And so ... For me. Woman of 43, long and harmonious marriage. Love, friendship and many good memories. But :) He met another woman. We broke up. I experienced it, I experienced it, at the moment we are good parents and our priority is the child in the crazy teenage age. But .. It's about me :) A rural city, most of us know each other and I don't meet a man :) My life is full - work, child, hobby, friends, but all this does not fill that gap! I miss the man - the one with whom I can share, feel and experience. I tried an internet connection, but ... Despite the wonderful real experiences, the trust was lame and separated us ... So share your experience .. How and where? How did you trust him if you met him on the net? How do you cope if it separates you ..
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The small town and the people should be ignored. There are thousands of men, the point is that you are in such a state that you cannot see yourself. In addition, this lack is not only emotional but also physical. A woman needs a man. People talk, but you know what it's like to go home and be alone. Looking for a partner. Talk to a psychologist. Not out of town, there are so many online options. Damage your thoughts and move forward. The child grows even when you are subconsciously obsessed with it, because there is a need to do something.
So if he is not from the city, where will they be seen? There are thousands of men, but very few suitable, even less free and often none around. This is the reality. Don't watch Diema families!
One sees what one wants. After all, does everyone have a connection from one settlement, if it is 20 km. is a problem. There is a friend who says that all decent men are already busy, she is alone. But is that so. There are millions of men and one worthy of the princess is not found. No small violent place, no talking to people, no bad experiences are an obstacle to happiness with a new partner and to continue your life. I'm not a dream fan of Kubilkina and I don't watch TV, but I came across videos of a show that leads. There was a similar case, and the reason is not in others, but in the power to take your life and move on.
Hi author, Nice topic, but unfortunately for a few people it is interesting. About me. A man of 57, a long and harmonious marriage. Love, friendship and very good memories (at least on my part). But :). We broke up. I didn't experience it, I didn't experience it, we divorced only because it promised me good, friendly relations. She hasn't called since, I don't dare ask the children if she helps them, I do it to the best of my ability. They are big, but they can't stand firm yet…. It's about me :) Country town, most of us know each other and I met a woman. But trust quickly evaporated. That's why I'm writing to you. For the trust you have touched. The word is more fasting than the word, which should describe the many requirements that a person has for his new relationship in the years after 40, especially after a long and good marriage. She is a postwoman, but she seems to be the closest. Life seems to be full, but all this does not fill that gap! There is no woman with whom I can share, feel and experience. Yes, I trust her. Trust that he seeks to understand me. My faith in me that I strive to do the best for our relationship is gone. On the contrary - every day I am convinced that "the best for the relationship" is different for the two of us. I sincerely hope you are happy, but I doubt it. After 40 years, the claims of both men and women become so great and the willingness to suppress the "I" so little. The readiness to "get into the shoes" of the other is almost gone. I was hoping to read good comments here on the topic, to hear ideas, but unfortunately not. I wish you a good summer, author. PS I allowed myself to use your scheme of exhibition. Joke. Smile, don't be angry. the one with whom I can share, feel and experience. Yes, I trust her. Trust that he seeks to understand me.
My faith in me that I strive to do the best for our relationship is gone. On the contrary - every day I am convinced that "the best for the relationship" is different for the two of us. I sincerely hope you are happy, but I doubt it. After 40 years, the claims of both men and women become so great and the willingness to suppress the "I" so little. The readiness to "get into the shoes" of the other is almost gone. I was hoping to read good comments here on the topic, to hear ideas, but unfortunately not. I wish you a good summer, author. PS I allowed myself to use your scheme of exhibition. Joke. Smile, don't be angry. the one with whom I can share, feel and experience. Yes, I trust her. Trust that he seeks to understand me. My faith in me that I strive to do the best for our relationship is gone. On the contrary - every day I am convinced that "the best for the relationship" is different for the two of us. I sincerely hope you are happy, but I doubt it. After 40 years, the claims of both men and women become so great and the willingness to suppress the "I" so little. The readiness to "get into the shoes" of the other is almost gone.
I was hoping to read good comments here on the topic, to hear ideas, but unfortunately not. I wish you a good summer, author. PS I allowed myself to use your scheme of exhibition. Joke. Smile, don't be angry. that I try to do the best for our relationship is gone. On the contrary - every day I am convinced that "the best for the relationship" is different for the two of us. I sincerely hope you are happy, but I doubt it. After 40 years, the claims of both men and women become so great and the willingness to suppress the "I" so little. The readiness to "get into the shoes" of the other is almost gone. I was hoping to read good comments here on the topic, to hear ideas, but unfortunately not. I wish you a good summer, author. PS I allowed myself to use your scheme of exhibition. Joke. Smile, don't be angry. that I try to do the best for our relationship is gone. On the contrary - every day I am convinced that "the best for the relationship" is different for the two of us. I sincerely hope you are happy, but I doubt it. After 40 years, the claims of both men and women become so great and the willingness to suppress the "I" so little. The readiness to "get into the shoes" of the other is almost gone. I was hoping to read good comments here on the topic, to hear ideas, but unfortunately not. I wish you a good summer, author. PS I allowed myself to use your scheme of exhibition. Joke. Smile, don't be angry. the pretensions of both men and women become so great and the willingness to suppress the "I" so little. The readiness to "get into the shoes" of the other is almost gone. I was hoping to read good comments here on the topic, to hear ideas, but unfortunately not. I wish you a good summer, author. PS I allowed myself to use your scheme of exhibition. Joke. Smile, don't be angry. the pretensions of both men and women become so great and the willingness to suppress the "I" so little. The readiness to "get into the shoes" of the other is almost gone. I was hoping to read good comments here on the topic, to hear ideas, but unfortunately not. I wish you a good summer, author. PS I allowed myself to use your scheme of exhibition. Joke. Smile, don't be angry.
The author :) Number 3 ... In reality, I haven't had a flirtation with a man in a year .. let alone claims I don't lead a closed way of life, but my circle is also a circle .. I have nowhere else to expand it. Number 4 Unfortunately, there is no interest in my topic .. Maybe for good. Apparently most readers are family and can not take a stand on the topic :) I liked your presentation :) Otherwise, I think that when you meet a person close to your world and understandings there is a desire .. A desire to share, a desire to build .. despite fears .. I hope we are lucky and meet
Hello, There are several similar topics on the site, but unfortunately the interest in them is not very great. I am in a similar situation at the age of 38 and last year I published a similar topic "Relationship after divorce", if you are interested you can read it. There is good advice at the beginning, but also a lot of negative opinions. In these years, finding a suitable man is not impossible, but it is also a matter of chance. The settlement is not a problem. I do not recommend the Internet as an option. A few months ago I created an account on 2 dating sites and I can say that I was almost disgusted by men. Use your hobby, sign up for a travel company (if that interests you, of course), a trip, a course on something that interests you. I wish you success and a lot of patience!