I'm in trouble on this topic, I'm a 20-year-old girl, a student, studying logistics and going to dances. My life is going well, I would say that I have a personal life, but this topic drives me crazy and I turn to you. At the dance they want us with white or beige tights, both I and other girls do not have to be white, but I chose this color quite by accident. Because I live near the gym where we train, I don't change, I just put on my jacket and leave. But, what if I noticed that I was being ridiculed on the street because I was wearing white tights, and more than once, this is systematic! Some of my friends have the same problem as leaving this way. I shared with a friend, older than me, now a woman of 35, she says that how could I go out in white tights, only the children wore, like I was already big enough to wear white tights! Hmm, I was just starting to like myself, but come to think of it, I've really seen a lot of women wear different colors of tights, beige, black, yellow, red, sif, black, but I've never seen a big girl go out with white tights, except in the gym where we train, but most of them are beige! Do you think there are any problems, is it normal to go out in white tights, is there something wrong, is there something I don't know, is it normal to go out like that? and you ladies, why is it really rare to see a woman wearing white tights? I beg you to approve the topic! sif, black, but I've never seen a big girl go out in white tights, except in the gym where we train, but most of them are in beige! Do you think there are any problems, is it normal to go out in white tights, is there something wrong, is there something I don't know, is it normal to go out like that? and you ladies, why is it really rare to see a woman wearing white tights? I beg you to approve the topic! sif, black, but I've never seen a big girl go out in white tights, except in the gym where we train, but most of them are in beige! Do you think there are any problems, is it normal to go out in white tights, is there something wrong, is there something I don't know, is it normal to go out like that? and you ladies, why is it really rare to see a woman wearing white tights? I beg you to approve the topic!
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The problem is not the white tights, but the fact that you are interested in other people's opinion. And people without their own opinion and firmness, life constantly swings them left and right ... If you like yourself with white tights, wear it! Everyone has a different opinion and worldview, what, are you going to try to please everyone? It's a pity, I'm sorry.
We used the white tights only for concerts, but never for rehearsals. I don't know what dances you practice, if you can share? I have been training folk dances for 12 years, for rehearsals - black, for concerts - white and black. All the girls / women wore black bodysuits and black skirts - rehearsal clothes. I was walking down the street in my rehearsal clothes, but no one thought it was strange or staring at me. I also walked in costume - strange, impressive and "funny" (for those who do not understand the essence of folk costume).
The more colorful the tights, the more fun. Really, what do you care about the opinion of others? In other countries it is very fashionable, and if you dress more simply it gives a cooler look. It doesn't confuse me, I wear all kinds and I really like them. If they were only for little girls, they wouldn't be for big people!
It is normal to wear whatever you want. Bai Ganyo will always comment and make fun of the different, without thinking that there may be a reason. Do not pay attention!
The biggest problem with me, in my opinion, is the lack of basic literacy ... at 20! Otherwise, I was curious, what are these dances that require white tights for training?
Girl, your problem is not the pantyhose, but that you are 20 years old and illiterate. This is not a hate, but a hot recommendation - get educated! By the way, I also wore white tights in my youth, in the late eighties and early nineties, however.
What do you care about various miserable people on the street who have no other business to make fun of your tights? If you are so impressed by every little thing, you will have to suffer a lot in the future (at your workplace, for example). Massive people are vicious by nature and kill their complexes by spitting on others. Learn not to reflect them. :)
I don't wear them because I've hated them since I was a child. This, of course, is my personal feeling. It doesn't impress me when other women wear pantyhose. I don't care if these tights are white, green, red or yellow. There is nothing wrong, you have not violated a secret law of society. People react because they are not used to it. It happened to me to hear those standing next to me on the bus, discussing the clothes of the other passengers. One had an orange bag, the other with a backpack, the third with a very bright blouse ... nonsense on wheels. You go dancing, it's normal to be in pantyhose. You chose it to be white, big deal, you like it. Don't worry so much about the opinion of others, they won't remember you in 10 minutes.
Like the grandmothers stuck in the disco era with the blue shadows next to the eyebrows. People don't know you're coming home from dancing and they're shouting "doesn't she know how old she is"
Why do you care what some random people think, who are nothing to you and you probably won't meet again? To meet their ideas of how you should dress, do you live?
Combine them with appropriate accessories and elements of your clothes - snow-white gloves with fluff, bag, hat or coat;) It's not a question of color, most likely you do not combine the individual clothes correctly. White is as innocent as it is insidious. And the leg must be weak enough to look good in white. See on the net some ideas for a general look with white tights.
I am the Author! Thanks for the comments and opinions, many of you are right. Because white tights are a lighter color, and it is rare for girls to wear white tights, but I like the very idea that I am among the few girls who wear it! White tights are really different from other tights because they are light in color. Maybe number 13 is right! Do I combine it properly with other clothes, I don't wear boots and coats, I have boots and sneakers, as well as tunics, dresses, and skirts. Most often I combine it with blue, black, or pink, cherry skirt and sneakers, sometimes boots. I don't have a coat, I have jackets, pink, black, red, sif, and cherry. Now I decided to try something different, as long as with dark colors, black leggings or dark tights. today I went out in white tights, a cherry skirt and sneakers, a dark cherry jacket, as I walked downtown to pay my bills, it struck me that some people were commenting on me, and the men were constantly looking at my legs, as if seeing legs for the first time. It's a man's job, at one point I was worried again, I was wondering what's so wrong! I'm not very thin, I'm almost 1.80 tall and I'm a little big, but I don't notice much. And I like myself like that, and it's like wearing white tights and everyone is looking at you, pointing and commenting, it's like a crime, but I didn't expect such a thing! Number 5, you say that they did for big people, I basically order white tights from two places, one is H&M for children who are, but they are a little small and tight for me, and the other place is from a ballet shop, but there are darlings. Where are the larger white tights? And what do you mean by color, so much more fun? I like that it finds color. Number 7, not just for training, but in general! And yet I found it interesting! Really, why do you think even nowadays girls are not seen wearing white tights, otherwise they wear all kinds of other colors!
from 8 Girl, bring what you want, but aren't you ashamed, student, to write as a third-grader? !!
Maybe you live in a less populated area? It's as if people there are commenting and paying more attention. However, you certainly attract attention because it is not currently in mass fashion. Whether you feel comfortable or not is up to you. Some women even deliberately provoke. The important thing is to feel good in your skin. G30
You ask why you can't see women in white tights? Well, because it's a manifestation of bad taste and it's very obvious, it's simple :) During training it's ok, but it's not like everyday clothes. It's strange for a woman to grow up wearing shoes like a girl.
To number 17! From the author! And what is the meaning? Have I been conspicuous because of the simple white color? And what exactly makes you taste bad? I think every woman will be happy to attract attention! The only thing is that they get dirty easily and quickly and can be seen. I like myself that way, but let's not go out because we have caught our eye or it was a manifestation of bad taste, nonsense! I don't understand at all, what is the problem and why is it strange for a grown woman to be dressed like a girl, do you think only little girls can?
From number 17 - after you have raised the topic and share that you do not feel comfortable with the type of attention you cause, you obviously realize that something in your way of dressing is not OK. Personally, I don't care what kind of tights you go out with, but you ask what's wrong with them and why people look at you strangely. When it comes to tights - white as opposed to black or neutral colors (brown, dark red, cherry, dark blue) is very difficult to combine and in most cases just sits strangely and emphasizes in an atypical way the colors of other clothes. And yes, he often forgives openly. Separately outlines the legs and muscles in a not at all flattering way - if you are really 180 tall and have more muscular legs (in folk dance dances, usually the thigh muscles and calves are quite highly developed), in combination with white tights, the view really becomes a bit unusual, which explains why people look at them strangely. I can't comment on the color combinations and the way you combine the clothes, just because I can't see what it looks like live. It's not bad to dress like a girl - if everything is properly styled, for example, an anime outfit like a Japanese schoolgirl looks super sexy and attractive and allows white socks, but something when I listen to your descriptions it seems to me that your clothes go something completely different. direction, but again - I have not seen your combinations of clothes, I can not comment.
If you like it and want to do it, then try to explore a few possible styles and combinations and do it right :) Or don't - it's your job :) which also explains why people look at you strangely. I can't comment on the color combinations and the way you combine the clothes, just because I can't see what it looks like live. It's not bad to dress like a girl - if everything is properly styled, for example, an anime outfit like a Japanese schoolgirl looks super sexy and attractive and allows white socks, but something when I listen to your descriptions it seems to me that your clothes go something completely different direction, but again - I have not seen your combinations of clothes, I can not comment. If you like it and want to do it, then try to explore a few possible styles and combinations and do it right :) Or don't - it's your job :) which also explains why people look at you strangely. I can't comment on the color combinations and the way you combine the clothes, just because I can't see what it looks like live. It's not bad to dress like a girl - if everything is properly styled, for example, an anime dress like a Japanese schoolgirl looks super sexy and attractive and allows white socks, but something when I listen to your descriptions it seems to me that your clothes go something completely different. direction, but again - I have not seen your combinations of clothes, I can not comment. If you like it and want to do it, then try to explore a few possible styles and combinations and do it right :) Or don't - it's your job :) simply because I can't see what it looks like live. It's not bad to dress like a girl - if everything is properly styled, for example, an anime outfit like a Japanese schoolgirl looks super sexy and attractive and allows white socks, but something when I listen to your descriptions it seems to me that your clothes go something completely different direction, but again - I have not seen your combinations of clothes, I can not comment.
If you like it and want to do it, then try to explore a few possible styles and combinations and do it right :) Or don't - it's your job :) simply because I can't see what it looks like live. It's not bad to dress like a girl - if everything is properly styled, for example, an anime outfit like a Japanese schoolgirl looks super sexy and attractive and allows white socks, but something when I listen to your descriptions it seems to me that your clothes go something completely different direction, but again - I have not seen your combinations of clothes, I can not comment. If you like it and want to do it, then try to explore a few possible styles and combinations and do it right :) Or don't - it's your job :) that your clothes are going in a completely different direction, but again - I have not seen your combinations of clothes, I can not comment. If you like it and want to do it, then try to explore a few possible styles and combinations and do it right :) Or don't - it's your job :) that your clothes are going in a completely different direction, but again - I have not seen your combinations of clothes, I can not comment. If you like it and want to do it, then try to explore a few possible styles and combinations and do it right :) Or don't - it's your job :)