Hello! I am a 27 year old man. I have a girlfriend almost my age of about half a year. It is ideal - appearance, manners, behavior, intellect, soul. It is interesting and attractive. With a good job, good income. What initially attracted me to her was the way she made me feel. If I am next to her, if she touches me even slightly, I become the calmest and most harmonious person in the world, I do not feel any tension, she allows me to almost return to my carefree teenage years and just live in the present moment. She's great. But there's something that's bothering me. She has a regime in which she does not like to cheat at all: she gets up at 6 and up to 7 drinks coffee, from 7 to 9 walks the dog, from 9 to 17-18h. works (remotely, from home), from 17-18 to 19-19: 30 walks the dog, then cooks, eats, goes to visit his girlfriend or stays at home, at 10 pm he prepares for sleep and until 11 pm. she must be asleep. At the hairdresser, when he has to go, he goes on Wednesday at 11 o'clock. Go for a manicure on Tuesday at 9 p.m. every third week. Every second weekend he visits Kazanlak, where he sees his brother. The rest of the weekends he goes to Plovdiv, Pleven or Vratsa. Every summer he goes to sea in Ahtopol from 1 to 10 June. Every year he goes to his grandmother's village from November 20 to 30. Attends preventive examinations by doctors in the period 7-10. 01 every year and takes your dog to checkups every year on May 5th. It also shops on a schedule and with an accurate and clear list. The menu has been prepared for her for at least two weeks. I am always welcome in her schedule - she gladly welcomes me at home, we are happy to travel together to one of the mentioned cities, I don't mind participating in all her activities. But somehow there is no question of doing something according to my plan. For example, he does not want to come home. Only once in a thousand dawns did I make her come instead of going to her friend's, but her conclusion was that she preferred to see me at their place. I do not like our Black Sea coast and I offered her to go to a very nice place in Greece this year - she flatly refused and assured me that I would like Ahtopol very much. I suggested that instead of going to Plovdiv one weekend we go to Serbia with my friends - he refused again. When my friends and I get together, I invite her, she doesn't come. On the one hand, I am really fascinated by her and I feel very good in her company. But on the other hand, she clearly shows me that it is not easy to betray her desires. And at some point I can't judge whether in the future, if our relationship becomes more serious, I could expect to make united decisions or I will have to make non-stop compromises with myself. Coincidentally, someone has met this type of person and what are my expectations?
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This is a discipline that is very difficult to learn and forget, if he wants a family he will naturally change it, but if for nothing in the world you would either accept it or not.
In my opinion, she is afraid of new experiences and challenges, she feels best when everything is familiar and strictly arranged. I am almost the same and I tell you, it is unlikely to change. What does it work remotely, I ask because I would like to? M34
I am a man and I also like to have such schedules. The bad thing about me is that I agree to change something and go, for example, to visit with my girlfriend at some of her relatives, but I do it reluctantly and it seems to me, which I think is worse than refusing. If you like it that way, like it, if you don't, you know ... I had a girlfriend who was unpredictable, constantly inventing something new and dragging me to all sorts of different places and noisy companies, constantly meeting new friends and then we went to them. guests, restaurants together, etc. It just doesn't work, it bothers me and I don't like it, that's why my current girlfriend isn't like that. There are passengers for each train, you judge ...
Another one that thinks it's something more than the others. But he is just a dry and uninteresting person. It's good that she has a dog to go through something different, work and schedule through her head, even though she walks on schedule. She must have been a schoolgirl without friends at school.
Man, I understand you, do you live with a biorobot? !!! As much as you like the girl, she's not for a relationship, I'm sorry ... if it's not this plan, someone else will come up with, just to make her comfortable. Find a girl like you, good luck!
Brother, rejoice that you managed to fit into her schedule at all .. it turns out something like - she lives her "life", and you after her .. slipper, tap your foot a little and see that she sticks to her means no she is afraid of losing you .. sooner or later you have to start experiencing her.
Typical behavior of a person used to having all his time for himself. I don't see how she will follow this schedule if she starts giving birth to a child ... by the way, she will hardly disturb her life and a well-ordered life with something like that. I see her more as an old girl with a dog and many hobbies that completely fill her life;))
Horror, run away, this is not normal. It is good to make a plan for tomorrow or next week. But such a manic orderly life is a painful job for me.