I read your history regularly here, I decided to write you a message that I hope will give you hope. For all of you who feel dissatisfied with your life, for one reason or another. Let's look a little more positively at our whole existence. If we look around, we will see that each of us focuses on the things he lacks, not on the things he has achieved. But if we stop for a moment to see what we do not have, but look at what we have, we will see that we are truly blessed. Many other people on Earth can only dream of having all these things that we take for granted. Think about it: The homeless man wants to have this little house that you dream of replacing with a bigger one. A mother who has lost her son is ready to endure everything your naughty child puts you through. The father, who can't feed his three children with joy is ready to start a job you would never work for and you find it unbearable. A woman riding a bike 10 kilometers to work would be happy to have the car you want to sell so much. A single woman would love a man who throws away his socks and forgets to fix up after himself. The orphaned child would not mind a mother making him tidy his room every day and write his homework. The crippled teenager would gladly climb all these stairs that you curse every day. The woman in the hospital wouldn't mind coming home quickly after work to cook and be with her family. You see, it's all in the way we look at things. If we start looking at life from the right perspective and focus on things, with whom we are blessed, we will be filled with gratitude. Focusing on the things we have, not the ones we miss, is the best and happiest way to live.
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Thanks for sharing with us! Sarah
THANK YOU very much to the author! I cried, it's so nice for someone to remind you of all the pros in life that we miss and that are in our lives!
Congratulations on a good post. This is the truth itself. We need to value what we have, not always want it. Hopefully more people read this, most of us need someone to open our eyes. Thanks for what you wrote!
Yes, it sounds good, but won't we stop our development this way? If we reconcile, we will not upgrade. If we give up our goals - what happens to us? Otherwise, I agree, there is just this possibility.
Congratulations I could not pass without writing a comment ... it really is so even for this thing I had read a book called "space of options" by Vadim Zeland. Thank you for this clever writing :)).
Do you know that you are very right?
Author, you just didn't mention that in order for me to have this little house, this car, this job, this man, I made an effort that these people who don't have have not made. Don't you think that since I've been working since I was 16 and I've been saving since I studied at the same time, I don't deserve my home, my car or the man next to me. I am of the opinion that in most cases, with the exception of illness and death, we have deserved the things that happen to us. And some diseases we also make ourselves. Maybe I made the unemployed man three children. Knowing that he is not a sufficiently educated and highly paid specialist, why does he have three children? Or I have to put up with the discarded dirty socks when I have a husband. Because I almost can't have him and after I wash his feet I should drink his water, right? The woman who is in the hospital because of this, that she was in a hurry to cook after work, probably that's why she was there, she didn't have time for the "poor thing" for herself. That's why, author, I don't understand the way of thinking you suggest!
I somewhat agree with number 8. Still, thank you for the positive thinking. I just think we blame ourselves for almost everything. And yes, sometimes life is bitter and challenges us a lot. But the power of the human psyche is immense. Trouble teaches. Maybe I think so because everything I have today is the result of a lot of effort. I think that a person has to make in his life ... 3 or 4 important choices that will be decisive! And it all depends on how much we want something. Some people realize it later. A few years ago, I sat down and considered my priorities. I thought about what I wanted most. And now I'm about to make it all happen. But we must never forget where we came from. Greed is a terrible vice. It is good for a person to aim high, but he must be satisfied with even the little he has achieved.
№8 your thoughts are anything but an example of positive thinking. You're just a sour ass, only female. And for your information - the most unemployed, the most illiterate and the least skilled (Gypsies, Arabs, Indians) are multiplying the most. As the European population ages and melts.
I agree ... with the author :) People are very negative about everything. They don't appreciate what they have until they lose it! Why? Why it should always be so! ... Love what is given to you, love what you have :) Because it is not certain whether it will be there tomorrow, and whether this tomorrow will not take away from you the little that should make you happy! ... But the problem is not only that. And in our whims, in the arrogance that creeps everywhere. In selfishness, in materialism, ... everyone closes in on himself, and looks at others from very high! ... :)) Not to mention the lack of tolerance. Whatever! ... We just don't think what it would be like not to have, but what it would be like to have! ... And who could have done what, and there is truth in that! But it does not always depend on us. Sometimes we are lucky what our life will be like and how it will develop. But whether we will be positive depends only on us :) PS Who wants to ask me a question or say something. He can do it completely ANONYMOUSLY on [BREACH OF THE RULES] :) No registration required. I guarantee there will be answers. ~ winterfire ~
you just said everything