Hello, I want to have anal sex with my boyfriend, and a lot of it, but the problem is that I'm afraid not of the pain because I'm sure it will be something new and nice, but of the fact that I've heard that some girls miss out when emptied in them and an enema and such things were done. So my question is the following, is it certain that after an enema there is no danger or there is cause for concern
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It happened to me quite spontaneously. He was 15 this month. My friend and I decided to celebrate February 14 with a little delay, but it was our first Valentine's Day together. We booked a hotel room, but I had no idea it would get there. I didn't have time for an enema or any other preparation. He just got up. I didn't miss it after that, and there were no mistakes during the contact. Feeling like the first time I can't say it was who knows what, I felt pain and it was as if I would miss it at any moment, but nothing like that happened. We talked a lot about this topic and I felt safe. I knew that even if something happened, I would find understanding on his part. A few days later I felt uncomfortable, but it was over. My advice is not to worry, to trust him completely and to relax. Everything is on a mental basis. And from a hygienic point of view, maybe it's better to do an enema, but I didn't have that time. And despite everything, I did not drop or stain it with anything. There were no embarrassing moments. I wish you success. Do not worry. Relax and think of good things and everything will be fine!
I've heard that too and I think it's true, but I can't advise you because I wouldn't do it for anything in the world !!! Good luck
1st: there is no safer version of the enema. You can buy it from any health store. 2nd: relax as much as possible (for your own good, so at least the pain passes after the first 30 seconds) and do not think about how you can relax - so you will only spoil your pleasure, and there really is;) I say it from personal experience. Good luck !!!
An enema is done on pregnant women before giving birth, on porn ladies. I don't think it makes sense to do that. My friend is also worried about not missing out, etc. but that's no reason to be disgusted with it if it happens. Anal sex is a pleasure for both of us, and we do it entirely at her request. And there is pain (but it quickly turns into pleasure), at least until the muscles relax, but we use a cream. If you decide to try anal, just do it. No need to worry, even if you drop out (this hasn't happened to us so far) you just wash yourself. Success!
I will tell you that even if you do an enema, it is still possible to miss it. It's all in the galva. Relax. Do not think about that. Just trust!
Use the power, young Skywalker!
It's nice, you can do a bee enema ... all you have to do is bathe the rectum with a lukewarm shower and then throw away the faeces ... like you do every morning. A little cream and the pleasure is great ... don't be afraid if you love him, if he loves you ... he has to put on a condom - because of the viruses ... it's your product, but beware of pollution ... don't read me a second time ... don't listen to others - listen to your heart ...
How exactly is an enema made ??? Wait for response
Anal sex is a very good thing and everyone should try it to make sure it is. I don't talk about enemas at all, because I don't think it's necessary.
Hello! Don't worry at all, it's not a pain to die. Even later you feel good. To be more relaxed you can use a women's shower. Use it before intercourse during a bath, as an enema. You must moisten the area (which is the job of your partner) with some greasy cream, Vaseline, lubricant. All you have to do is relax and enjoy yourself. But for you to be really good, your friend must be experienced, careful and know how to predispose you. Success!
I mean, at number 6, reading a little more literature can't get a foul with an enema.
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If the penis is removed abruptly, a vacuum may form and the situation may become dirty. The enema is recommended to make sure that at some point if your partner takes it out he will not see his penis all in brown :)
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My friend doesn't tell me what to do
17. My girlfriend doesn't give me an answer on what to do - well, ask her more insistently and if she doesn't change her mind, you change your girlfriend ... This doesn't apply if you like her more than sex ...
Can anal sex be performed during pregnancy as an alternative to vaginal sex?
In my opinion, there is no problem, and you can do it vaginally, there are certain positions for pregnant women, but I think it is possible up to 3 months only in May, or something like that, I'm not sure, check or consult your gynecologist :)
I have had anal sex 2-3 times only, but I really liked it from the first time. The penis and anus should be well lubricated, even slightly inserted inside. It is good to do an enema, but it is not necessary. In addition, it is very important that before the penis penetrates from behind, the clitoris and vagina are stimulated and the woman is in a state of very strong arousal, almost before orgasm. Then no pain is felt. Another important thing is that while penetrating the man to caress the partner's clitoris or she stimulates it herself. It also dulls any pain. Success! Fear not, it is a great pleasure.
22. I have anal sex from time to time. I can share my experience of how I got used to it, although I don't like it very much, but I have to do it because I support myself financially through paid love. The first and most important condition is hygiene. I recommend to the ladies who have decided to try to make an enema first with the help of a lady's shower. Then, if you are afraid that it will hurt, I recommend that you buy a cream from the pharmacy called LEDOCAIN, it is a local anesthetic and smeared on the anus, and it can even numb the area inside and make the act easier. So at least the first time until you get used to it and relax the muscle. then, as you get used to it, you can use a lubricant. When using LEDOCAIN, be sure to put on a condom, otherwise you risk your partner not being able to ejaculate because LEDOCAIN acts as a local anesthetic.
To 22 of 21: Oh, darling. This is not about paid love but about pleasure. I'm really sorry you have to do this. But when it is desired it is different. You don't need any anesthesia.
24. from 22 to 21. It's not just about paid love. I also gave advice to those ladies who for one reason or another are forced to have anal sex by their partners and do not dare to refuse. Because sometimes we do things that are not very close to our heart for fear of offending our partner.
To the author: if you ask me, don't try at all, especially if without an enema and it hurts a lot to know there is no pleasure
It's so unhygienic how you can be so stupid
My girlfriend and I have anal sex quite regularly; as if she curled up at my insistence, but the interesting thing is that she gets an orgasm easier than during vaginal sex .. broken clitoris should be stimulated. We have never had enemas and we do not use condoms - no problems. Good will and strong excitement are enough ... well - and a little lubricant! Do not give up this pleasure :)
In principle, feces are not in the hole where your boyfriend inserts his penis ... There may be some debris .. but in principle, roughly speaking, the shit does not stay there
Hello! I have been having anal sex with my partner for 2 years, on average twice a week. I always do an enema before that. There have been blunders twice in those two years. I don't know what it was due to ... the abrupt extraction or something, but the first time I died of shame. The important thing is that I got an understanding from my partner ... he still knows where he puts it. Until before this happened, I felt incredible pleasure from anal sex, then I constantly think about what will happen after he takes it out and I can't fully enjoy it. Mental attitude is very important ...
To 28. And if not there, where is the shit ??
There is a lot of information on the internet about anal sex. I will summarize the most important thing for you: you must have gone soon in great need. Every organism is different, but if you were to the toilet a few hours before the act, you will be calmer. An enema can be made in different ways, you can buy an intimate shower device from the pharmacy. I personally have not used, I have adapted an empty bottle of matte coloring balm Prestige (see in cosmetics what it is). Fill it with a little shower gel and water. But for me personally, the most effective is finger washing;) And the simplest. About the release - I've never had a problem. Of course, if you ate legumes. you will not have anal sex :) Also if you have stomach discomfort or gas on this day. Over time, you also learn how to do it so that there is no pain. Use a lot of lubricant and before inserting the penis let it start with one finger, then two, three until you relax. From the first time on the back it will hurt a lot. Lie on your side (spoon position), for a start it is best. I really like my boyfriend cumming in my ass. You should not pull out your penis abruptly afterwards.
I can't understand how much pleasure you get from the famous anal sex, given that the things you think about are: - Will it hurt a lot? "Won't I miss it?" - Is it possible to expand my anus a lot? - How to make an enema? Do not have anal sex for the sole purpose of pleasing your boyfriend.
№32, they won't answer you, because these are pig stories, they pretend to be interesting. The next series will be how they do it in the ears.
Number 32 I have anal sex and I like to do it and I want it myself ... but I, like you, do not understand what pleasure you can feel if you constantly ask yourself - will it hurt, will I not miss, will he dump me if it happens, etc. The pleasure I feel is related in some way to the pain, but it is not pain, I feel ... stretched .. I am ready for this feeling. It could be some kind of masochism ... I don't know. But I feel the feeling very much ... Not to mention that when he is behind my friend goes crazy and becomes super rude ... A strange fire shines in his eyes - dirty, almost scary ... Then for me this is the most the great man in the world ... It's weird ... maybe it's more of an emotional and mental pleasure ... otherwise than physical pleasure. I like it because I always choose a position in which his penis hits forward towards the vagina ...
From number 32: I understand, I wish you success! Do what brings pleasure to both of you, no matter what kind it is;)
The pleasure is stronger than the pain :) you grit your teeth for a few seconds until you relax and then comes the pleasure. If you are calm and trust your partner, there will be no problem. I haven't had an enema and everything is fine again
Well, I've also heard of an enema with a shower (the so-called telephone receiver) ... has anyone tried it to say exactly how this works ...? somehow I can't imagine it
to 37: you remove the handset, put it in your ass, run VERY LIGHT lukewarm water, after a few seconds you stop the water, remove the shower and go to the toilet .. repeat several times until clean water starts to flow :)
Until №32 .. I agree with you, but ... because there are many leagues that do it only for the sake of their boyfriend ... and these men learn that way ... if no one does it, they will not learn that everything they are allowed
39 "because there are many leagues where they do it only because of their friend" - how do you know? I don't think you do whistles, you're just a full house then ...
Let me clarify that I am a man. At the age of 35, not 18. I have been having anal sex with my wife for 5 years. An enema is MANDATORY to do ... if you don't want your boyfriend to take out his chicken and see a brown one on it .... Without an enema, you will relax and be calm until you make a small blunder. Then you will never be able to relax ... so don't do experiments ... but enemas. :) The sex itself there is nice, BUT you must be very aroused. I'm a man, and I've tried to see how it is - I tried first, then she. You can't persuade someone to try something and not know what you're making them do. My wife, from time to time, has the pleasure (and not a little, as she claims) to watch our vibrator enter the back of me ... and I always like it, it's not always perfect ... there are times when it happens, the toy (or my penis - applies to my wife) come in, but it's not as nice as when they relax completely. Otherwise, if I have to quote the surprise (to note that she was not a fan at first): "It's not for every day, but although less common, it's definitely not to be missed." So much for me. Have a nice sex :) ps Aaaaaa, I forgot to mention, I'm not even (unconscious) gay, would or something like that ... anal sex for me is just something we tried, we both liked it and it stayed on the menu at least for now, as long as we like it ... It is important to have diversity, not to have stereotypes (hinder the innovative spirit) and to be pleasant to both ....
Until №40 from №39: I know, because many girlfriends have said that they don't like it, but they do it because of their boyfriend ... I give blowjobs :) But I don't swallow :)
Hello ... for now I have not seen any exact explanation of your question in the comments, so I think I will give it to you: 1st: You go to the pharmacy and buy a women's shower (costs about BGN 10) and a water-based lubricant. 2nd: You go into the bathroom, fill the shower tank with water, put the tube in the back, then sit on the toilet and push yourself slightly to drain the water ... repeat the exercise until clean water starts to flow;) 3 -to: Once you're done with the enema, wash well with intimate gel or antibacterial soap 4th: Before you try anal sex, you have to be very, very aroused, so do 20 minutes of foreplay, then put it in front of you 5th: Let him lubricate you nicely to insert a finger lightly, then two, etc ... 6th: When you feel absolutely ready, try to insert it ... 7th: In the first seconds it may hurt a little, but do not tighten in any case. I also have anal sex for 5 years or more and so far I have no problems - I have not let go, nor my muscle is relaxed .. it's just a pleasure. My personal advice to you is if you do not do an enema, you must use condoms, if you do, a condom may be absent ... Last: never do the experiment "from the ass to the vagina", because no wonder you get cystitis or some other crap :) 32
To the Author: Question about anal sex? I did it, nothing special, narrower and what? Dirty work ;-)
If you want, try a vibrator the first time.
And my friend wants us to have anal sex but I don't want to be scared and I can't even imagine ...
My boyfriend and I had anal sex two days ago. We bought a cream for relaxation and pain relief and everything was fine. k., but now it hurts me "at the entrance" ... Whether because my friend was quite upset or because of the tight underwear I wear, I don't know, but it hurts - constantly, not to mention when sitting down. Give advice on what to apply or something like that. Otherwise it was cool, I even liked it :)
I read everything. I wonder what people do when a meeting happens by accident? And of course, there is no time to prepare enemas and other cleansers. If anyone knows the answer let him say please! Or a matter of luck not to soil the situation? :)
to №49 Well, if you're not new to anal sex, it's no problem. I make an enema with the tools at hand. A plastic bottle is enough for me. I fill it to the top, bend down strongly forward, insert his throat into the anus and squeeze as much as possible. It usually takes about 0.5 liters, which is enough to rinse the rectum. When I repeat the operation once more, the terrain becomes clear ... it's not so much that I take it in my mouth after anal, but so far I haven't had it get dirty.
up to 50, Thanks for the answer, BUT if it's my first time what do we do and everything happens at a chance meeting ??? If you can answer I will thank you many times :)))
Up to 51 E now you have to ask what to do if it happens to you for the first time in the desert, where there is not a drop of water. If you haven't been to the big deal recently, you just won't let go of anal and you're done.
I have been having anal sex for several years with my husband. I never asked idiotic questions, otherwise I wouldn't have done it. It happened by accident, we did not discuss it in words or conversations. I like it and I can't give it up since. THE FEELING? No pain, only the first time a slight irritation, as in virginity and the first time in front. I feel that it fills me, the feeling is supreme pleasure, the vaginal penetration cannot be described, as if it reaches my stomach and eyes, you know, so close to orgasmic or pre-orgasmic states, but it lasts longer. I want to feel it inside me and I really feel it, it's very different, it's much better. If this is important to you, because I see that there are people who are really interested and not just spitting (without knowing it) - yes, I gave birth, it may also matter about the pain, as you say. I don't have any current or past illnesses related to my reproductive system, nor have I had major surgery, if that matters. my husband explicitly told me that if I was in pain or had unpleasant feelings, we would never do it again and it was not a problem for him. Then we talked and he shared that he also really likes it, so we have been doing it for 5 years and I am happy with that fact. I am not ashamed, nor do I agree with comments like "in the ears". we have been doing this for 5 years now and I am happy with this fact. I am not ashamed, nor do I agree with comments like "in the ears". we have been doing this for 5 years now and I am happy with this fact. I am not ashamed, nor do I agree with comments like "in the ears".