Hello! I'm a girl of 15. I'm popular. I have many friends but not real ones. I have no hobbies. I tried different sports of painting and dances but these things are not for me. I really like singing, but I can't sing. They still don't understand me. I made an internal prison for them, it sucks because there is no one to share with, I tried random friends through the Internet, but nothing. I am asking for advice
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If you love to sing, sing. You don't care that it's fake. In the name of hearing from my loved ones, I sing when I'm alone, but I sing because I like to do it. You worry unnecessarily and burden yourself with the things you miss. Look, there are people to go out with. You have parents. There is an activity you may not be good at, but you like to do it. Find small occasions for smiles. Sometimes these can be the simplest things. I don't know why, but it allows me a lot to go home and have it cleaned, everything unnecessary to be thrown away, everything I don't like to be gone. I believe that home is our fortress. Go into the room, look around, change something. Make it cozy for you, put in all your creative potential, find a small household project to work on willingly. And when you are done, you will stand quietly on the bed and rejoice in what you have achieved, no matter what it is. One must always have no purpose. If you have no goal, you will move confused, you will still miss something. You can talk to a school psychologist, you know, it will probably make you feel a little better. Take off that load you're on. You have friends, but not real ones, but look for the real ones. Try to communicate as openly as possible, express yourself - your thoughts and feelings, share, be free. When you behave genuinely, there is always a freak like you who enjoys you. Everything will be fine, your life is not strikingly bad, you just lost your direction, but you will find it again. You can talk to a school psychologist, you know, it will probably make you feel a little better. Take off that load you're on. You have friends, but not real ones, but look for the real ones. Try to communicate as openly as possible, express yourself - your thoughts and feelings, share, be free. When you behave genuinely, there is always a freak like you who can enjoy you. Everything will be fine, your life is not strikingly bad, you just lost your direction, but you will find it again. You can talk to a school psychologist, you know, it will probably make you feel a little better. Take off that load you're on. You have friends, but not real ones, but look for the real ones. Try to communicate as openly as possible, express yourself - your thoughts and feelings, share, be free. When you behave genuinely, there is always a freak like you who enjoys you. Everything will be fine, your life is not strikingly bad, you just lost your direction, but you will find it again.