I am already writing to you quite worried due to the fact that my boyfriend and I have had problems with sex for several months. I'm 25 years old, and he's 27, we've been together for 5 years and everything went relatively well until the moment we lived together. The sex slowly died down, and I never figured out the reason, at first he said it was because he couldn't find a job. I showed understanding and I didn't press it, I know it's stress. And so he found a job, and the problem still exists. Now he says he is not used to it yet, he is still tired, he falls asleep early. I'm sure he doesn't cheat on me, he just doesn't have time, he rarely goes out alone. I, for my part, do not know what to do, I tried with sexy lingerie, various unusual things, but the effect is only momentary. I also tried to talk, without much effect. I just started to like it, I have needs, I want to go satisfied again. I am also considering the option for a lover. If anyone can give advice, thanks.
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Why look for a lover and get into movies? Just break up and go your own way, he obviously doesn't want you as a woman, maybe he has such plans in his head. I don't believe it's just sex, you know, but it's usually just the last straw. You are a young man, there is no point in wasting your life. Can you make a family with this person on this basis? What will be the development of your relationship? (or rather, how far can it degrade?) Accept that it just wasn't love, that it's time to change your life ... Laura
What does "sex problem" mean? You haven't had sex in "a few" months. Or you do it every day, but only once and you don't see much. We don't know you so be specific.
Well, I don't think there's anything to worry about, give him time ... my friend and I had a period where we didn't have sex very often and he always thought I had a lover, but there was nothing like that, just a period when I was like I had no desire in the hole, I don't know why it happens. But I don't think you need to worry
Yes, yes, and a marmot wraps the chocolate in foil :) Wait for it to fade in time. Give him as much time as you want. Does not matter. The same problem happened to us, unfortunately, after I got married. My wife slowly "got out" of sex and nothing helped. After 14 years family life I can only say one thing: "The dish that a woman refuses sex is the wedding cake." Now I rejoice more often at Easter and Christmas, that at least they are more often. Good luck and good luck bobsixkiller
Darling, he's just not sexually explicit. My advice is that such men in a normal sexual woman, no matter what you do, are always like that. Since I have a bitter personal experience, I would recommend you until you have children to look for another. I say again if you are sexual. This with stress and the hole is a wind job. Maybe a few days or a week and that's it. And in exceptional cases. But you decide - sex is very important and it greatly contributes to the durability and harmony of the relationship. Otherwise you will wait, you will procrastinate, you will hope and one day you will wake up at 40, with two children and a lover. I hope it doesn't happen to you.
I don't know people and I have the same problem ... and I have 2 children, while we didn't have them we had sex twice a day and now if I get hot once a month I just shine (((, I try to be very very active but it's no use , he's always trying to get ahead of me and fall asleep before me, I don't know what to do, I tried everything, I even packed his luggage, but he's still the same, he's not late and we're always together, he can't cheat on me to think that he is self-satisfied ... help please, I accept all advice ...