Hello. I am an 18-year-old girl. I am here to share something about my life. I don't have any problems in the sense that I live normally, I love my family, but I am angry with myself. The problem is that I am a big pessimist and I lack motivation, self-confidence. Here I want to change something by starting to play sports to eat healthy, to start studying more seriously and I know that all this depends on me, but I do nothing about it. No one can give it to me ready, and I don't want to. And besides, I started to forget a lot, I can't concentrate and I feel like hell. How do I tighten up and become a different person?
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It's like listening to myself. I am a boy of 20 and I have a problem with self-esteem. I am personally motivated by other people. I study at a programmer's academy and there its creator (Svetlin Nakov) is a prominent person who motivates me, I see his successes and this is the thing that charges me. But the problem is my self-esteem, there is none.
It's very naughty.
At 18 it is very difficult and in general. Exercise and healthy eating are just hobbies that require most of the time and money, and you get used to it quickly. Then without them you are naughty, but they do not radically change a person, rather they help each other a little with a walk. Focus on what will bring you money, may God help you and I hope you succeed.
Hello, second me
Hello, do you feel the same way?
Hi, I don't know if it will help you much, but I will try. You have to have some self-confidence, even if it's low, it can still rise in some way. Mine gradually rose next to my friend, because he reproached me that I have nothing, and I am a beautiful and valuable person, and there were people who have it without coverage. In my opinion, each person is unique and there is something worth appreciating ... whether beauty, whether appearance, good character, sense of humor .. Find it and I think it will help you a lot .. Mine is not has raised who knows how much, but at least I already know that I have the right to a little .. that I am also something in this society .. when self-esteem is low you compare yourself with others and it is not pleasant to see how you humiliate yourself by you think you're crazier than they are, when in fact you are not. Appreciate yourself and don't look at others, For example, I acquired it and when I saw how many bad people there are around me and I repeat to myself what a sweetheart I am ... I wish you success! F18