Hello, I want to complain about my school, as well as the attitude towards me in general just because I am a Jew. I am constantly ridiculed because of my name, because of my curly hair, because our people are not very wealthy and there was no "poor Jew", they invent insulting nicknames for me, talk to me about Hitler and constantly cry, and I will probably move to another school again. is the same, what could I do to stop? I don't want to fight and ruin my future, but it's very hard for me to be called a rag and that I slept in buckets because I was rubbish. Several times boys gathered and pushed me between them, even in class they measured me and told me that they would put my head in the toilet and all kinds of insults, and the teachers did not tell them anything! I'm scared, but even to tell my mother doesn't make sense, she'll just worry too. Benjamin M.
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Is this in Bulgaria? Very strange. I studied with Pomaks, Gypsies and co. and there were no such things. We were united. I think your problem is not so much your background as your weakness. Always harvesting mops are more bent children. Especially in this school they found you as a victim and you will not be able to save yourself. I recommend you change schools. You haven't come across a class, teachers or school. It makes sense to tell your mother - she will change schools. Do not harness these cattle otherwise. They will be on the construction site tomorrow, you will be a learned man-lawyer, say, a doctor, a teacher. The more you harness them, cry, and so on, the more pleasure you give them. Happy New Year. Take religious leave and change schools. It's not late!!! P.P. Contact the Jewish community in our country and see where there are more people like you going to school there. The secret of the success of the Jews is education - they will have chosen good schools. Even if it is not in your city - go to a hostel, but there you will be much calmer and you will be able to indulge in learning and growing as a person. And yet - it's not just you. Bulgarian children abroad beat them in the same way because they are Bulgarians. Don't take it personally - there are all kinds of cattle everywhere, but obviously your school is not good and the children of the intelligentsia are not taught there, but of the simpletons. If it weren't for your background, they would crush you for something else to make them feel strong - they have nothing else. They are dumb and they will stay dumb, and as adults they will be drivers, cleaners and make sandwiches at McDonald's. but there you will be much calmer and you will be able to devote yourself to learning and growing as a person. And yet - it's not just you. Bulgarian children abroad beat them in the same way because they are Bulgarians. Don't take it personally - there are all kinds of cattle everywhere, but obviously your school is not good and the children of the intelligentsia are not taught there, but of the simpletons. If it weren't for your background, they would crush you for something else to make them feel strong - they have nothing else. They are dumb and they will stay dumb, and as adults they will be drivers, cleaners and make sandwiches at McDonald's. but there you will be much calmer and you will be able to devote yourself to learning and growing as a person. And yet - it's not just you. Bulgarian children abroad beat them in the same way because they are Bulgarians. Don't take it personally - there are all kinds of cattle everywhere, but obviously your school is not good and the children of the intelligentsia are not taught there, but of the simpletons. If it weren't for your background, they would crush you for something else to make them feel strong - they have nothing else. They are dumb and they will stay dumb, and as adults they will be drivers, cleaners and make sandwiches at McDonald's. If it weren't for your background, they would crush you for something else to make them feel strong - they have nothing else. They are dumb and they will stay dumb, and as adults they will be drivers, cleaners and make sandwiches at McDonald's. If it weren't for your background, they would crush you for something else to make them feel strong - they have nothing else. They are dumb and they will stay dumb, and as adults they will be drivers, cleaners and make sandwiches at McDonald's.
If they decide to make fun of someone for something - they can find something for everyone ... I hope they give you good advice, because I don't remember what needs to be done ...
I was also ridiculed at school. I was in a lot of pain because of this, just like you, but at one point I just decided to accept things as they are, without caring what other people think of me.
Tell your mother, don't be patient, she needs to know. He changed schools, but even if he started there, he immediately turned to the class teacher and the principal, later. Bullying must be stopped in its infancy. Follow the hierarchy-class-director-district inspectorate, but in case of something more striking you can file a complaint directly to the ministry. What city are you in?
Dude, I know it sucks to be like that. You just haven't found the right school. I know many Jews, but they have never told me about such a thing. If you are from Sofia, the only thing to do is to go to 134SU. Investigate things. Good luck ;)
And I advise you to change schools. I have never heard such insults, mockery and threats. I can't even imagine how bad you feel. Share with your mother, she will help you the best.
He moved to the Jewish school
In high school we had two Jews, one Abram, the other had a more Bulgarian name, but the family name was understood to be Jewish. But they have never been treated much. By the way, I am an ethnic Bulgarian, but I have also fallen victim to the "stronger" (complexes) in one of the schools I attended until the 9th grade. Measurements, fights, threats and so on. I started training on the levers, if nothing else, at least it helped me with my self-confidence.
I am not a "troll", I think I have the right to share because I was born in Bulgaria and I feel part of this nation. I am not from Sofia, but from a small town to Varna and I do not have a large selection of schools. It may only be so in my class, even though I am white, they harass me, I know that boys of Roma origin are also harassed, but there are no such people in my class and that's why they attack me, I have no idea! And I want to have a Bulgarian name, I want to change it but I'm not an adult. If I tell the director they will make fun of me even more! B.
Author, they attack not because of what you are, but who you are. They felt weak in you. Children are just cruel. Just try to ignore them. The more you roar and tremble, the more cruel they will become - such individuals take pleasure in harassing and feeling strong. Also advice - sign up for some martial arts - from boxing to karate, even MMA. First, there you will meet many cool people who have a passion for sports, not to harass and beat. It will allow you to mature, to be able to defend yourself. I am a girl, a pure Bulgarian and I was again a victim of mobbing, I was beaten by boys from a neighboring class and I was isolated in mine - I don't even know why this was, but in the end I decided that I was not asleep. I moved to the back or front rank ALONE and so for about 2 years I ignored the others, and I focused on having good grades and found hobbies OUTSIDE a school where the attitude was normal. Yes, but at one time my classmates noticed that most of them, especially in Literature and History, couldn't handle the topics or the homework, and they started hanging on my desk for consultations for a whole break, and because I was sitting alone, every hour was different. me to help him. However, I did not allow myself to be part of any group or anything like that, and in the end it turned out that I had with the whole class. I had helped both doubles and excellent students. Then I moved to another high school and there I did it again - I sat on the first or last rank alone and I did not fight for the attention of others at all. I watched myself fight in groups, insult each other, how they spoil and finally I had again with everyone and today I guess - they rely on me to organize a class meeting, I made the groups on Facebook and the high school, and the class and the wedding I invited absolutely the whole class plus class. If people feel that you are striving for their friendship, that you are complex and desperate - they will crush you. However, if they feel that you are not asleep, that you are happy with yourself, they will look for you. If they see that you are succeeding in school, that things are going well for you - they will come to you on their own. In martial arts you will find real friends and most importantly - purely physically you will learn to defend yourself when they are beaten and physically harassed. Yes, they will beat you too, especially if there are many, but you are one, but you will not be the victim anymore and when they eat one or another kick, they will think twice the next time whether to attack you. Another option is to go to a big city - for example Varna - in a dormitory and study at another high school. Nobody sleeps there that you are a Jew, but be careful - you can still come across such types if you do not change. Weak people are simply attracted to them, they like suffering. Interesting, but these guys then outgrow this behavior and calm down. The boy who regularly beat me, for example, today is a calm father and husband, even a guild, has a small construction business and donates money to orphans and the like. There is an age when some people just kill them for this kind of behavior and there are children like you who attract them. Fight because a bowed head will not help you at all! Do not deal with principals, teachers, parents, because you will get the name of a porter. It is important to deal with the situation alone, because when you grow up you will be alone in the problems again.
Benjamin, you have a great name and your origins are associated with a proud and very suffering people. Do not change your name, please, you are connected with your ancestors, as well as with the country in which you were born and live. I am surprised and ashamed that this is happening in Bulgaria. My advice is to really talk to your parents and inform the school about this behavior. These shitheads need to shine. They have no right to behave like that with anyone. And you will be very valuable and useful to our common homeland if you seek support and do not allow them to wave their flag in this low way, simply because they are more or because they are more muscular.
Jews, in my opinion, are not bad people, but your problem is that you are DIFFERENT from your classmates and you are not aggressive, that's why they jumped on you. In other words, you have another origin that they do not understand and you are helpless because you are alone against them. Benji, (sorry if you don't like being called that), I just think you're trying to make more friends with the girls in the class, that's how they'll protect you, and you'll have boyfriends and they'll envy you!