Hello, my question is to the ladies - why don't you admit and show yourself when you are attracted to a man and try to hide him? It happens to me many times when I meet and when I accidentally meet an unknown girl and with familiar girls they try to hide that they are attracted. They avoid looking me in the eye and looking down, licking their lips and so on. Why try to hide instead of showing interest openly, so the chance of something happening is much greater. I am athletic and with very broad shoulders and the interest is felt, but instead of showing it, most try to hide it. My question is why?
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Maybe you don't like us?
What was this nonsense I read about God ... get her down on earth and fix your ego. 100 percent you are not even 15 years old, and if you are - a pity. With such selfishness and excessive, irritating self-confidence, at most you can start pushing girls away at a certain moment ...
Well, because we are ashamed. At least that's how it is with me, I'm terribly shy. The other bad thing is that I'm worried about not looking like a bitch. It is not beautiful to see a woman pushing a man.
Because we live in a civilized world and it is considered shameful to show your primary desires.
Because we are not animals! Even if at the primary level a man is attracted to us, this is not a reason to throw ourselves on his neck at the moment. It takes time to get to know a person, because his personal qualities are far more important than his broad shoulders. Let's look at the opposite: personally, I would be seriously worried if a man I just met stared at my décolleté or at my legs and grabbed me by the waist. This is unacceptable!
Maybe you look at them so brazenly and with such a huge self-confidence, and they don't want to tell you in your eyes that you don't get up - have you thought about it?!?
Because they don't want anything to happen. Now, it depends on what you mean, but it sounds like you're talking about sex. For them, attraction is one thing, having sex is another - the first does not mean that the second happens. I'm trying to tell you that we think with our penises and they think with their heads. They have dignity, otherwise any athlete would take them through the bed. This is in the general case, there are certainly those who would take action or would give you a signal to act. These are my male conclusions.
Most likely because of the broad shoulders, because they unlock female modesty and sympathy. My calves are quite healthy and I think it has a similar effect, but not exactly the same as the hidden attraction and looks in the ground.
Do we understand from the topic that you are thirsty for attention, that you want to see how much you are liked, that vanity and ego shine on you? If they don't know you, why should they be in a hurry to show that they like you? There are simpletons to whom this brushes their egos and they start thinking about the "big deal", to treat them with contempt, to be impudent, to annoy them, to think that the girl is "easy", they just look for her, etc. When the woman once he encounters such an individual, he draws the appropriate conclusion and begins to behave more reservedly. A first impression is more than someone's appearance, and a person is a set of qualities and to assess his character, mind, culture, interests he needs more time. It may be as beautiful as Apollo, but inside it is complete rubbish. I think one has to keep some distance from the beginning, to get to know at least a little who is standing in front of him and how well he meets his criteria in order to let him closer to him. Do you let everyone in just because you look nice? And if you do, you can't expect it from others. Your athletic body will not give me the impression you might expect, it will show me that you train and hold on to your appearance and up to that point, not how intelligent you are, what qualities you have as a person. Based on just one muscle, I can't judge if I'll like the rest of you. Muscular thighs with broad shoulders a lot, but in order to like you and show it to you, I have to appreciate your mind and character, your whole personality. That's why I wouldn't rush to show you more attention. just because you look nice? And if you do, you can't expect it from others. Your athletic body will not give me the impression you might expect, it will show me that you train and stick to your appearance and up to that point, not how intelligent you are, what qualities you have as a person. Based on just one muscle, I can't judge if I'll like the rest of you. Muscular thighs with broad shoulders a lot, but in order to like you and show it to you, I have to appreciate your mind and character, your whole personality. That's why I wouldn't rush to show you more attention. just because you look nice? And if you do, you can't expect it from others. Your athletic body will not give me the impression you might expect, it will show me that you train and stick to your appearance and up to that point, not how intelligent you are, what qualities you have as a person. Based on just one muscle, I can't judge if I'll like the rest of you. Muscular thighs with broad shoulders a lot, but in order to like you and show it to you, I have to appreciate your mind and character, your whole personality. That's why I wouldn't rush to show you more attention. what qualities do you have as a person. Based on just one muscle, I can't judge if I'll like the rest of you. Muscular thighs with broad shoulders a lot, but in order to like you and show it to you, I have to appreciate your mind and character, your whole personality. That's why I wouldn't rush to show you more attention. what qualities do you have as a person. Based on just one muscle, I can't judge if I'll like the rest of you. Muscular thighs with broad shoulders a lot, but in order to like you and show it to you, I have to appreciate your mind and character, your whole personality. That's why I wouldn't rush to show you more attention.
So how in two days will you get away from walks, excursions, resorts, expensive gifts, dinners and running after ass and two fingers of meat? !! "Interest shakes the fez," people said. After showing you that he wants to sleep with you, in two days he will be in the same situation again. With a tram and old rags. It is the fault of men that we allow them to make us monkeys. Grandpa Tosho Dya
According to your logic and desires, it means every plump and untalented woman, if she experiences the so-called primary desire can directly grab you ... nothing that weighs 150kg. or looks like a beast. Doesn't it show "primary desire" !? Will you like it then, I wonder?
1 - I show it to myself by liking one. 3 - I like more open women. 4 - It is not a shame to show interest. 5 - You are very worried. There is often no time for thinking and you have to act decisively, time is fleeting!
Because when I look at how you speak, you are obviously looking for attention a little desperately. Maybe attracting them makes them feel ashamed of themselves if you show your desire for attention so clearly in front of them. It's a little funny and unfortunate when a man drags the attention of all the women around him. Not to mention that, at least for me, this shows how incapable this man is of making a choice, of making a choice. If he knows what he wants, he will choose a specific one and look for hers, not everyone's. Most men think that by behaving this way you look like "hunters", but you don't. And that's why we don't want "something to happen." It is ugly for a woman to behave like that, because I have seen such behavior. I'm not saying you should isolate yourself around one person and not associate with others. But to flirt with several at once and demonstratively, when you're all in the same room, and I've witnessed such incidents ... sorry, but you can't be taken seriously enough to even have sex with you in this situation. I also know men who would refuse sex to a woman who is like that. Just a healthy idea of a confident man / confident woman really has nothing to do with such behavior.
Okay, it's time to finish the topic at least for myself. Too much negativity and self-dissatisfaction are projected into it to have any value and meaning.