Hi, I'm a boy and I'm 15 years old, from a big city. I have a problem with girls. For starters, I've never had a boyfriend. Maybe it doesn't seem like a big deal to you, and I didn't think it was. However, I've recently started to wonder if I'll ever get caught? Until about a year ago, I was afraid to talk to girls. Then a girl came and I liked her very much. I decided to tell her. Well, she didn't like me, but it didn't matter. Since then, I thought there was nowhere worse to go, so I'm not afraid to talk to girls anymore. I've been to strangers a few times and asked them about Facebook, etc. (and I always just take their Facebook and then nothing happens). However, in general I see girls very often and I want to go and talk to them. However, somehow I think that when they look at me and they already think a lot of bad things about me. I'm not ashamed to talk to them, the problem is that 99% of the cases don't make sense because I either don't like them or they have boyfriends or they like someone else. I constantly write to girls on Facebook and Instagram, but in most cases I look like some desperate guy who doesn't talk to people and at best I'll get a new girlfriend. However, I want more than just friendship. I want a girl next to me, to hug her, to talk, to laugh at my stupid jokes. However, it does not work. When I try to sound confident, I am considered a bastard. When I try to help with something, I become too worried. I like to treat people well, but most of the time they treat me badly (I'm talking mainly about girls) or find it strange. I also don't think my appearance is the problem. I'm nothing who knows what, but I don't think that I'm ugly. Abe, I don't know why, but I can't do it at all. I will be happy if you help me. And please, without comments like: It's not time for boyfriends yet, everything happens with time, she has to like you herself. Not that I don't believe in these things, but I think if you want something, you don't have to wait for someone to give it to you, you have to work for it. Thanks in advance.
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You have no money or you are ugly, there is no other option to dislike them
Why not try ordinary conversations - what do you do in your free time, what music / movies / books do you like, where do you want to be at the moment, etc. and not to help / advise or to be baked. This is how a relationship begins, not like in "50 shades of gray" - good afternoon I'm a millionaire, do you want to fuck;) In other words, learn to communicate face to face. For * these faces, chats, etc. ;)
What zodiac sign are you? I had an acquaintance, a male fish with an ascendant Capricorn, who has the same problems as you. If you tell me your date of birth, month, year, time and place of birth, I will make you a detailed horoscope that will show your character with all aspects of your strengths and weaknesses. Of course, the horoscope is not a divination of the future, it shows the character of man, but the aspects change, every year, every month and day, the planets move, you know;)
I can't say anything about all the girls, but I'm telling you my opinion. Like you boys, we don't like easy things. Of course, you have to take the first step, but if you give the girl time to like you first, the chance of cutting you is much smaller. At least I don't like the guys who show off, do the big work, and when something happens, they wag their tails and calm down. So try to be more of action than words. Behave well with the girls, we love to be on our own. You don't have to be the center of attention to be liked. I think it's much more important what you say than how much you talk. Make jokes with her and be careful what you say so as not to offend her. Be a gentleman. Have your say and defend it in front of anyone. There's nothing wrong with being good, but don't be like a nanny mother,
Classics in the genre, nothing new. What you will read is my experience, so do not take it religiously - your results will vary. If you want to be confident in communication, then you will need more than 3 topics for conversation. Nesha like "good weather, ah", "what music are you listening to" and "well, I like World of Warcraft, I have no other activity" will not take you far. In order to be attractive, you have to work on your character - you can have intellect, height, appearance, money, but this will not help you if you are a full and boring edge (you will not find anything readable, other entrants will appear on their own) . Think about what you want to be - not what others would like, but what you want to do. Education, career, entertainment, physical activity, hobbies, etc. These things will define you in the eyes of others - you yourself will have more to offer as a person, as a person, and not only if you are looking for a relationship. One thing that no one (neither friend nor partner) tolerates is boredom. If you do 2 things in your free time like games and staring at animation, then that determines what you can talk about. If you have more than 2 interests: reading, cycling, swimming, movies, TV series, games, hanging out in the city, walking in nature, programming, animation, these-those ... then you have more reasons to start a conversation, more ways to you maintain an interest in yourself. Expanding your activities gives you more opportunities to meet other people and (sooner or later) the confidence that you have something to offer. Don't think that the rules are complicated - the relationship is a game of economics: you offer what someone else is looking for. If you have it, you have a chance. You go to new places, you expand your activities and the opportunities appear on their own. I will not comment on the look - you know what you look like, decide for yourself for body and clothing. And one more thing - yes, she will have to like you, sorry son. It is her right not to you. And it doesn't matter how hard you work - if he doesn't want you, you leave him alone. There is nothing more disgusting and disgusting than a desperate boy. And it doesn't have to be clear from the beginning that you want to chase her. Women generally do not like to be synonymous with the vagina. You meet, you give a short period of time (judge for yourself, you need experience) and then you try. Samples. Get up, wound or late. she will have to like you, sorry son. It is her right not to you. And it doesn't matter how hard you work - if he doesn't want you, you leave him alone. There is nothing more disgusting and disgusting than a desperate boy. And it doesn't have to be clear from the beginning that you want to chase her. Women generally do not like to be synonymous with the vagina. You meet, you give a short period of time (judge for yourself, you need experience) and then you try. Samples. Get up, wound or late. she will have to like you, sorry son. It is her right not to you. And it doesn't matter how hard you work - if he doesn't want you, you leave him alone. There is nothing more disgusting and disgusting than a desperate boy. And it doesn't have to be clear from the beginning that you want to chase her. Women generally do not like to be synonymous with the vagina. You meet, you give a short period of time (judge for yourself, you need experience) and then you try. Samples. Get up, wound or late. need experience) and then you try. Samples. Get up, wound or late. need experience) and then you try. Samples. Get up, wound or late.
If you are determined to have a relationship at this age, instead of waiting for adulthood or beyond, I see that now Kpop boys are very busy among girls. Change the look of this style - hairstyle, clothes, ala-bala, and I believe that your "shares will rise".
This is me as the opposite sex. I'm 15 too, I'm studying in a big city and I'm not good at boys at all, but not at all. I know what I want from a boy, but I don't know what a boy would want from his girlfriend. You need a girl with whom you can have a purely friendly relationship and who can give you advice about other girls. After all, we know each other best. If you want, give your Instagram. I would be happy to help you, and in return you can also give me advice for the boys :)