Question Mainly To The Male Audience

   This is a dream woman! They are quite rare.

   I wouldn't like it. I do not like too stubborn. Something balanced. And there is a difference between not wanting to disturb a man's comfort and agreeing blindly. You can just give everyone your opinion and discuss and choose the best for everyone without anyone having to.

   No, I like women with their own thinking and who stand their ground.

   I don't prefer them, why should anyone constantly agree with me? Is she a slave or a friend of mine?

   It's great!

   Every capricious muffin has an opinion and defends it. The point is to agree with your man. And men get very tired when they always organize everything, where to go, what to do, they want the woman to take part and say what she wants to do.

   Men, do you want a woman to be able to cook?

   Personally, I love women who do not use ": e" in written speech.

   "but the fact that they are constantly given everything they are tired of, and quickly" "It's a lie. Only some psychopaths, where only intrigue is in their heads ... For us, normal people, this does not bother us.

   "What for you is the girl who constantly agrees with you? Who wants to make you feel as comfortable as possible and therefore denies you almost nothing?" Such a girl is like God, she doesn't exist: D

   As with most things in life, the truth is in the middle - neither to be a voiceless letter without your own opinion, nor to want to impose yourself at any cost. Have an opinion, but allow the other to have freedom.

   The most correct is in the middle. The most unpleasant is an arrogant woman living in the role of a muffin. There are people like you and there is nothing wrong with that, people are such that they will accept it as a weakness and crush you, not everyone would appreciate it. Male 34y.o.

   For a long-term relationship, a definitely submissive, gentle and feminine woman has a huge advantage. The other is nonsense in the style of "grapes are sour". The average woman these days has a big mouth, and is cynical, which is a great turn off even sexually.

   H.3 you say that you like women with their own thinking and who defend their opinion. All people have their own thinking, but not all think logically and with knowledge. Everyone's opinion is based on his knowledge combined with his logic. If a person does not have logical thinking and has not received real knowledge on a given issue, he cannot have a correct opinion. If such a person defends his opinion and does what he thinks is right, he will certainly regret the results of his actions. I know two families in which men listened to the opinions of their wives and both families lost all their savings. One family lost $ 300,000 and the other nearly $ 500,000. Their wives wanted to get even richer, and they lost what they had saved in their lives. There is rarely a woman with sound logic and deep knowledge, and if men listen to such women, big surprises await them. Will you agree with the opinion of such women as those mentioned in the two examples above.

   I am 21 and I communicate intimately only with men who try to make both of us comfortable. Yours is an understatement and adjustment to men who care little about you. There are all kinds of women.

   For this girl, I think she is insecure and complex. And that he doesn't believe it's worth the effort. Most likely it is right, it is best known. It offers constant care and help, often unsolicited, and it is repulsive. She often agrees, and then it turns out that she didn't agree and I had to read her mind. And I turn out to be bad. It gets me into a movie that she does everything for me and I do nothing. And she either doesn't want anything or she doesn't know what she wants. I somehow have to know, however, nothing, that in general nothing touches her and there are not many interests. In the end, out of many unsolicited services, I turn out to be a debtor without understanding. Abe, in general, I'm a big villain in this movie. I like being like that and I say end. And this girl asks me, "Honestly, after everything I've done for you? Nobody loved you so much, you don't appreciate me! I'm so good, I stop complying, and she stays. I do stupid things, and she forgives, and I already know that there is no point in trying at all. No hero I feel with such a girl. I stop complying, and she stays. I do stupid things, and she forgives, and I already know that there is no point in trying at all. No hero I feel with such a girl.

   I'm a woman, but it happened to me. When I was your age, I caught a boyfriend for the first time. I was so enthusiastic and happy that someone finally paid attention to me, that I was doing everything he wanted, I agreed, I didn't dare say anything in spite of that, and so on. As a result, he eventually called me a "mouse." I had no opinion, I never offered anything, etc. I was very affected, but I realized my mistake. This is very invertebrate and pathetic behavior, no normal person will respect you if you behave like that. I'm not just talking about love relationships, but about all kinds of relationships between people. Of course, there is another side. Many men prefer a submissive, obedient and trouble-free woman next to them. Such fame is brought to Asians, who consider themselves humble and fulfilling wives who will be faithful only to you and will make you feel like a god, serving all your needs without objection. Not all, of course, but those from more remote and poorer places. The sale of Asian brides is in full swing. I guess that the so-called "yellow fever" is partly due to this - she both looks exotic and looks at her feet and listens to what you tell her. For me, this is not normal and is equivalent to slavery. You do not want an adequate relationship with an equal person, but a submissive sex maid. This speaks of personal problems, complexes, feelings of inferiority and a whole bunch of cool things. So the idea is not to behave like a complete curse and uncompromising bastard, but to have an opinion to defend, combined with flexibility of character. I guess that the so-called "yellow fever" is partly due to this - she both looks exotic and looks at her feet and listens to what you tell her. For me, this is not normal and is equivalent to slavery. You do not want an adequate relationship with an equal person, but a submissive sex maid. This speaks of personal problems, complexes, feelings of inferiority and a whole bunch of cool things. So the idea is not to behave like a complete curse and uncompromising bastard, but to have an opinion to defend, combined with flexibility of character. I guess that the so-called "yellow fever" is partly due to this - she both looks exotic and looks at her feet and listens to what you tell her. For me, this is not normal and is equivalent to slavery. You do not want an adequate relationship with an equal person, but a submissive sex maid. This speaks of personal problems, complexes, feelings of inferiority and a whole bunch of cool things. So the idea is not to behave like a complete curse and uncompromising bastard, but to have an opinion to defend, combined with flexibility of character. This speaks of personal problems, complexes, feelings of inferiority and a whole bunch of cool things. So the idea is not to behave like a complete curse and uncompromising bastard, but to have an opinion to defend, combined with flexibility of character. This speaks of personal problems, complexes, feelings of inferiority and a whole bunch of cool things. So the idea is not to behave like a complete curse and uncompromising bastard, but to have an opinion to defend, combined with flexibility of character.

   Don't worry about it at all, be who you are, he knows your husband. If you try to distort things at most so that nothing happens, these things are not thought of. A man first of all wants to be valuable, to feel that his wife likes him because he sees some good trait in him. There's no need to talk about that ... if his wife is still unhappy with him, it would make him swell. The man is always in the role of protector, and the woman of a good partner who always supports him. The man just wants to hear "yes, you're great", it's that simple.

   Author, you sound like a person in need of praise and approval for what you do, in the case of strangers on the forums, you are probably so live. Naturally, a person who agrees with everything is very comfortable for a partner and other relationships and hardly anyone would mind you constantly complying with him. It is good for a person to make compromises, but not to become a shadow of the person next to him and to constantly neglect himself. The truth, like most things, is somewhere in the middle - make compromises, but don't let yourself be used. Healthy relationships for me are based on mutual compromises, so the other person will have the opportunity to show that they value. I don't think spaghetti like "I like spaghetti and you eat pizza ... what are we going to do" is a problem for adults with adequate thinking.

   The author I want to get better, but I don't know how ... I don't want praise, I just wanted to know mostly about myself if I'm wrong with my actions. I am grateful for any support, even anonymous! As I read, I realized that after the divorce of ours, I was just afraid of being rejected.

   Author, the people who want you to have an opinion are themselves cowards. I'm 39 and I can't imagine how I would be with someone who would kick me. Without bragging, my life experience is rich, even for my age and I know quite well what is right and what is not in my life. I have succeeded to a great extent in many endeavors. I've traveled half the world (literally). Last time I was with an Asian woman (see the comment on no. 18) and I really had the most stable relationship with her so far. Not because she was submissive. And because he respected my opinion and me in general. She knew I could make decisions for both of them. We cooked together, cleaned, I never rude or hurt. She treated me as similarly as she could. 2. We lived together for 5 years and nothing ever burdened our relationship. The reasons for our separation are third parties and it is quite difficult to explain, but I would commit to such a girl again. Author, be yourself. There is a certain character for everyone. Some prefer to be dominated and others to be responsible for them. Others prefer to dominate. There are those in the middle. There are passengers for each train.

   No, we don't get tired of the woman taking care of us. It is now our responsibility not to abuse this and not to take it for granted over time. Those whose attention needs to be pulled and made inaccessible are looking for a game, not a serious life together. If you want to be with a girl for a long time, it is pure relief, if you avoid quarrels and arguments and manage to often agree, take good care of each other and appreciate each other. Whoever told you these is one of those who thinks sick these days, who everywhere in their life are looking for some thrill, as if it is something terrible for your life to be simple and happy with the right person next to you. They don't have enough. Fictional morality.

   It depends on the situation. I also caught myself when there were times when I often agreed, but it was about things that did not require any compromise on my part or I also wanted them. And yet I have wondered how this is actually accepted. If something costs me an extremely great compromise on my part, I will wonder if the person on the other side would really ignore himself for me. If they show me indifference and a complete lack of resourcefulness, I may stubbornly disagree with something I really want or it suits me.

   From the Author: Thank you very much to absolutely everyone! I am really happy for the people who shared their opinion and of course especially for the people who more or less gave me the courage to continue to be myself and not to change! Be alive and healthy everyone

   These babes who pretend to be interesting and want to constantly impose themselves are a complete nightmare and disgust! So you are a very good choice! But this does not mean that you should not have your own opinion - on the contrary! But it would be nice to share it when asked, not to force it.

   I guess the position of feminists is that women should always be of the opposite opinion of men. I can't think of anything good next. My wife literally "teeth" about everything why I want it or my opinion. To convince her of very important things for me, and for her we do not argue for hours. Her mother or sister tells her about the same thing: it's good to do it - she agrees in a second. I am left with the impression that there is no area in which I am competent. And yet the only thing he achieves are scandals. And it's been more than 20 years and she doesn't want to realize it won't happen to her. After I support a family of five, at least I have the right to an opinion. I really impose my opinion, but after scandals. I would share the above statements, for me the author is a dream. It's not bad to have an opinion and express it,