Pregnant Bride

   Who are you pregnant with?

   Oh, why are you hiding from the father, so this child was not only yours - and I don't know how you acted like that without his permission. You better tell him he has a right to know ... otherwise you have done a lot of wrong things, you have no right to kill your child and it is not only yours and I don't know his. If you ask me, still tell him how you will react.

   How there can be such people I do not know. What prevents you from postponing the wedding for 1 year, for example. If I'm this man, I'll be a jerk right away. You were incredibly selfish.

   Ironically? Someone call him family happiness ..?!? It is not every girl's dream to wear a wedding dress with a huge belly, but this was a child of the man you should love and with whom you think you have been all your life and you killed him out of sheer vanity. What is normal for normal people, you have turned into nasty slop. I'm sorry you're so cowardly. The only thing that bothers you is "Will it be visible?" ... And so that my comment is not offtopic - no, it will not be obvious.

   Hello, I will not blame you, because a person makes mistakes and then regrets, but this is human life. If you don't tell him about the abortion, he won't know, don't worry about it. The question is how you feel and how you want to act. If you decide not to tell, then don't tell him ... this remains your secret forever. You're tense now, but it will pass, don't think about it ... don't look for guilt or self-blame ... you've already done it and there's no way to fix it. You will have something else and slowly life goes on. I hope you manage and good luck ...., it's still not the end of the world ...

   A year and a half ago, I had an abortion, but the reason was that we had known each other for 2 weeks. And although he was not so close to me, I still told him, because the child was not only mine, but his too! Now, we are still together with this same person, engaged, we are about to have a wedding and we are trying for a baby, which attempts are still unsuccessful. I don't care if I'm the fattest bride in the world. My only wish is to get pregnant and have a healthy baby. I am very sorry for the abortion I had. Maybe the only plus is that at least I'm sure my boyfriend isn't with me because of the baby (we've known each other for 2 weeks after all). I think what you have done is the most selfish, pointless and stupid thing to do. I wish you everything to go without bad consequences. F 22

   Olele ... are you crazy?!? Some people would give anything to have a child, and you ruin it just because you won't look good at the wedding! What prevented you from telling him and postponing the wedding ... Crazy people as much as you want :(

   In my opinion, you should not hide from your husband about this abortion, after all, the child is his.

   I personally think that what you did is too stupid, not to say terrible! How can you kill an innocent creature just for one wedding, and how can you do something like that to the person you are supposed to love and a person to when you wouldn't do something like that. If I were in your husband's place and if I found out, I would never look at you again, you are killing "my" child again. What you have done, at least in my opinion, is something UNFORGIVABLE and a mistake that will weigh on your conscience for the rest of your life! It's best to tell him, without thinking, whether to tell him or not, you made the mistake yourself and no matter how he reacts, you will be to blame!

   Abe, you can always have a wedding, why necessarily in March. You acted much more childish.

   Honey, you were pretty confused. Don't blame yourself, you're welcome. People say: "All evil for good !!!" Done, done. We must move forward !!! Physically, he can't understand that you did it. But when you give birth to a child, a long filling of documents and statistics, both health and social, begins. There one of the questions is: "From which of your pregnancies is the child born?", There is another: "Aborted pregnancies at your request?". And the answers to these questions remain forever in your health record. I tell you this so that you can think in advance how you will respond, because they will ask you at the most unexpected moment for you, when you least think about who is around you or what exactly to say. I advise you if you will tell him the truth, do it now, if you will be silent, shut up forever ... Good luck!

   People, not only because of the wedding I did it, according to the doctor some of my blood tests are not good. I also have gynecological disease. :( I'll go crazy! Don't blame me! 12-tenx for courage!

   It doesn't look like you're crazy! This uterus is already scraped! Chukunduri!

   Do you know that you may never understand what it is like to be a mother ... I feel sorry for you and I am angry about this child who was killed and yet for your "reassurance" you will not show ... I would not like to I have a woman like you, this child is also his and if I am in your place I will tell him, he has the right to know !!!

   Well ... you didn't do the right thing, you didn't discuss it with him, but you were obviously scared. I will not reproach you, because no one can judge the other. Don't give in to these comments ... The only thing that threatens your relationship right now is that you haven't shared it with your friend. You will have children, medicine is advanced. I also had an abortion, but the circumstances are completely different for me. If you removed it because you will have a belly at your wedding, if that was your main argument, I would really say that it is quite frivolous ... I wish you success!

   I don't know, you decide! But the legs of the lie are short !! :)

   Whether you like it or not, you're already a killer. Tell him because your conscience will torment you anyway while you're alive, but if he doesn't know it will be more. Pray to God that you will not be left without a child. The probability of this is not small.

   Haven't you seen a pregnant bride be "beautiful"?

   This is a dangerous job for women !!! Do you think that the girl is not easy at all! Why do you have to write such vicious comments!?! She had a reason she did it! As serious as it is to make a decision to have an abortion, I think it is as serious to keep it !!! Obviously the wedding was not the only problem! I think you should have shared with your future husband, now it's too late! Whether he can understand or not, no one can guarantee you. Anything can happen. In principle, he cannot understand, except in the event of a problem. You must have asked yourself the question - will he understand you if you share it with him? He may not want a child at this time! What I can tell you from experience (it may seem annoying but it matters), I guess you know that you can't have sex for a while, I guess you've already figured out how to deal with it! It's not bad to be careful for a while after that, they say 6 months, my opinion is at least a year. It would not be bad to use a contraceptive! A little more frequent check-ups with a gynecologist to let you know that everything is fine and to sleep peacefully! And there is nothing scary, you are not the first, you are not the last! And the moment you feel ready, I wish you a candy that will blow you apart and fill you with positive emotions! Bitter :)

   Don't blame me, we've been living for 2 years, we had decided to get married, we just had to discuss on what date and suddenly - I'm pregnant. My first reaction was that I had to get rid of him, we are still young, we are studying, better further, we discussed the situation with my friend and we decided to keep him. Now I am a mother to a 9 year old son who is a great and smart kid, I sometimes think and ask myself the question - "What if I had listened to the brain and not the heart?" and the answer is the same — now I would be unhappy. I cannot compare this joy that my child gives me with any other. I hope you have children, what was done, if you removed it with a vacuum, you are more likely to get pregnant, but if they scraped you, the probability is very small. Success!

   Darling, I'm sorry you were forced to remove it and I don't want to blame you, but 3 days ago I was told that I would never be able to have children and my life has no meaning. You had to think about which one to choose - a beautiful bride who may never have that joy or a fat bride, but with the most precious thing in life.

   Hello dear! I hope you are lucky enough to get pregnant again, because I was not, I am 42 years old and I never managed to get pregnant, although the doctors said there was no reason. I have experienced the tears, the pain, the horror. To want, but not to. Maybe it was my punishment or I atoned for other people's sins. I think one day he will find out. Even when you go to a gynecologist they will ask you about abortions, you can't hide it even from them. And if you fail to get pregnant, you will cry, darling, and you will curse for the rest of your life. I can't predict your husband's reaction, but if not now, in years to come, he will insult you, because you can never erase it. If you don't break up now, it will happen in years to come. You will be ignored, you will have to be silent and patient because he has a trump card. I wish you success ... let you be the coolest bride you've ever dreamed of ..

   It is too late for reproaches and regrets.

   YOU'RE CRAZY.

   That was your biggest mistake.

   Abnormal snobbery .....

   I'll tell you one thing. After you hid from your husband that the most wonderful thing in the world happened to you, I don't know what you're going to marry him for. So you don't love him enough. You killed his child in the name of that. to be a beautiful bride, and you can be like that with a belly. Your mind is not like a woman of 24. And if I am your man and I understand, I will suffer, but I will never want to look at you or touch you again. You are killed his child, and alas, you have NO excuse for that. Congratulations, your life is starting now, and you have already destroyed it.

   I am not the person who would judge you, but just to say that I am alone in the ninth month, and my wedding is in 5 days. I didn't think I would be even less pregnant in such an advanced month when I say yes, but that's how things turned out and I don't regret it. to the commentator I don't want to give birth and get married in one day I would say it would even be a memorable experience. not everyone can live 2 in 1, but the decision was yours. According to me, you need to tell your husband that marriage is not only a vow of fidelity, but also a sharing of joys and pains. I don't think you have the right to hide this from your husband, and that would prove whether you love each other at all or you're both out of vanity. I wish you success and I hope everything is fine.

   I read on the forums that this affects your relationship, so tell it to someone almost intimately close to the man and interested in not divorcing.