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Problem With Women.

By thinkerdude1 September 04, 2020 3 answers Last updated September 04, 2020

Hello, a young man aged 20+ writes to you. I try to keep myself in good physical condition. I do not stop developing mentally. I dare say I am ambitious. I rarely go to discos and bars. I am rarely active on social networks, I do not have nude photos. I have no interest in hurting people for no reason. I don't drink, I don't smoke. I had to grow up very early, the factors that made it happen are many, but I don't want to go into details. All my life my father taught me how to be a man on the spot. Teach me to have respect for women. So soon I realized that sooner or later I would have to become a father. And I started investing double in myself so as not to disappoint my future family one day. I dreamed and dreamed of giving them security in every sense of the word. If I can't provide that, it means I'm incompetent. I dream of a serious relationship, but something doesn't work out for me. So far, they didn't want to meet me, but rather looked at me as a sexual object. I haven't had a relationship for more than 3-4 months. I don't want to be rude, but ... Most of the time I have nothing to say to the girls, they don't want to develop, most of them are ignorant. It doesn't seem very normal to me not to know what subjects you have been studying all semester, but to know when Azis will sing. They tell me with great confidence about their likes on social networks. If I try to strike up a more meaningful conversation, most of the time they look at me dumb. I don't expect to talk all day and all night about nuclear physics, I have a developed sense of humor, but we still need to be able to talk about all sorts of topics - that's why we were given the speech. I feel pretty dumb because I feel like people like me are old-fashioned. When I log in to Facebook, I constantly see photos of assholes and / or demonstrations of some high standard with expensive cars, iPhones, etc. Where should I look for these decent and normal women?

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r0b0ts answered · September 04, 2020

   Everywhere, just like the less decent. The world is very colorful, no one is nailed to a certain place. Everyone goes out, walks, goes to different courses, cafes, bookstores, restaurants and so on. You are more likely to meet a decent woman on the street than at a disco, but they also sometimes go out on Friday nights, so it's a matter of luck. Do not give up. Of course, you are a student after talking about the material during the semester. To be precise, I will tell you that I can talk to you for hours about coordinate systems, because I study this harder this semester, but I very rarely comment on it outside the university. Outside, people need to relax, think less and laugh more. You spend all day lecturing, memorizing different concepts and paying attention in class, and then you're not up to learning. Or you just attend and at the end of the day you are still not at the university. I agree that life is serious, but not so much that you analyze everything in your relationship. When you go out with a woman, take an interest in her opinion on various topics and you will be able to judge her quickly. If you don't like her thinking, judging by your text, your relationship won't be very successful. By the way, I know a lot of decent people, both women and men. You choose your environment. You will find yourself in different circles of people, probably your colleagues do not look alike, but you choose with whom to communicate more. Do not overload yourself with negative analyzes. Communicate boldly and look for a suitable environment, and the right woman will appear. I did so and my life improved significantly. It was as if I was carrying a huge load before, everything seemed very serious to me, I was burdened with other people's malice and problems, I had the feeling that my soul was ugly too. Then I looked around, took a break from everything, and started over. I met all my friends, acquaintances and colleagues again. I got up earlier so as not to rush anywhere. I walked slowly, looked around and put all my energy into paying more attention to good things and people. Two months later I met a great man - caring, smart and with a very big heart. He wrote to me on Facebook, it turned out that he confused me with my nickname. We talked until we got along. We had many common familiar and similar interests. We met a few days later. I want to say that love will find you on its own and you should not burden yourself with thoughts and passions about it. Live your life with a smile, everything will be fine. I took a break from everything and started over. I met all my friends, acquaintances and colleagues again. I got up earlier so as not to rush anywhere. I walked slowly, looked around and put all my energy into paying more attention to good things and people. Two months later I met a great man - caring, smart and with a very big heart. He wrote to me on Facebook, it turned out that he confused me with my nickname. Until we understood each other, we talked. We had many common familiar and similar interests. We met a few days later. I want to say that love will find you on its own and you should not burden yourself with thoughts and passions about it. Live your life with a smile, everything will be fine. I took a break from everything and started over. I met all my friends, acquaintances and colleagues again. I got up earlier so as not to rush anywhere. I walked slowly, looked around and put all my energy into paying more attention to good things and people. Two months later I met a great man - caring, smart and with a very big heart. He wrote to me on Facebook, it turned out that he confused me with my nickname. Until we understood each other, we talked. We had many common familiar and similar interests. We met a few days later. I want to say that love will find you on its own and you should not burden yourself with thoughts and passions about it. Live your life with a smile, everything will be fine. I looked around and put all my energy into paying more attention to good things and people. Two months later I met a great man - caring, smart and with a very big heart. He wrote to me on Facebook, it turned out that he confused me with my nickname. Until we understood each other, we talked. We had many common familiar and similar interests. We met a few days later. I want to say that love will find you on its own and you should not burden yourself with thoughts and passions about it. Live your life with a smile, everything will be fine. I looked around and put all my energy into paying more attention to good things and people. Two months later I met a great man - caring, smart and with a very big heart. He wrote to me on Facebook, it turned out that he confused me with my nickname. Until we understood each other, we talked. We had many common familiar and similar interests. We met a few days later. I want to say that love will find you on its own and you should not burden yourself with thoughts and passions about it. Live your life with a smile, everything will be fine. that love will find you on its own and you should not burden yourself with thoughts and passions for it. Live your life with a smile, everything will be fine. that love will find you on its own and you should not burden yourself with thoughts and passions about it. Live your life with a smile, everything will be fine.

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boner12345r answered · September 04, 2020

   People like you are hard to find. If you want a smart woman, you'll find her somewhere in the library.

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magician_empress answered · September 04, 2020

   Hi, I'm very curious where you find these, whores,, sorry. But men like you are a great treasure. I advise you, for example, to get on a bus, choose a girl who looks okay and be more shy and ask her, for example, about the weather, any romantic would understand you, and they are one of the most decent women in most sometimes they are a lot of fun to relax, and if you win the heart of a romantic, it remains yours forever! Success! The sweet peach