "delight" them with gifts. The border is difficult to define, but unless you get involved with an extreme feminist, your female nature is always somewhere around that border ... But I also don't understand why you overestimate the "thrill" so much ... In the end, a person is born with certain genes, you can push in the gym, but in general the physics is predetermined. If you ask me, this is even more superficial, but that's how life works ... And the intellect in relationships? What exactly do you understand? How well will you be able to deceive her? To play the idea of the perfect man? Because as far as I know few women are interested in things like quantum physics, the universe, philosophy, mathematics, etc., etc. In fact, your ability to make money is actually the best reflection of the intellect ... So no I understand the psyche of the Bulgarian, always accusing women of mercantilism. Well, they're mercantile, that's their nature, if you were intelligent you'd understand why. Most women can't and are ashamed, so they turn around and lie. This is also their nature. That is, an intelligent man would never ask a woman about anything. Women also hate to ask them because they have to lie ... mathematics, etc., etc. That is, in fact, your ability to make money is the best reflection of the intellect ... That is why I do not understand the psyche of the Bulgarian, always accusing women of mercantilism. Well, they're mercantile, that's their nature, if you were intelligent you'd understand why. Most women can't and are ashamed, so they turn around and lie. This is also their nature. That is, an intelligent man would never ask a woman about anything. Women also hate to ask them because they have to lie ... mathematics, etc., etc. That is, in fact, your ability to make money is the best reflection of the intellect ... That is why I do not understand the psyche of the Bulgarian, always accusing women of mercantilism. Well, they're mercantile, that's their nature, if you were intelligent you'd understand why. Most women can't and are ashamed, so they turn around and lie. This is also their nature. That is, an intelligent man would never ask a woman about anything. Women also hate to ask them because they have to lie ... This is also their nature. That is, an intelligent man would never ask a woman about anything. Women also hate to ask them because they have to lie ... This is also their nature. That is, an intelligent man would never ask a woman about anything. Women also hate to ask them because they have to lie ...
Number 15, number 20 wrote it exactly as it is. Some women may be self-deluded, but their motivation is clear. Nature as it is correctly expressed 20.
From the author - It's supposed to be anonymous on the site, then I don't see what the problem is to share if you had sex with a commercial note. You turn out to be great moralists, but you also turn out to be great fools and swindlers. Fake and pretentious. It will suit him on the site not to "share" but "how to present himself in the best light".
Bray, how many saints !!! Knowing what happened in all the offices I've worked in, I don't trust you at all. Yes, each will withdraw offended at a direct offer, but each with a well-served one will try to cash it in as much as possible. Usually those who would not do so are from better financial families. Those who grew up in a poorer environment usually worship money and are ready for many things ...
Author, you ask for honest answers, but when the ones you receive do not match your preconceived opinion, you start with high-sounding summaries and labels. The title of your topic was supposed to be, "give the answers that will confirm my ideas about the world so that I can sleep peacefully tonight." You are not looking for the truth. Think about why it's so important for you to make women like that. And remember, when you have a problem, it is best to look for a solution, not empty reassurance.
The author simply cannot believe that not everyone is a "shoot" like him. Here he looked for like-minded people and their non-discovery irritated him. Author, when you change the category of women from prostitutes to normal women, you will see the difference. Yours is like living at the North Pole and denying the existence of heat in other parts of the world. There is, however, a more serious problem. Even if you meet someone right, she's hardly been with someone like you. You are both congested, angry, and a whore, that you are even illiterate ...
Everyone watches from their own bell tower and judges from their own experience. For me, the author is biased and it is pointless to answer him or give him any answers. That he insults, ironizes and snorts like a pinched girl. What's so amazing about it - there are many women who don't have sex for gifts. There are also many men who do not have to pay for sex with gifts. Author, I don't understand why you're asking a question when you're not ready to hear the answers - you could just post a topic to let us know how things are. I have nothing more to add, henceforth to assert or persuade anyone in anything becomes absurd and superfluous. Everyone has a head on their shoulders and their own truth, proven by experience. From number 2
To "please" the author. From the age of 19 until I was 27, it has happened to me several times to literally have sex for money with different men. The gentleman pays, we do it and I leave. I didn't like them because of the money. We formed friendly relations with one of them and we did it for money, but in the end he always gave it to me, and I liked it, but again I did it for the money. It happened to another of them that he stopped paying me and we started seeing each other for pleasure, I finally fell in love with him and so on. Now I am alone.
to 25 - When we have no arguments to defend our thesis, reproaches and insults come to the fore - hem ... hem .... hem, etc. Finally, to insert something about illiteracy, but what is it you do not specify, even if there is some elementary omission - sorry here we are not a circle and a forum on spelling and grammar. Which proves once again that you lack arguments to defend your own position, if you have one at all. However, the facts of life, what I have met and experienced, my observations of people around me, acquaintances and strangers say something completely different and that is that many women benefit from material benefits and services against intimacy, as long as you offer them more appropriate and not in a public way. Fact.
to 27 - Well done for the courage you admitted, no one went to judge you or stone you. Counting the sins of others does not make you a saint. This is a forum to share, to learn from the mistakes and life experiences of others. Good luck.