I am 15 years old. and my friend and I have been trying to do it for a while, but he doesn't come in (his member). Maybe it's because I can't relax and I'm very afraid of the pain because I've tried others. boy and he left abruptly and hurt me a lot, saying a lot .. MALE and I pulled away. Please someone give me some advice, something I can relax with !
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You're in a hurry, boy. It's quite early. Read a book about these things.
God, God! Aren't you ashamed, girl, to ask such things ?? You better read your lessons !!
See, as a start, you need to abstract from the idea of pain. Think about how good it will be for you and everything will fall into place. Again, your friend should not be in such a hurry as the previous one.
Use plenty of moisturizers and relax ... lightly, lightly, slightly lighter and he will enter.
To comments 1 and 2: What world do you live in? If she wants to do it, then she is ready for it. I am also 15 years old. I went to bed with my great love and it was great. I am now 24 years old. and I still think I did a good thing with a nice person. To the author: I think you should listen to the comment of number 3. Just relax. There are also moisturizing gels (lubricants) that are sold in pharmacies and are not expensive. You can use them for the first time. Or maybe your friend will first try to lightly pierce your hymen with a finger, so it will be easier later. Everything will be ok if you really want it. Good luck, darling!
Hello, I would relax you in front and behind.
Well, you have to give yourself to what is happening, that is, to think only about it and know that you want it, relax, don't think about the pain "it's not deadly, tolerate it" and think only about the love between you two if you love each other not for pain :) Good luck!
I completely agree with number 5 :) It doesn't matter how old you are. The important thing is to have the desire and readiness and everything will be okay :)
And I agree with number 5 ... the question is to take the most important step .. and it is both to be completely calm .. from then on it is easier and easier :) nice to say so .. good luck
Aren't you ashamed! How have you been asking such things since you were 15 years old?