We've been dating a boy for over a month now. We write to each other every day, sometimes I start conversations, sometimes he. All our conversations are about sex. He regularly wants me to send him nude photos and underwear, he also sends me. And so hours pass sometimes. The problem is that we are 30, not 15. Instead of taking the time to see each other live, he loses it in a chat. And accordingly, I am wasting my time. I offered him to come many times, he was always tired, he always had to get up early, he always made excuses. We met exactly once in a month. And he was drunk after a disco. We both live alone, it's not hard to see each other in private. Yes, it is true that his work is very responsible and busy, but he finds time for discos, and not sex for half an hour with me. If I don't like it, why am I so happy,
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Are you really 30? And you do things like that? Completely pointless, and it seems perverse to me. Not to mention the risk of showing your photos to anyone or blooming on the net. I would never engage in such a thing, nor with such an individual.
Can't you remember yourself - you probably have a girlfriend :)
Stop sending him pictures in his underwear. He watches them and I'm sure he masturbates while watching them. Then, how do you expect him to want to see you live.
"With a boy" ... "we're both 30." You consider yourself a girl for sure, not a woman? You've found a checker OR you're fat and he only needs you imaginary to shine. Ask him directly "do you only drive on checks or do you empty quickly".
Maybe he is insecure or inexperienced and worried or has some fear of a relationship, even sexual. Maybe there are other things in his life that are his problem and he doesn't want to let you get closer so you don't understand.
That's how he likes it. Something different. Don't turn out to have one.
It's weird that you're close and have time for long chats and don't have time to see each other. If you are from different cities, the reason is not to see and write, but given that you are close, and only intimate chat is strange. This is a model in which things become easier, but in reality they are never like that and the one on the other side is as you imagine it. In fact, it turns out to be very different from your ideas. Don't be fooled into sending nude photos to a stranger and insist on more real intimacy. And do not trust such people, they often allow themselves to lie about very serious things like marital status, place of work, profession. I have a bitter experience and I lost my time and feelings. I was deceived by a married man, young and successful. And if he doesn't want to see you, he may not want a relationship. Your chats are not a commitment, even if they are about sex. Everyone is free to disappear at the most unexpected moment. If you see each other more often you will have to commit. Offer him your sex toy only and you will see each other very often.
Some impotent chick, get rid of him.
Either he has a partner, or he's just bad in bed and he's ashamed not to expose himself.
The sample is as follows - just as you empty it with stories from afar, tell him that you don't like it anymore and you want your share of the pie, ie. end of sex chats and that's it! It happened to me that it was directly covered, but with you it can move and fuck you live! From virtual chikidzhii, benefit - zero! Success!
I don't know if you're 30 or 15, but this story is terribly pathetic! I'm sorry I'm so rude, but don't you see that this one is obviously wrong? God forbid you quarrel guess what he will do with your photos. You've been warned, stop while it's time. Give him an ultimatum or you meet like normal people, or end.
From the author: he is not impotent, we had sex once. It was good, I'm done. It was no more than 10 minutes, but he still drank a lot. But since he is not drunk, he does not indulge in sex. I wouldn't have expected it if he hadn't been so praised. First, a friend of mine quoted him as a great playboy. Then he brags non-stop ... He couldn't do without sex, he always did. He was very sexual. He said that since he had been working with me, he had not worked with another for a month. No boyfriend. There was one with whom they lived together and had been separated for a long time. But really. He doesn't seem to have a girlfriend. He writes at night, goes out to discos with men only ... If he hadn't bragged so much, I wouldn't have been disappointed. He sends me pictures that look much bigger than he does. Because they were taken up close. I had a Naum that might not be the case. Well, it's not big, medium size. I was right. We know each other from mutual friends. I did not meet him in the chat. He works a lot, but he also has a lot of fun in bars.