I am a girl of 15 For some time I like my best friend, I tried to hide him from everyone, even from myself, because he has a boyfriend (who does not live in Bulgaria and only the holidays are visible), but lately many people have found out and everyone advises me to tell him, but not by message or Skype, but in the eyes. When I'm alone and thinking, I decide to tell him, but when I see him, I can't muster the courage. He's 16 of my teacher and I'll see you every break. Everyone who knows that I like him tells me that he also liked me and showed him, I just had to show him that I like him too and everything would be fine, that his relationship was not a relationship if they did not see each other. He is a great man and friend and I am afraid that if I tell him, and he does not like me as more than a girlfriend, his behavior will change.
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Hi darling, I think you need to talk to him and find out exactly how he feels about his girlfriend. If it turns out that people are right and he likes you, you need to gather courage and reveal your feelings to him. :) Don't worry :) Good luck! Write how things developed;)
all dear and i am in this position even my best friend i am in love with is from my class! Everyone tells me to admit it and I realize I have to do it but I can't! And yet, in the end, I preferred his friendship and decided to keep quiet in front of everyone! I just can't risk my friendship! But if he likes you too, nothing stops you from telling him and your chance is 100%! But if you are silent and he will not dare to confess to you! So tell him in his eyes and then you will understand how he really feels about you! Write when you decide and do something, you just get the strength to do it! Come on, good luck!
I think tell him openly how you feel. If he feels something for you, he will only show himself. Fight for true love because you deserve it !!!
tell him!:)
Tell me :)
No, I don't think so — I was in the same situation with my best friend, who was also in my class, and so on — everyone thought it was mutual, but we both hid it until I had the courage to do it. I said in my eyes..Result-DISASTER! The problem was not that he didn't like me, but that he heard me as a brother and was very confused and wondered ... but in the end, friendship and everything collapsed ... He did it in a situation that 100000% he too I like you ... Good luck!
Number 6 is right, I also experienced it M 26
I'm the author (if you can call it that) I didn't tell him, but a man we both rely on especially told him, he told me with my consent. His answer was that he just felt like a close friend to me, and he said he knew it without being told. The first 1-2 days I stay a little at a distance, but now everything is as before :) Thanks for the advice :)
So it went great! My case (number 6) has been going on for 9 months now ... and the situation is getting worse and unbearable ... And I still feel a lot about it, but I don't show it!
The author I think he likes me too, but maybe he doesn't want to hurt me because I was told he was a great womanizer. For example, last night I asked him if he noticed that since he knew I liked him I hadn't written "I love you" after the goodnight wish and he said "Which doesn't mean it's not like that", I replied "How do you want to is "and he said" You decided "I no longer know what to think and feel for him, I'm very confused.
In my opinion, just because you told him you like him doesn't mean you have to stop telling him you love him, because I'm sure he's happy to hear it when he's your best friend. I've experienced something similar. obviously just friendship is stronger than love. I hope you stay friends!