Hi, I'm still wondering how it would be better for me to give birth. At first I was sure that it would be 100% cesarean so as not to bother and not expand much in a normal birth, but when I started looking at the scars from a cesarean delivery I felt sick. They are much bigger rough and repulsive than I imagined, and I care a lot about my appearance and I would definitely not feel good with such a scar for life. I started researching how things are at vaginal birth and came across quite conflicting opinions about vaginal enlargement. Some argue that there is no change, others that they are narrower, and still others that they are wider. Also in how sex feels after a normal birth. It must be next to the man (and maybe next to the baby) ... I almost didn't come across the opinions of women who claim that they have remained drastically wider. And so the possible slight enlargement of the vagina now seems to me not so bad option. But it turned out that quite often in a normal birth an episiotomy is required (incision of the vagina, which allows the baby to come out easier if there is a problem). As far as I understand the incisions can be internal and external. The internal ones are probably just causing discomfort for a while.
The bad thing is that I could not find information about the outside, nor photos. And I imagine it quite scary and ugly (more than the section) and I wanted to ask if they leave visible scars after the external incisions and how bad they look? Also more or less what is the chance to get there? which allows the baby to come out easier if there is a problem). As far as I understand the incisions can be internal and external. The internal ones are probably just causing discomfort for a while. The bad thing is that I could not find information about the external, nor photos. And I imagine it quite scary and ugly (more than the section) and I wanted to ask if they leave visible scars after the external incisions and how bad they look?
Also more or less what is the chance to get there? which allows the baby to come out easier if there is a problem). As far as I understand the incisions can be internal and external. The internal ones are probably just causing discomfort for a while. The bad thing is that I could not find information about the outside, nor photos. And I imagine it quite scary and ugly (more than the section) and I wanted to ask if they leave visible scars after the external incisions and how bad they look? Also more or less what is the chance to get there? And I imagine it quite scary and ugly (more than the section) and I wanted to ask if they leave visible scars after the external incisions and how bad they look? Also more or less what is the chance to get there? And I imagine it quite scary and ugly (more than the section) and I wanted to ask if they leave visible scars after the external incisions and how bad they look? Also more or less what is the chance to get there?
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I gave birth normally, there was an episiotomy. for scars I think not, everything is as before, it's just hard to strain and sewing is unpleasant. Both options are not easy ... Maybe they do prophylactic episiotomies on almost everyone ...
I gave birth normally a year ago. I haven't expanded from below, it's even hard to penetrate, it's quite narrow. I'm not relaxed at all. I have an episiotomy, but I was anesthetized and felt nothing, healed well and is almost invisible. When I go to the gynecologist, they still ask me if I gave birth and say that it is not obvious to me. My vagina is the same as before. Sex is the same. I was just a little scared at first, but I got scared. And I recovered so quickly after the birth, I'm glad a thousand times that I didn't choose a section. After two weeks I had a flat stomach because I also used a belt, and at the end of the first month I could see the plates. Maybe it's a gene, but without exercise and eating sweets ... I've heard that Victoria's Secret models are photographed in their underwear a month after birth, I could do the same. Now, however, I have lost a lot of weight from caring for the child and I am trying to gain weight ... Sewing from an episiotomy is not ugly. It is very discreet. You will see half a centimeter when you stretch the skin with your fingers, otherwise nothing can be seen. And if your hair is cut, it remains folded in two where it is cut and does not come home for at least a year ... Believe me, when you give birth to the baby it will be in your arms and the last thing you want is a stomach ache ... there is a load, choose easier.
Childbirth is a great misfortune, as well as giving birth. There is nothing to lie about. There is no way to spend 9 months pregnant, give birth, breastfeed and be like brand new. Yes, there are women who are blessed not to gain weight, have no stretch marks, give birth easily, and so on. But, usually, there is some damage. In general, you can't go through life and still be the same. The scar from the episiotomy is external, there is suturing and no one can guarantee that it will not be visible at all. During childbirth, internal tears sometimes occur. And believe me, you're looking to stay alive with the baby, not how beautiful you are. If you do not intend to show your vagina in the spotlight, your scar will not matter to anyone.
Around the world, people give birth normally. Find a good hospital, a doctor, anesthesia is a common thing in the world at the request of the mother. There is nothing better than a normal birth under civilized conditions. If you can afford it, choose a private clinic and the presence of a person who would give you courage and make you feel good. The section is an abdominal operation, don't forget it.
You have nothing to think about. If you need a section, you will have to do it because it saves lives and health. Then you will remove the scar with a laser. If your baby is 2 kg, give birth normally. If it is 4 with a section. And when you give birth to the scar, it will be the last concern. You may have stretch marks, your tits will sag, and your belly will be like a softie.
A normal birth carries many risks. The doctor decides what the birth should be according to the case. My mother gave birth to me naturally and had an awful lot of complications that lasted forever. It was a very difficult birth. She struggled a lot, they sewed her without anesthesia. She was against me giving birth naturally. I did not listen to her, but I listened to the doctor, who convinced me that in my case the risk for the baby and for me is great. The baby was big. There are many cases of birth injuries. That's why doctors prefer a section. Everything is planned, and a natural birth can also be achieved by cesarean section and then it is already very risky. Abroad, cesarean sections are also massive. In Bulgaria, gypsies let them give birth naturally.
I gave birth normally. I do not have any stitches or changes in the vagina. It is the same, neither bigger nor smaller. Like you, I had made a great film, I wanted a lot of sections. But now I'm glad I gave birth normally. I have no trace of birth. My stomach went home in a month, I don't have any stretch marks, my tits didn't rot. I gave birth in 6 hours, the moment you see your sun, the pain evaporates. After the 2nd hour I sat on the donkey like a dude. Shortly afterwards, I went to see my baby. Trust your inner voice, there is much for and against both births.
In which foreign country do they give birth mainly by cesarean section? In Germany, if you want a voluntary section, they still try to dissuade you. They do it only for medical reasons. It's like wanting to feed through a tube voluntarily, that's what it sounds like. As for natural childbirth, I would not give birth like that a second time, but it is individual. They sewed me a lot, I recovered for six months. I have no scars. There are special exercises for the muscles of the small pelvis, there are also balls. It is good to start within two or three months after birth. It does not depend on the type of birth, each pregnancy softens and stretches. Then he gets better with the exercises, it's not scary.
My wife after two births - the first in God's order, the second with a section, enjoys me as much as the first time I slept with her. My dick is absolutely indifferent to whether there is a scar and (if any) where exactly he is.