I don't want help, I just want to tell myself. They took my girl again. At last I had a chance to find one for so long and it evaporated again. I waited too long because I thought it was tied in a towel, and finally they took it again. Every time. I am a man of 21 and I have not had an intimate relationship with a woman. Am I a pussy, a good guy, but since seventh grade I have tried to be with someone and every time with failure. One in seventh, eighth, then I was in a depressed period, a great opportunity in 11th grade that I missed because of loyalty to a friend that I now know was not deserved, then very unsuccessful and finally we get here, one I finally navi and I thought it was tied in a towel, I can wait, but I take it under my nose. On my birthday!!!! Again, I'm about to explode. With a big rifle, from the hunters, I feel like such a geek. The girl always slips away from me, why, am I cursed or rather imaginary, which stops me from acting. I am so complex that I have nowhere to go. I have already become a vicious circle, accepted as usual, to be cut and I already expect this and I accept it every time, damn it, then I leave with new hopes, they never come true, but I still believe because I am STUPID. I could fuck, but since I don't have an animal instinct, I will sleep alone, and I think forever, I no longer have any hope and obviously testosterone, to fight. His mother help, but if she can be sincere and in steps, not abstractly misleading,. because I obviously don't have the brains for indirect advice. Desperate, virgin and inadequate I ask you for help! What am I doing wrong, I'm really on 1 pack of cigarettes, a mask and an audition of old albums this weekend from stopping to value my life, although I try to appreciate every aspect of it, Maslow's third ladder (love and relationships) is not fulfilled and it is harder for me to get to the top and appreciate existence and his works. Help really !!! What can I do to avoid becoming an unbalanced depressed teenager? Sorry, it's very messy, I'm drunk and drunk because they reflected me. Well, I don't see anything wrong with that. A complex that grows but does not age. Thanks for the answers in advance A complex that grows but does not age. Thanks for the answers in advance A complex that grows but does not age. Thanks for the answers in advance
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Definitely not a "good guy" if you allow yourself to write drunk and intoxicated :) And now seriously: Take yourself in hand and stop with this grumbling! You sound like a sensible boy who is insecure and that's where all your anger comes from. For starters, it's a good idea to visit a smiling paid poop to show you "this-that" and stop thinking about that virginity. Then it is good to understand that you will hardly meet real friendships in life. Never leave with a basket full, because no one owes you anything and you will most likely be disappointed that you are not appreciated. The most important thing is that you value yourself and do not care about other people's evaluations. Have fun and make things like you. Most girls your age are high in the clouds and it's a matter of a drink and the whispered word on the ear at the right time to take off their panties. They are emotional and they live in the moment, so the next time you meet someone curled up, do not procrastinate but act in the moment. However, if you want something more serious and long-lasting, it is good to pay attention to the pockets 30 years and up. One of them will know how to raise your self-confidence, and will "melt your camps" from sex for which your sets are not up to it.
I think they feel like you lack sex and that keeps them from you. If they see in your face a candidate for a serious relationship, you will be with a girl. I have always avoided tanning for sex, without serious intentions. Don't hurt yourself, don't offend yourself. Each of us has a secret in his life that makes him not ok with himself. Rejoice that it is not a disease. Female, 28 years old
Just be more confident.
№ 1 - In words everything is easy, but in deeds? It should take off her pants, but from there? Don't you think that this complex will do something? At most to let him lick it, but it will not be like people. Women feel that way and just run away from them.
I really like that you write drunk and intoxicated, it's masculine. That's how men cry for help. A woman fucks with action and self-confidence. You have sensed where your mistake is and it is time to start taking consistent actions to change your way of thinking and stereotype of action. First, stop looking at women as something very important. Make an effort to start behaving with them as if they were your little sister. Be free, without tension, communicate as much as possible with all kinds of women, make them laugh casually, be a little arrogant and very self-confident. Talk to them on any topic and without putting sexual overtones and intent for dumps and sex. Learn to have a dominant male presence. Learn to make decisions and be the person who says what will happen ... especially in a group with other men, and when you are with a woman it is mandatory. Start repeating to yourself, "And I'm an extremely sexually attractive and dominant man. Women want me." It may sound silly at first, but if you keep repeating it, your brain will reprogram and gradually acquire the appropriate behavior. These self-suggestions have incredible changing power, as long as you are concentrated in them. Second, when you like a particular woman ... by no means go back to your old behavior of waiting and fear. Do not try in any way to please her in particular and to get fat, self-offer, hint at sex, etc .. Be with her slightly withdrawn, slightly disinterested and constantly challenge her with your behavior and words. Women love mysterious men who bring them emotions. The most powerful seduction technique I know is called "near-far." In short, it is expressed in the constant giving of different signals to the girl. Today you are nice to her, tomorrow you are uninterested and withdrawn, then you call her and invite her out and you break up with sex, then you disappear for a week or two. She never has to be completely sure if you like her or not, she has to wonder what you do, where you are, do you write to others, do you think about her, where is your relationship going. This technique has the power of a thermonuclear bomb, as long as you apply it consistently. Even if you are in a relationship with a girl, the technique should not be interrupted. And another thing .... Never, and for nothing, do not explain yourself verbally in love with a woman. I can't explain why, just believe me. Third, a man must always take the actions necessary to have sex with a woman. Women are designed to be passive in the early stages of a relationship, so you have to act. There is no way to avoid this if you want to have sex with a woman. The biggest fear for a woman in life is not to be thought of as "light" and "easy" .... even the lightest women are terribly offended if someone thinks they are light. A paradox that is completely normal from a psychological point of view. That's why the man acts. If you have applied the above technique and you feel that the girl is "ready", you invite her to see you and act immediately. Never be ashamed to try to kiss her, and if the circumstances are right, to take her home and fuck her. When you meet, be very kind to her, touch her lightly, talk and move slowly, and constantly look her in the eye. By the way, learn to look women in the eye and not look away until she moves it. Not in a psychopathic stare, just look confidently into their eyes. I will not explain why again, but it is extremely important. If you feel that she is "pulling" and she is not sure if you will not think of her as light if she lies down with you immediately, you can slightly calibrate with the "near-far" technique. and it will start approaching you again, then you escalate again with kisses and touches.The idea is not to let it determine what will happen, you have to be the leader and manage the situation by carefully giving and withdrawing your attention. ... and most of all with decisive action. Accept that it's normal for you to be rejected. That's okay. You better ask and be denied, than to do nothing out of fear. This is true of every situation in life, not just women. It's been a little long, but I hope I've given you good guidance.
Dude, happen to be a psychology or philosophy student? Otherwise on the issue - you have to stop thinking that the job is doomed. However, you are not so lost when you try. You just have to carefully analyze where things go wrong in these attempts of yours, because every time you are obviously on the verge of failure, and then failure. Write (if you want) the story of some of these attempts to download these chicks there so we can see where you're wrong.
Hey, author, are you a man? What are these tales and self-pity? Tighten it up, your life is starting now. The fact that some bustard cut you off is not a big loss. It may even be for the better. When you lose something, you don't know what you gained. There are a lot of women, and they are all burnt out, tanned for sex. You will have the opportunity to sleep a lot, and know that you will not look for them, but they will come to you and choose them, as long as you are healthy at the waist, and you are good with a nice appearance. There is folk wisdom: - "what is in the queen, is in the donkey"! You will see for yourself, and I hope you are not disgusted that it is not known what you will come across. There are all kinds of them. Supposedly very beautiful on the outside, but they smell awful, sometimes so much that you can "vomit your guts"! It's not worth regretting a skirt. It's more important to be healthy, right, tough and the rest comes by itself! The man is a man and he chooses how to live. In most countries of the world, men bless and worship the Lord that no women are born! Good luck!!!
From the author: I write again in no time, but this time clean sober. Thanks for the advice and comments, I did not expect to receive advice in general, that it makes sense ... but I guess if you don't really expect then it happens haha. As for the girl, I did not specify the exact situation, because my thoughts raced very quickly, and my fingers were very difficult to aim at the buttons. The woman in question has an aversion that she obviously doesn't care about. We went out a few times, at the first meeting she still came to us, I start to feel her, but she shifts her head and look, she doesn't tell me to stop. So twice, I look for her, but he doesn't look at me, he doesn't want me to kiss her. Then this birthday, she left not only with this boy, there were others with her, but in general she seeks everyone's attention. And since then he wrote to me, neska and I told him to come to us to watch a movie. He plays with his hair again, I look for it, I bask it, but he avoids my gaze. I grabbed her hand, but she pulled away and said, "Stop watching the movie." I told her not to be ashamed, but she didn't dare look me in the eye. And yes, the aver had called 2 minutes ago to hear her how she was and she said she would call him in a while haha. Off what I'm doing, anyway, it makes me nervous already, no matter what I push her more, I make and write the most direct hints that I want to fuck her, she doesn't cut me, but otherwise something and how to get her pressed more without entering the explanatory mode "hello prime that you send me indirect signals". I'm thinking of writing to see her again and tell her now, to ask her why. And so the two points of view from both extremes of my personality lol I will be happy if I get an answer, thank you aver and 2 minutes ago he had called to hear her how she was and she said she would call him in a while haha. Off what I'm doing, anyway, it makes me nervous already, no matter what I push her more, I make and write the most direct hints that I want to fuck her, she doesn't cut me, but otherwise something and how to get her pressed more without entering the explanatory mode "hello prime that you send me indirect signals". I'm thinking of writing to see her again and tell her now, to ask her why. And so the two points of view from both extremes of my personality lol I will be happy if I get an answer, thank you aver 2 minutes ago and had called to hear her how she was and she said she would call him in a while haha. Off what I'm doing, anyway, it makes me nervous already, no matter what I push her more, I make and write the most direct hints that I want to fuck her, she doesn't cut me, but otherwise something and how to get her pressed more without entering the explanatory mode "hello prime that you send me indirect signals". I'm thinking of writing to see her again and tell her now, to ask her why. And so the two points of view from both extremes of my personality lol I will be happy if I get an answer, thank you but otherwise something and n how to press it more without entering the explanatory mode "hello prime, that you send me indirect signals". I'm thinking of writing to see her again and tell her now, to ask her why. And so the two points of view from both extremes of my personality lol I will be happy if I get an answer, thank you but otherwise something and n how to press it more without entering the explanatory mode "hello prime, that you send me indirect signals". I'm thinking of writing to her to see you again and to tell her now, to ask her why. And so the two points of view from both extremes of my personality lol I will be happy if I get an answer, thank you
Dude, are you from Varna? .. I think I recognize the native dialect emanating from the sentences lol Now to the topic It is best to look at it and feel the soil, do not go directly. And, do you really want a woman who, while in a relationship, lets others look for her and seeks male attention ... these things speak eloquently ... but still, if you're used to her, see her and start from afar. Ask her how she is, and then the question. Otherwise, you will be sitting in a nasty vicious circle.