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Problem Of Big Choice

By niomismart August 14, 2020 3 answers Last updated August 14, 2020

I'm a 19-year-old girl, a student. I am smart and beautiful, a pleasant interlocutor and I do not lack self-confidence. In the environment in which I move, almost all men are valuable people. I can have almost anyone I want. And here is the problem of the great choice. I've never had a relationship (I'm not talking about overnight sex, I've had such cracks). I am not one of the sensitive and in love, if I wait to fall in love I will grow old alone. I want to have love between me and the man in my life. I have a few close friends, male friends, but we never cross the border. I'm looking for a potential partner, but so far I have a dozen men who are perfect, including close friends, and now where. Like the parable of the hungry donkey - there were two absolutely identical haystacks, and he wanted the better one, he wondered which one to choose and eventually died of starvation. I am in the same position. Whichever I choose, I will wonder if the other would not be better. People can't choose between 2, and I wonder between 15-20 if not more. I don't know how I got among such smart and good people, both at work and at lectures. What to do, I want a relationship, but how to choose my man. I am attracted by the fact that a man is difficult, to run away, and not just to talk about love with a smile. I have never met such a man. I am a hunter at heart, I do not want everything ready, I want it to be difficult for me. Please people give me advice ?? however, how to choose my man. I am attracted by the fact that a man is difficult, to run away, and not just to talk about love with a smile. I have never met such a man. I am a hunter at heart, I do not want everything ready, I want it to be difficult for me. Please people give me advice ?? however, how to choose my man. I am attracted by the fact that a man is difficult, to run away, and not just to talk about love with a smile. I have never met such a man. I am a hunter at heart, I do not want everything ready, I want it to be difficult for me. Please people give me advice ??

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celebjuice answered · August 14, 2020

   Yours will be the man you choose to "serve" in life. I will not go into explaining to you that man and woman are not equal by nature. With the utmost respect!

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jade1100 answered · August 14, 2020

   Don't listen, number 1, who obviously doesn't live in the 21st century. In my opinion, you have to make sure that the person has common interests, that there is communication between you, understanding. And of course, chemistry, but not that it comes first. At least for me, this is the basis of a serious and full-fledged relationship. And yes, many people want to be "hunters", but no one can always run away from you. These are little children's games. As for me, when they pretended to be "difficult", that is, to play games with my feelings, they became banal. But you are still young, only 19. Take your time, you have time. You may not have yet met the person who will shake your world. Julian

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pauseunpauses answered · August 14, 2020

   Number 1, why don't you explain in more detail that I didn't understand you: D