Hello! I have been a divorced mother for years. I live with my 16-year-old daughter. I'm worried about her - she's not going anywhere this summer. And almost every night, when I get home from work, we fight. The thing that makes me even sadder is that he hits me and throws objects. Let me be touched and turn blue. That's why I'm ashamed to wear T-shirts. This aggression in her worries me. She is clean - does not smoke and does not accept doping. In my fright, I even threatened her with the police. When I ask her why she behaves like this every day, she yells at me that I hated her, I was constantly annoyed with her, I was cold and she felt like an empty place, but I don't think that's a reason to behave like that. She also told me she hated me. Immediately after the quarrels, he came to apologize to me and said that when he was angry he could not recognize himself. I don't think I'm doing anything wrong. I see myself in a miracle. Can you show me if I'm wrong? Should we go to a psychologist or in social straight? Give me some advice, please, it is very difficult for me.
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You've spoiled it to the extreme and now you're paying for it. There is no respect or esteem. For her, you are a servant and a slave, obliged to give her money. This is only the beginning.
It is possible to have a mental illness, take her to a psychiatrist, not a psychologist. The earlier the disease is detected, the worse it gets. This is not normal, listen to me and take her or go alone first and tell the psychiatrist everything
Go to a psychologist.
Teenage things guys, other problems there is something and kills whether at least girlfriends to share, to go out. Take her to a psychologist I went to years ago is not a bad thing in those years it is normal for the emotions to be more I was the same, but you should not pour out your anger on you there is a problem for sure why and what only she can tell you , relative, friend, psychologist you choose.
I do not know if a psychiatrist or psychologist, but be sure to consult a specialist! It is true that teenagers can be stubborn, slimy, bad, irritating and the like, but in this case I do not think it is from hormones and I strongly hope that it does not turn out to be a mental illness, but with these outbursts and abrupt changes in behavior is absolutely possible.
Bipolar disorder most likely .. psychologist required!