I have been divorced for 10 years. 7 years ago I fell in love with my subordinate who is married with a child and our relationship continues to this day. At the beginning I told her that I didn't want her to ruin her family, although that's exactly what I wanted and that's probably my mistake. Our love is mutual we complement each other in everything it is wonderful to be together but it ends with the end of the day in the evening she is not with me and so 7 years. During these years the man and many bad things happened to him for which he blamed me, but I am clear my conscience is clear. And she, my beloved, is more and more afraid of beating her if she leaves him. So I have everything at home, my own business, but I don't have the most important person next to me and I'm already 50
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You made a mistake because you weren't right from the start? offered a common future and did not support it. If she is afraid of the man ?, suggest? solution and support. I don't want to scare you, but it's possible that she loves her husband in some perverse way and wants to be with him! Let her make a decision. If he chooses it, don't interfere anymore and break up. At 50 you are not to be thrown away, you have taken care of your children, you have a lot to offer, you are attractive to many women. All
I don't understand number 1 how it is possible for her to love him in a perverted way but thanks for the advice anyway
You did what you had to do, but I don't think you have to wait any longer to find another subordinate or just another woman
You are 50 and you think as a teenager. Once she is subordinate to you, she manipulates you
today I received a unique glass for my birthday in which when I poured a hot drink the Eiffel Tower appeared and the inscription I love you I was impressed how long to wait alone I do not know
Man, it seems to me that this woman is using you in a very mean and impudent way. Don't listen to what people tell you, but watch what they do. If she loved you so much, she would have divorced a hundred times so far, but obviously you fulfill all her wishes, and her husband tolerates her and it suits her perfectly. If she is not thrown out of the house, she will never come to you. At the moment you are just a party and I guess a piggy bank!
soon very soon I will find out if he uses me and then shame great shame