What man who is expecting a child would register on dating sites -This is the question whose answer interests me. In short, I am 4 months pregnant and I found out that my husband makes registrations on dating sites. He uploads photos and writes that his heart is free ??? Please give advice, is this normal and what is the reason for it? Why does he do it in the happiest moment of our lives and so far he has not done it. I'm only 20 and I don't think I'm ugly and that's the reason ???
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"I'm only 20 and I don't think I'm ugly and that's the reason ??? "The reasons are generally 1. And he is young and he fucks 2. He fucks and he is young 3. He fucks and he lives And quite seriously - the man was not ready for children, family and home, his heart is really free and he is looking for a mistress. I think you forced your fat belly and family lifestyle on him. (unless he is 35 years old) Everything with its time ... Who quickly wants everything in life should not be surprised when he gets it - at 20 with a child, at 22 divorced, at 25 pregnant by a second man, on the 30th second divorce - that's how you drove it and by the 30th you will have gained a lot of life experience! Well done!
The key phrase is: "Why does he do it in the happiest moment of our lives." No, not our life, but my life. It is extremely unlikely that this will be the happiest moment of MU's life. Grandpa Torbalan
I wanted to write an answer to this confession, but number 1 has exhausted everything.
This is being simplified by men in our latitudes. What does it mean to force your fat belly on him? Isn't he involved in this work? Fuck him, he told himself and got away from her. Not to have a child with her and then to remember that he was young and he fucked and lived. I am answering your question, author - which man would register on such sites? This is not about a man, but about the most ordinary irresponsible way of bragging. And you expect a father to be responsible. He has already proven himself. A responsible and stable man who knows that he is expecting a child, has other priorities, not flirting and having sex with various strangers on the net. And it's like scabies - once they start with these sites, there is no stopping. So think carefully about whether you can tolerate it. If not - solve the issue of pregnancy in time and get rid of it. You're too young to waste your life,
Number 1 - are you defending him ??? I was left with such an impression. We women like it too, but at least we think a little with this head before we do any nonsense. Author, talk to him seriously, because he will soon become a father, and when I look, even before you gave birth to his child, he is ready to cheat on you.
Number 5 - and for others - I'm a woman, girls! And I'm not a Virgin Mary, but I didn't swell my belly at the age of 20 and then wonder on the forums why the pickle (sorry - the father of the child) was looking for another on the forums. Well, that's what men of this age are, normally. People are young, they want to live, they have sex, they have sex, they are attracted to gigi-bijito. "Are you defending him ??? I was left with such an impression. We women like it too, but at least we think a little with this head before we do any nonsense. "It was those who thought we were protecting ourselves from pregnancy, instead of doing this nonsense at the age of 20 and imagining that the man will stand and beat us on the belly while he is interested in the three things I have listed - human, girls , human - especially as a person is YOUNG and green.
abe see they are in 4 months you can also have an abortion, I know from personal experience, but this person will not be with you, or remove him or think about your future alone without him thinking how you will cope, etc.
Number 7 - 4-month abortion is called criminal and is a type of murder under our law - not to mention it can lead to infertility. Yes, the author is a complete fool, but she has crushed them and will itch. It is not the child's fault - he already has nervous activity and will feel pain! ARE YOU CRAZY - ABORTION AT 4 MONTHS IS MURDER, and whoever does it is a killer! It is no coincidence that he has 12 weeks - until then there is no nervous activity and brain activity, then he becomes a person by law and who can dismember his child, WHO WAS FOR HIM is a complete KU-KU for me and for prison!
What has the author crushed? Do some people happen to know that air does not make them pregnant? Or they may have talked and agreed to have a child, and then the "man" backed down when the fact was over, as often happens. Even if they did not speak, the responsible man will take responsibility for protection on an equal footing with her. This mentality is a terrible thing - to spit on the woman together, and the other person in charge is not so responsible and can live his life.
How can a normal woman ask herself if it is normal for a father to register on dating sites while he is expecting a child? No, my girl is not normal. It is normal for the father to fulfill his marital duties and you, if you are so young and beautiful, despite your pregnancy to be able to keep his interest in you. I don't see you both at all as parents raising the child you created together. May you be alive and well, but I don't think you're both ready to be parents.
Number 9 - it is not conceived from the air, but the child is carried by the woman and grows in her body and ultimately it is her decision 100% whether to allow pregnancy and wear it anyway. We can't wait for the man to put the contraceptive in our mouths or have an abortion after all. Whoever has decided that he is mature enough to have children at the age of 20, he should bear the consequences for the choice. There is no middle ground and no one is to blame for such. And yes - the big thing is the mentality - by opening the legs and inflating the belly and putting on the wedding ring, some women imagine that they have bought an obedient husband for home, but they have done their homework without a bartender. Both are not ready for parents and have crushed their infusion. The guilt is common!
It's not until age, unfortunately - when I got pregnant and my handsome man seemed to go crazy - and we are over 30! It's just that a man either has a head on his shoulders or is an idiot ...
11, I'm number 9. I do not deny that a woman should be protected, but a man also decides whether a woman should become pregnant by him or not. By that logic, once he decided at that age that he could allow her to get pregnant, take the consequences and take responsibility. But because it's easier and more selfish, many men don't. People have said - if you don't tie your pants yourself, there's no one. It's not clear to me about being tied up with a child, but a lot of men do it too. Deliberately and even though they know that the woman does not want to. I also know men whose partner got pregnant despite the precautions - a torn condom and so on. But they have taken responsibility. It's up to the person. The one in history will never be mature enough and ready to dedicate himself to others but his own convenience.
to 13 "but a man also decides whether a woman should get pregnant from him or not" And how does he decide, Chicken? The 20-year-old man wants to melt his pepper somewhere (as is evident from his behavior), not to change diapers. I witnessed 100 such marriages at the time in my town - the girl inflated the bedside table and come on - caught the fish. It does not happen - at the age of 25-30 all such single mothers. "People have said - if you don't tie your pants yourself, there's no one" SUPER SAID "It's not clear to me about tying up with a child, but a lot of men do it too. "Nonsense - the woman has 3 months for an abortion and I don't know if you understand, but for at least 60 years the woman has had access to a pill called PROTOVO-ZA-CHA-TACHNO. Supposedly, a woman can 99, 9999999999999% prevent her own body from becoming pregnant, and if she does have an abortion, while the man can only put on a condom, if there is a reason for that, but as you say - the pants himself must tie the man. The man cares - he collects his partakeshi and there is no smoke. And as long as the excuse for the torn condom makes me laugh. Very torn condoms and always in certain people. Why didn't I break the condom to inflate my belly at 20. Please - there are 1001 ways to protect a woman, if it's profitable - see if the benefit can be elsewhere. No man under the age of 30 is mature enough for me to have children. For a woman under 25, this also applies. Inflate the bellies at 20 and then Oh ass! There is no oh-no boh - you will watch it, mothers! (as Grandma says) - you will watch and be patient and you will not have pretensions as you gave .... g. 29 that makes me laugh. Very torn condoms and always in certain people. Why didn't I break the condom to inflate my belly at 20. Please - there are 1001 ways to protect a woman, if it's profitable - see if the benefit can be elsewhere. No man under the age of 30 is mature enough for me to have children. For a woman under 25, this also applies. Inflate the bellies at 20 and then Oh ass! There is no oh-no boh - you will watch it, mothers! (as Grandma says) - you will watch and be patient and you will not have pretensions as you gave .... g. 29 that makes me laugh. Very torn condoms and always in certain people. Why didn't I break the condom to inflate my belly at 20. Please - there are 1001 ways to protect a woman, if it's profitable - see if the benefit can be elsewhere. No man under the age of 30 is mature enough for me to have children. For a woman under 25, this also applies. Inflate the bellies at 20 and then Oh ass! There is no oh-no boh - you will watch it, mothers! (as Grandma says) - you will watch and you will be patient and you will not have pretensions as you gave .... 29 and then Oh asshole! There is no oh-no boh - you will watch it, mothers! (as Grandma says) - you will watch and be patient and you will not have pretensions as you gave .... g. 29 and then Oh asshole! There is no oh-no boh - you will watch it, mothers! (as Grandma says) - you will watch and be patient and you will not have pretensions as you gave .... g. 29
F 29, because of such considerations as yours, women are forever disadvantaged. When I gave to myself, I gave to a man who was looking to protect me, and did not rely only on me to take contraceptives. Because there are such men. Having three months to have an abortion doesn't mean that an irresponsible fucker has to risk his health, does it? A broken condom with a friend led to a beautiful girl and a great family. But it requires responsibility on the part of the man and the ability not to be selfish. If they want to fuck, they will also use protective equipment. Because, chick, if you don't know - pills, which have been so convenient for men for so many years, also harm women. Many cases of cancer have been found in their use because they are artificial hormonal preparations. So either the man takes precautions, either to take responsibility or to look for a man to fuck. Let it be easy for them, why not!
Number 15 - nature has put us at a disadvantage, darling, not me. "When I gave it to myself, I gave it to a man who was looking to protect me, and didn't just rely on me to take contraceptives. “And why should your husband protect YOUR body when you will not protect yourself? How so? "A torn condom with a friend led to a beautiful girl and a great family. "Even at 100, it led to dramas, children in homes and single mothers. Accept your nature at last. What cancers do they chase in contraceptives? They even reduce the risk of ovarian and uterine cancer - there is only a problem with thrombosis in 1 in 1 million. women and smokers. There are no problems with contraceptives - on the contrary. The modern woman simply has too many ovulations / she was previously pregnant for an average of 9 years. from his life / otherwise a high risk of ovarian cancer - that's why they even prescribe contraceptives. Doctors recommend at least 5 years of continuous contraception, especially at an earlier age of the woman. The "torn condom" is a banal bg. myth - the truth is that such people do not use a condom at all, but interrupted intercourse and shit. Who can take responsibility - no problem. But 90% of the 20-year-old chicks with a bloated belly roar like the author on the forums and 90% of the men do not want to take responsibility - they choose their hammers and bye. "So either the man takes precautions, or takes responsibility, or looks for a man to fuck. Let it be easy for them, why not! "Haha, you want a lot, but the man will not bear the consequences. He collects his hammers in 9 mountains - in the tenth. Since the creation of the World and the existence of humanity, we have been responsible as women for the fruits of our love. That is why it is chosen. The simplest bird chooses for weeks, walks - looks at the bird's nest, spins, inspects - then gives his eggs, because he knows he can give them to 1 pussy - there is one choice. This is - it is called NATURE and whoever thinks that he will outwit her, ends up in the show of Natalia or in the morning blog to ask for bread and medicine for his children. People, wake up - you have one pussy, you have two children to give birth to in your life and two eggs, don't be simpler than the bird, but CHOOSE and do it carefully, give yourself time, BEWARE of the first years, see what this one is pussy, live with him and only then give him the egg, because it is valuable to you, and in our country the maintenance is 80-150 BGN for a child, and his food is 500 BGN. alone. The cap? The man cares. Abe people, didn't your parents raise you as girls? I can't understand your philosophy. Inflate your bellies, give birth to children and then - oh, we have no bread! Ole-ole, but that's it, mothers. What can a bird like the author do now - she will endure! She will give birth, take social maternity leave (she can't have worked for 18 months), wait for the bird to bring the bread and close her eyes, where her pepper is blowing, because she is addicted and has a child to look after - such it is our nature, our mother's instinct. So be careful, girls and keep your eggs! Give them to the best pussy, you have a choice - use them! P.P. Today a swallow entered my apartment, sat on the warm radiator, stuck his head out of the window and called birds, sang and broke ... trying to kind of entice and give him some babe yes? fertilize the eggs. But the dude didn't light it, I kicked him out and we play cat and mouse all day - he opens a window, he wants to come in and build a nice and warm home. That's right - he wants the best place to have something to offer, because the pretentious swallows have two eggs to fertilize. But there are some women who don't count and they seem to be inferior to the lord's chickens in this respect, they don't appreciate their eggs, even though they have 2 for life, and the swallow will lay again next year ... and again chooses , there is no way - she has children to feed.
Ah, I didn't read everything, but up and down I see that the girl is almost accused of being guilty. If he doesn't want a child, why doesn't HE use protective equipment? Should she take pills? Why? I would not take pills, there are condoms. And don't tell me that pills are not harmful !!! And the path decided that he wanted to be ready and he hoped that chance would keep him from getting pregnant with his girlfriend. Another thing: well, she didn't tell us the whole story. Maybe they both wanted the baby. And even if it happened without planning it, what's so great that she got pregnant at 20 ??? She's an adult, isn't she? Well, keep your fingers crossed that your daughters won't get pregnant at 15, because you know ... no one is insured. What did you take to attack? !! Otherwise - it is not normal to enter dating sites at all. I don't think you'll be happy with him. He will still be gone, and you will cry and suffer at home, and you will wait for him until midnight, and when he comes home he will treat you with contempt and will not give you explanations or lie to you. You will know that he is lying to you, but you will try to believe these lies. It is also very possible to leave you. I know it's hard, but if you can count on your parents, leave it. Anyway, even if you stay together, he won't take care of you, he'll blame you all his life for almost enslaving him, and he won't help you with the housework or the money. You will look after the child alone, with the help of your parents (I hope they can help you)! And, since you are 20 years old, you have years and years ahead of you ... you will find another man who will love you and respect that even the child who is not from him will love. You are very young, don't be enslaved by the father of your child !!
Abe, number 17 - no parent is obliged to look after the children of their adult children - you say yourself - the author was an adult, she had the right to give her egg for fertilization. Well, she has made a decision, she will bear the consequences! This is called adulthood - rights and obligations, not just RIGHTS. It's easiest to make our own cake and then - let mom and dad watch. What about you? put the pill in her mouth? What are they? guilty? Who has an ass to make children, to look after them. Don't worry about my daughter, because in my family we don't give our pussies for breeding under the age of 25. My great-grandmother gave birth to her first child at the age of 27 and she also did the math. It is a shame that we are in the 21st century and some women are more elementary than their grandmothers. The responsibility for the belly lies with the woman - hers is the egg and she will carry it and give birth. Waiting for different men to take care of her is an absolute mistake - one cannot spit on nature and the law, which gives you BGN 80 alimony. THAT'S WHY YOU HAVE BEEN GIVEN NOT ONLY AN EGG, BUT YOUR HEAD TO THINK. Point! .. and yet - if my daughter got pregnant at 15 - will? I watch the child until he turns 18. Then will? helped me find a job and a home and I was here. Let everyone take responsibility for life. So it was with me, so it will be for her. Let's see, when this responsibility is clear to you from an early age, whether you will inflate your bellies or squeeze your legs and be careful who you give your egg to, because it's easy for mom and dad, but you know - mom and dad will not live forever . Therefore - if you were my daughter, the author, I would tell her - whatever you have crushed, mom, you will itch. Where will you go, what will you do - get well. You chose a man,
Because of such considerations as those of the girl's attackers, white countries have tried to create a legal framework to force unwilling men to take responsibility. And I don't want, I don't want. 16, I do not think I am at a disadvantage. I demanded that the men I was with participate on an equal footing with me in the process of protection, no matter that my body was mine. And this is one of the first signs by which one can understand whether a man is capable of taking responsibility or is an absolute egoist who will remain so. Maybe that's why I didn't confuse my choice of man. And look on the net for information about cancer related to contraception - you will get drunk. I'm sorry, but I would never risk my health because my partner is expecting sex, let me take full responsibility for protection. If he does not want - there is no place for me. In the end, two people have sex. By wanting unprotected sex, and without taking responsibility, to have a vasectomy. It cannot be the one to the end, nor the soul in paradise.
From the author - he is 28 and he really wanted a child. He registered on the site but has not written to anyone so far!
Number 19 - you think well, but it's not about our conditions. Who lives in a "black" country with 80-150 levs, to do the bills in another way or to become a family minister and make new laws. Until then, keep your pussy and be careful! I've read, darling, enough - I've never taken birth control pills to supplement, but I plan to take them 5 years after my last birth to reduce my risk of ovarian and uterine cancer by 90%. It only increases the risk of breast cancer, but we do not have it in the family, and it is easier to diagnose and detect, while others are a death sentence. Cervical cancer is caused by a virus that (thankfully) both my husband and I don't carry openly (I've been tested). But this is the situation - whoever got pregnant at the age of 20 by a 28-year-old pickle will reap the rewards. Honey, Author - you will never be able to catch him, follow 1-2 sites, but you do not know where and what he does and where there are more registrations. If a man leaves, then he is missing something and will not give up until they find him. That's why you wait, you live 3-4-5 years, if you want with the man and then you think about family, because the risk is for the woman - in our country she receives the child and maintenance of BGN 80, if the man does not write unemployed or student. I have a girlfriend who cheated on her husband as punishment? just ? he slapped the two children, a student enrolled somewhere and he didn't have to pay BGN 80 - and to fix that one! You can practically starve to death - that's why you look, darling, what kind of man you're going to catch, choose carefully and take care of YOURSELF, BECAUSE YOU WILL WATCH IT! where and what he does and where there are more registrations. If a man leaves, then he is missing something and will not give up until they find him. That's why you wait, you live 3-4-5 years, if you want with the man and then you think about family, because the risk is for the woman - in our country she receives the child and maintenance of BGN 80, if the man does not write unemployed or student. I have a girlfriend who cheated on her husband as punishment? just ? he slapped the two children, a student enrolled somewhere and he didn't have to pay BGN 80 - and to fix that one! You can practically starve to death - that's why you look, darling, what kind of man you're going to catch, choose carefully and take care of YOURSELF, BECAUSE YOU WILL WATCH IT! where and what he does and where there are more registrations. If a man leaves, then he is missing something and will not give up until they find him. That's why you wait, you live 3-4-5 years, if you want with the man and then you think about family, because the risk is for the woman - in our country she receives the child and maintenance of BGN 80, if the man does not write unemployed or student. I have a girlfriend who cheated on her husband as punishment? just ? he slapped the two children, a student enrolled somewhere and he didn't have to pay BGN 80 - and to fix that one! You can practically starve to death - that's why you look, darling, what kind of man you're going to catch, choose carefully and take care of YOURSELF, BECAUSE YOU WILL WATCH IT! because the risk is for the woman - in our country she receives the child and maintenance of BGN 80, if the man does not write unemployed or student. I have a girlfriend who cheated on her husband as punishment? just ? he slapped the two children, a student enrolled somewhere and he didn't have to pay BGN 80 - and to fix that one! You can practically die of hunger - that's why you look, darling, what kind of man you will catch, choose carefully and take care of YOURSELF, BECAUSE YOU WILL WATCH IT! because the risk is for the woman - in our country she receives the child and maintenance of BGN 80, if the man does not write unemployed or student. I have a girlfriend who cheated on her husband as punishment? just ? he slapped the two children, a student enrolled somewhere and he didn't have to pay BGN 80 - and to fix that one! You can practically starve to death - that's why you look, darling, what kind of man you're going to catch, choose carefully and take care of YOURSELF, BECAUSE YOU WILL WATCH IT!
№21 Come on, as long as the author is scared, now that she has told them, she will roll it on her finger, she will cry, then she will quarrel with her husband, because of your gloomy assumptions. To write such black things to a pregnant woman should be punishable. You will probably say now that he already has three lovers, two of whom gave birth to twins. Author calmly, no one can predict your life. Your life will be as you arrange it yourself. Now sit down and think, since he did nothing but register, maybe he just had free time and looked at the menu. Being on a diet doesn't stop you from looking at the menu, does it? Or he may have checked someone, he may have searched to see if you had registered without asking and questioning. Go to him smiling, kiss him, go for a walk in the park, fill his free time with love,
Did you not understand that the person in question was 28 and wanted a child? !! Accordingly, there was a conversation and she agreed. If things have gone so far as to discuss being a couple with a future, with children and everything else, I fully understand her. It is not a question of getting pregnant due to stupidity or ignorance on her part, but as a result of the decision of the two. With his full conscious participation. Then? 21, when I agreed to get pregnant by my husband, I was 22, he was 25. Despite the conditions, we managed, moreover, there was no one to help us with anything. But he did not act like that of the author, but behaved like a man at all times.
I thought to answer, but number 4 has exhausted my answer;)
oh to the pain I know see give birth to your child but these things will not stop you know and I go through this unfortunately if they are not dating sites then porn is watched so maybe unfortunately at 50 will not be ready to dedicate to your wives and children this is the reality you know but otherwise our children are wonderful creatures we just happen to men it doesn't
Go to the right and tell him that you know, you do not agree to burn your mind, because otherwise it falls in your eyes indefinitely. She threatened him with separation and that she would not be able to see her child. Most men are cowards, and if you stop him in time, there may be no relapse. But you have to be so determined that you really think about it, you really have to leave it if it doesn't take a note - in fact, what is it for you (if it doesn't improve)?
My wife is 27 and is currently in her 5th month. I love her and we even have sex without even the slightest disgust that she has a swollen belly or something related to her appearance now. You just came across a fool who thinks all women are his and you are one of them. You're just out of luck, and you better take steps so it doesn't get worse. Being 20 does not matter in this situation, on the contrary it should be the opposite. A young and beautiful mother, any self-respecting man would be proud if she was pregnant by him. I am a man of 32 and for me the greatest experience is to have a beautiful wife, especially since she is pregnant and carries my inheritance in her womb. I wouldn't hit her in this most irresponsible and nasty way. To me, this is a drummer who doesn't really want you. It's like fucking and getting pregnant by someone else and marrying him,
Some of the comments mention contraceptives, I leave the possible side effects aside, they are well described both on the Internet and by gynecologists, a little mentioned fact, at least I have not seen it written somewhere, is that they can drastically reduce the desire to the woman for sex! I don't know why some people started commenting so lively on how a woman should protect herself, given that the author of the topic is already pregnant and will give birth to this child, you are not helping her in any way. Comment on this elsewhere. There is one more thing - people easily judge others, and the truth is that a person, no matter how hard he tries to make plans in life, sometimes gets surprises, and in this case the child was even planned. I also agree that it is better to be born at a later age, but the author and her husband have already made their choice. So the author reminds her husband that he has already made his choice and since he is no longer a child, he must take responsibility for his actions, if he thinks he is in a hurry, then there is no going back, and because is 28, to think about how he will support this child instead of dealing with bitches on the net. On the other hand, you also have to take responsibility, and not take it for granted, respect it and show it to him, do not think that once you are married and hence he owes you everything, take care of him and I think that since he is already 28, he must have made a living, and breaking up is no excuse for him! As a last resort, you can do a threesome with a woman after a while if she thinks she wants variety. The important thing is to show him that he is not in prison, as he probably felt, because men have such periods, in which they panic that they are bound. If you give him freedom (don't take it literally), he is more likely to sit with you and only you.
It is not true at all about the second pregnancy and separation! I am the first daughter, we separated when I was 1 year old, I stayed with my mother and she managed to raise me until now. My mother found an ideal man 7 years ago and so far their relationship is perfect, he has wonderful parents and loves to play, work, cook and loves us very much, but my mother loved to work, but now we have a 1 year old child . After my mother got pregnant, they had a perfect relationship again! Now they are even happier to have a child. And what? They did not part! I am one hundred percent sure that they will be together for the rest of their lives, one day it will not happen.
Honey, don't worry, wait for the scumbag to do whatever he wants and do you know if someone will tie him up on Facebook or on the websites. Rub his nose as hard as you can. If he treats you this way and you do it to make him sick, and you'll see if he or you. A woman your age, even in the 4th month, can achieve greater success than any handsome man. If you decide, you can always put his horns on him. They knew how many men would want you even now, not to mention after you gave birth. A young and sexy mother with a child ... How many aspirations she will have for you if you know. As long as you have a firm character and do not allow yourself to be humiliated in this way, wait and rub his nose with whatever you want so that he feels sick and understands the pain of infidelity. It's not so embarrassing for you to break it now. But for him it will be a double blow. Just imagine how his friends will look at him, knowing that his beautiful and young wife broke up and put horns on him with one of them aa ... ??? Therefore, do not lower your head and do not let yourself fall below this level of despair and humiliation. And for the above comments with condoms and contraceptives are unnecessary at the moment. You made a mistake that you both need to itch and not just you.
Well, what can I say, except that this is an idiot, I can't think of anything else. It's a pity, but it always happens in a couple. When a man is conscious, a woman is garbage and vice versa. Children who grow up like this without real families, with foreign men in most cases suffer from all the ugliness. Fathers are often irresponsible, but nothing impresses me anymore, I somehow suffered.
I don't understand why the girl is a fool. Yes, she is very young. But not everyone at this age has priority chalgoteks, discos and other cultural institutions. Some want to have a family. You can't call a fool a person for that. Since when to beat one to go to bed with one and want to have a child from one is nonsense. Maybe her belly swelled up by accident. Maybe Dad made promises he couldn't keep. He spoke sweetly and the girl decided it was the man. Another issue is that many men cannot take the burden. And they run away from stress as best they can. I will tell the author you can't stop it but you don't have to put up with it. If it is possible for you to leave it now, then it will be more difficult when the child is born. And you will have endured unnecessary insults and humiliations. It will become more and more difficult for you to gain weight and become ugly with pregnancy.