Hello, first of all I will really ask for advice and not to judge me. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and I already want a family with this person and I am sure he is the person for me. I will also explain why I want to get pregnant by deception. My friend is from another religion that does not allow a baby to be made before you get married. But I'm tired of waiting for him to offer me because looking at theirs they don't approve of me because I'm not from their religion, they have a different culture and mentality and maybe that's why he didn't offer me. We have discussed the topic of children more than once and he has always told me that if something like this happens we will get married and watch it. But I don't want to rely on chance if it happens or not, and it's basically the type of people who can't make their own decisions. Let's move on to the fraudulent pregnancy in question: I think when it ends somewhere on me and I get up to go to the bathroom (we go separately) to lock and insert the semen into an applicator like a syringe but without a needle and do it (not once of course) My question is, has anyone gotten pregnant this way? Or someone you know? Was it difficult? Thanks for the answers :)
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This is the lowest thing in the world, just reading it and I feel dirty, I guess women feel like they're being raped ... If I find out that my wife turned me on like that, there's no earthly force to me hold on to her, I'll get rid of her, and with jesters no matter how long we've been together ... There's no such low deed, then you wonder why they don't respect you ... So sex without mutual consent is rape by law, and pregnancy without mutual consent what is it ?! Fuck the lower creature too !!!
That's good - you're going to get pregnant, but if his family pushes him and dumps you with the baby for religious reasons, how are you going to do? It's one thing to coo in bed and make promises, it's another to stand up to your parents like a man and defend your position - and he doesn't. And consciously be careful not to get pregnant. This family doesn't want you for a daughter-in-law - even if you get pregnant without marriage against their religious beliefs, do you think you will become more attractive to them? You will simply reinforce their opinion that you are inappropriate and expose them and they will pull their son. Are you really ready to raise a child without a father?
Firstly, it is hellishly low and you are very immoral that you even think of such a thing, and secondly, you are naive because it is a double-edged sword. You can get married, but they can also make him fuck you with the child. If you say that it is Putyo Marinov and he cannot make a decision on his own, why should they fail and convince him to lose you with the child, to forget about you, as if you are not there and to be ashamed once and for all? And even if you get married, what is such an indecisive man for you? I am also a Turk, but if I were a man on the spot, he would find a solution to the problem.
Madhouse. :)
And I wanted by deception. I will not judge you and I fully understand you! When we did it with a condom, I always cracked them at least 2 times before ... there was no effect, of course, because it doesn't happen from time to time, but don't try. The other thing is, just tell him that you want to spend your life with him, or that he should understand you, and if he doesn't, think about your partner.
He is good, the best for you, but you are not the best for him since he has not started having a child for 3 years, he is with you only to have one, but he definitely has no intentions to be the woman with which will grow old, so that with these intentions of yours you will achieve nothing but one day to be alone with a child in your arms
Yes, you are a sick impudent maniac and the other thing, which is obviously not a problem for you at all. Basically, I pass for a feminist and I protect women, but you stink of such sick people. Man, if he gives me such a trick ... I'll gut him.
From the author: I do not know what this site has become a court or how? My question was completely different and they are clearly asked so if anyone could help let me do it I don't need you to judge me I need advice and solutions.
To be safe and easy, you need to ovulate. You must have already learned when these days are. I got pregnant during this period, but my husband and I were not ready and I removed it. That you will get pregnant whether with a syringe or fingers during this period is certain. However, I support the comments below that this move is not moral at all, much less in YOUR interest. If you get pregnant and still miraculously accept you and get married, don't you think that his mother doesn't know these numbers either !? You will never be truly respected. There will be holidays that you will have to adapt to a foreign culture, and it is not clear whether they will make the effort to adapt to yours. I respect the Turkish community, but for me, having been on this path for a short time, we are from different worlds. The problem is that he is weak and does not legitimize you, I do not start it at all.
8, well the solution is very simple. And it's not to get pregnant by cheating for the simple reason that it probably won't lead to marriage, but to separation. The solution is simple - sit down and decide what you want - whether a child or marriage, if you do not reach a consensus, you better separate, but let both of you participate in the decision. If he / they do not want to marry, with or without a child you will not marry, understand this. That is why I say that the decision must be reciprocal. If so, you better split up and find a man who really wants a child, it will be better for everyone. No one will benefit from such a scam. Neither you as a single mother, nor he as a father by accident, nor the child as abandoned by his father. Was I clear enough or does it still seem like a trial to you?
Nobody says anything about the hypothetical child, however - poor thing, what a disgusting way to appear in the world!
This is vile, vile and insidious. A real abomination.
Give it to me I am from his religion
Not possible. Sperm live only a few seconds in an oxygen environment. As for the idea as a whole - you say that your friend can not make a decision alone, ie. is influenced by theirs. Don't believe 100% of what he said he would do ... Hypothetically, you somehow manage to get pregnant and theirs forces him to leave you ... Alone and pregnant. It's not cool, is it? Better talk to him on this topic, clarify yourself as a mature person. Play it safe.
Didn't those sperm die in seconds in an environment with oxygen ???!?
16 So is the glory of God, but let him believe.
Until numbers 15 and 16 they didn't seem to be in biology class at all haahaha. Sperm live up to 20 minutes outside the body and are practically possible. She plans to do the Boris Becker method of storing semen and then insert it. Read the forum on the chips, many Russian women get pregnant this way just to keep their husband who has a lot of money.
Up to 16 But they survive for a minute in a condom ... that's why the footballers teach them to throw their condoms in the toilet.
There is no way to get pregnant this way! Purely biological, there is NO chance! And secondly, let's assume that against the laws of nature a miracle happens and your insidious plan succeeds ... how will you look this child in the eye one day? Children are created with love and desire by BOTH parents and your friend obviously does not want or is not ready at this stage ... 3 years are nothing meaningful are not few, but they are not very special if you are young people who first develop. There are couples who are 5-6-7 and up years together, but they are not in a hurry to get married and start a family until they themselves feel ready. This does not mean that they are not in love. Obviously it is clear to you that your friend is not in a hurry ... and where are you in a hurry for marriage and children. you say how old you are. Third, there is no way that no normal person here can judge you given the nonsense you write and it occurs to you. If a friend of mine shared such an idea with me, I would probably tell her that she is ill! I don't know you, so I can't afford such a comment ... it seems that you are in some kind of impasse or I don't know either. My friend and I have been together for 4 years and he hasn't offered me marriage, we haven't discussed children and what ?! Should I go to bed to die or should I resort to something like that? Don't rush to take everything from life in one breath and give a chance to let things happen on their own. This child will not be wanted by him or his family. You will live your whole life with this thought of how this baby was created and believe me it will bite you from the inside and the joy will not be complete, because your friend almost goes out just like he won't even know any means. And finally ... there is no way it can happen if you have studied biology and you have a little bit of intelligence, you will know that this is not how things work. Sperm need strength (the jet at the end) to reach the egg. Sperm live a few seconds with oxygen and by the time you get to the bathroom they will have died 1000 times :) look for another and reasonable way that is desired by both !!! Don't be selfish! Ж22г
Indeed, there is no such bad story. As a woman in a mixed marriage, I want to tell you that if the man loves you and wants you to start a family, there is no power on earth to stop him. No parents, no religion, let the whole world be against you, if he wants you to be the mother of his children and his wife, you will be like that. To claim it, however, the other party must take the risk of losing his community, ie. he must be a quality person whom he can trust completely. I'm sorry, but you're not that kind of person.
I'm 7 .... Once again I doubt that it's still fabricated idiocy or again on a complex or on some paw. You can see the thoughts of women and men in other topics and comments, and these writings are not connected at all. Indeed, as someone had said, there is a very rejected complex here, just as topics suddenly began to appear on a conveyor belt with the thoughts of a mentally ill child and some idiots who make women ... and in the comments and other topics you can see radically different thoughts. of women. ;) Someone seems to have hit him hard in the complex and the anger is already starting to erupt in all directions.
Numbers 15 and 17 talk complete nonsense sperm live in an oxygen environment for up to 1 hour, it is obvious how educated you all are. : D
18, 26, I know from biology classes that sperm die in seconds in oxygen, but in rare cases they survive up to 20 minutes under certain conditions (temperature, humidity, etc.). Ie not that it is impossible to get pregnant this way, but the chances are slim. Just in case, I recently checked my information on the Internet and it turned out to be true. Most couples with normal sex struggle to get pregnant for half a year, and she wants to get pregnant with her fingers. How do you imagine this thing happening? After a few years of trying, it may be, but it is hardly the fastest method of pregnancy she wants.
So, I'm a woman. Once again I am convinced how thirsty the bg table is for nonsense .. People, how can you write to this one at all? Why do stupid topics always get so many comments?
If one day your mother tells you that you actually collected a check from the floor, how will you feel? To judge you? Which NORMAL person will support you tell me? This is not a trial. People try to explain to you elementary moral principles that you lack and you feel affected even ... Like but. 1 says if someone raped you, m? Or if you want the rapists to support us too?
As far as those who write nonsense that the sperm needed a shot and speed, mother, horror, I was ashamed, people can get pregnant only if they get semen in the vagina, she tells me that the sperm needed speed.
I'm a man and if my longtime girlfriend does something like that, I'll beat her up nicely first and then I'll throw her out on the street as she's pregnant. Don't get me wrong, I would never hit a woman for anything in the world, but a real woman who respects the opinion of the man next to her and does not make such vile and disgusting decisions behind the back of the other and hopes for miracles and lies. . When she thinks about it, when something like this goes through her mind ... what else is she capable of just tying the man to herself?
You are right 28!
To the author under number 8. Ie. do you want us to give you advice on something we all consider immoral? Well, we give it to you - it's immoral! The poor boy. Give - he shouts - to tie him with a child so that he has nowhere to go. I'm not judging you. But can't you respect other people's personal choices? If a man really wants you, he will change his religion, his country, his family, everything, just to be with you. At least have the dignity of accepting that this boy doesn't want you to be his wife. With or without a child, he will not marry you, understand him! I hate to even write this! Then you'll want his alimony, won't you?
The life of sperm in the external environment lasts only from a few minutes to hours, so do not die immediately keep in mind. The other girl is that you're really crazy, I'm sorry how much you don't think that when you achieve what you want you will live happily with your boyfriend, you will get married and theirs will start to like you?
Well, here we judge the author, we judge her that it is immoral, but on his part is it moral to kill her best years, and then to find a woman of his religion and start a family? And the author to leave without a child, except with a broken heart. Is this very moral? Ask him the question on the edge - you want a family and a child. You want a clear answer, not to hang on to you. Because this man looks very cowardly to me!
If you don't want to be judged, don't ask stupid questions with immoral motives, you idiot.
Finally, the child will take everything because of his emotionally unstable mother ...
Everyone here makes a man a martyr, but once he has sex, he must be able to take responsibility for a child. If she doesn't want to, she won't be in a long-term relationship and flirt with her or have sex without a condom at all, will she? There is always a risk of getting pregnant, even if there is no cheating. And the man is immoral, the faces are similar. And the author acts frankly extremely stupid. In the end she will be a single mother, the child will pay in the end.
35, to some extent, but we do not know whether the boy is playing her or thinks that the time has not yet come, or intends to marry, but simply can not be decided by hesitation and fear of being rejected. But whatever it is, I explained above that they need to sit down, talk and understand each other. To make such decisions with lifelong consequences alone without informing the other is, to put it mildly, disgusting. It's about a lot of people's lives, it's not like buying a pound of cheese and realizing that the decision was stupid, just throwing it away.
As the author, I also wanted and as number 5 I tried to get pregnant by fraud. I didn't crack condoms, but when I went to the bathroom with "material" on me, I inserted it with my fingers. I have been making such attempts for months (but not very regularly) and of course nothing has happened. The chances are really small, but there are. Now I am very happy that it did not happen, because I am expecting a planned child from a man who is happy to become a father. But when I was trying to get pregnant by this ex, I did it after a 2-year relationship without development, which I wanted to give a boost to the next stage. As disgusting as the act may seem to you, it is even more disgusting that there are so many men who only lose the best childbearing years of women longing for a family. They want fun without responsibilities - well, that's not the case. They may even remember at 40 that they want a family, but a woman their age will find it very difficult to conceive then and at most have one child. Maybe that's why many women think about such a scam, putting them in front of a fait accompli. For many, this simply speeds things up, because many of today's "men" are full of pickles up to 30 and beyond. Someone needs to give them an initial boost to separate from mom's skirt, even if it's in the form of a kick. It is always healthy to grow up. even if it is in the form of a kick. It is always healthy to grow up. even if it is in the form of a kick. It is always healthy to grow up.
To number 41: And yet for the "re-education" of the man will take ... the child! But you are selfish and think differently.
35, and won't the author have a brain to withdraw from this hopeless relationship, but is wasting her time with crazy thoughts in her head?
I support number 41, men think that there is free sex, but in the end you don't always pay.
Abe, I see all the great moralists here.
It is disgusting to use your child as currency. You have a child, you have a husband. After the divorce - you have a child, you have to be paid maintenance. You have a child - you are entitled to social benefits. You have a child - they make room for you in the tram. You have a child - you leave work early. You have a child - your relatives are obliged to help. You have a child - you rearrange the queue in the store. Kids are not your debit card, ladies. I am a woman and I find this way of thinking monstrously dishonest. Can't you invest so much not in your ovaries, but in your education, for example? Do something. Create something. Child, yes child! It's nice, but this child should be wanted, to have two loving parents, not one of these parents to live on his back. What the author actually wants is to use her child as a pass to a safer life. It's disgusting!
Reading 41 and the above before her I understand how many women are actually obsessed with their own desires, and then begin to complain about the lack of reciprocity ... For the most important decisions in your life you do not want the opinion of the other, and then the whole howl life how could you not hold on to it ... There is no easier way to stop respecting women than to listen to them in a moment of revelation what they are like inside ...
39, if he wants her for a family and doesn't waste her time, it won't be such a drama that she's pregnant. It would be a drama for him if he thought that here for 3-4 years he would take advantage of her with unspoken promises of family, he would take advantage of her youth, her tenderness, her love, without ever having intended anything more serious. Whoever has sex must be able to bear the consequences!
I find it weird how much you protect a user, a fucker, and a miserable guy who plays her. Look for luck elsewhere, men are many, naive and trusting. They are considered the tip of the ice cream, sex governs them, flattery makes them happy. They are not interested in true female love, but in adoration and apparent agreement with fluttering eyelashes. Learn to be cunning, calculating and selfish. That way you will live well. Whoever seeks honesty, openness, fidelity and integrity in love with the same success can look for fairies, unicorns, fairies, etc. similar.
"It would be a drama for him if he thought that here for 3-4 years he would take advantage of her with unspoken promises of family, he would take advantage of her youth, her tenderness, her love, without ever having intended anything more serious. . " Is this Gloria's new song, if I dare ask. Because it sounds like the "mental anguish" of a cocky arrogant pickle who thinks that the whole world owes her, she is always a victim of misery and bad men, and men are something that has to give her money to be able to is "feminine." Up to 50 "Learn to be cunning, calculating and selfish. That way you will live well." - Yes, and when you turn 26-7, you will have a baby in your arms, 300 leva support and maybe they will pay you the rent for a panel, which is about 20 kilometers from the center. Or worse, you're going to catch up with a mutrogen, a businessman, a politician or at least the son of one who will take down your stars and then take off your teeth and take custody of the child, and you will never see him again. And one more thing: "They are not interested in true female love" - Well, at least you have something in common, then ...
but 50, what does user and miserable type mean? It is not written anywhere that he forced the author to be with him or to force her in any way. However, the person is dependent on the opinion of his family (and he himself may not burn with desire to marry the author and use it as a pretext). When she doesn't like it, she should leave him and find another one, ready for a family. However, she decided that she would be right with him without him wanting, which, even if he succeeded, would not lead to anything good for anyone. I wonder if a man wants to tie you through a child, will you like it?
@ 49 and 50 No one has tied her up by force, as it is not ok to find another, not to wonder how to tie this one. As long as with these cries for your best years, if it is not a commodity or something that someone takes from you, you decide who to give them to, and then olele. Do men not have good years? 50 explains what men were like, given that half of the topics in this forum show women in the same light ... You should give a lot of moral assessments, given that most of you internally approve of the author ... But it all comes back - she can get what she wants, and then get a lifelong counter like indifference, infidelity and what not ... Then who will be to blame?
If this is not some fabrication it is the most disgusting thing I have seen on this site. I am a married woman with children, but I cannot in any way justify such an abomination. Seeing the author that her relationship is not developing, take and ask the question directly - either marry or leave it. This is what people who respect themselves do, do not start their marriage with lies and meanness. This is the solution to her problem, not the scam. For those who share her position - she is obviously a very elementary woman, since for 3 years she has not concluded that this man does not intend to marry her. She's having fun, so is she. He is not wasting her time and youth, she is wasting them on her own. No one is forcing her to drag a hopeless relationship for years. If a person is so influenced by his parents, he will not marry her - neither with a child nor without.
Author, your friend is a Christian / Muslim / Jew / Hindu, he will be religious. The question is what is your religion, because I do not know this religion, which encourages births without marriage, but also one that encourages fraud and lies.
Are you normal, seriously? First, it's impossible because sperm die if they don't go directly inside. And second, you better leave the man and adopt a child as you are so in trouble and do not deceive any man in this vile way! Then what do men think of us as bastards and users!