Question About Meeting People

   keep silly topics of conversation - where you are from, what you do, what music you listen to, what you come home with, what you come with, what cinema you enjoy ... find common topics and start digging into them.

   Are you a boy or a girl? I don't know how boys make friends, but girls make friends by vision ... I was a student for a long time, but I changed 4 schools, so I have experience. Wherever I went, I was always judged by my vision, there are groups, I have always managed to please those who have the opportunity to choose, ie they are the coolest. I say this with regret, because I know how they treated the more ugly (with bad clothes or full, with glasses, some noticeable strangeness of vision). So - if you have a vision, they will choose you, they will come to you, and from there it's easy, be friendly, that means to smile, with a good attitude, then comes the sharing, to have something to talk about and do .. You may be in the 10th grade, ie at the age of 15-16, but this does not mean that you do not have an almost formed personality, with interests, activities, principles even ... With more listening and moderate sharing in the general group, you will learn things and you will be able to sift, then with one or two or three you will form a closer acquaintance, because you are similar. You should not have a desire to communicate and get to know to have trouble making friends, or to be a very repulsive person. Honestly - there are some and it's a pity for them, but they are intolerable, I, as a pity, gave a chance to the rejected, but these people are really not okay, I do not speak at all, there are exceptions, I have made friends with drunks, anarchists, sectarians, all strange birds, but there is a special type of people - bad energy exudes from them and no one wants them. You must have no desire to communicate and get to know each other in order to have problems with friendships, or to be a very repulsive person. Honestly - there are some and it's a pity for them, but they are intolerable, I, as a pity, gave a chance to the rejected, but these people are really not okay, I do not speak at all, there are exceptions, I have made friends with drunks, anarchists, sectarians, all strange birds, but there is a special type of people - bad energy exudes from them and no one wants them. You must have no desire to communicate and get to know each other in order to have problems with friendship, or to be a very repulsive person. Honestly - there are some and it's a pity for them, but they are intolerable, I, as a pity, gave a chance to the rejected, but these people are really not okay, I do not speak at all, there are exceptions, I have made friends with drunks, anarchists, sectarians, all strange birds, but there is a special type of people - bad energy exudes from them and no one wants them.

   You smile, greet, then introduce yourself. It starts with various stupid everyday questions - Why did you enroll in this course? Where do you study / work? Do you want to sit at a table I have no acquaintances here? Do you want to have a coffee during the break / after the course? From the answer to the first sample question you will be able to tie at least 2-3 topics. It is important to be friendly, to smile, to talk calmly, not to look like someone has just taken your breakfast. Number 2 has given you an interesting point of view, as a girl and I have been greeted many times by the vision, but for the first time I think. Definitely, if I go to a new place and fall asleep, therefore I look sleep deprived, no one is interested in coming to me. In other situations, people try to make friends because they do not want to be without friends during the course. You have to remember that. No one is too different from you. Most people, being in a new environment, also feel out of place and have the desire to make friends, but at the same time they are a little worried. I remember when I enrolled in a 9th grade course I was very worried that I didn't know anyone. I talked to a group of people and at one point we fell silent. And I said so much that I don't want to be silent, because it would be very lonely for me to have no one to stay with for 5 minutes outside during the rest, and I'm not very sociable. The group of strangers accepted this sincerity very cheerfully, everyone started sharing stories about how they got into new environments, how they happened to worry that they didn't know anyone or even stories in which they exposed themselves to strangers. Then, for the first time, it occurred to me that people are allowed to share when you share something. Over time, I have come across similar situations many times, which have convinced me that if one person shares, the others also share, and then a slight cohesion is felt. So you don't have to worry about speaking openly. You won't say breast milk, but if you have something in mind, say it out loud. In a large percentage of cases, you will find understanding and strike up a normal conversation.