I am a 14 year old boy and I have a question for girls my age. First I will say that some time ago I met a girl in the photo on the first day of school. She spoke to me. We started to write, talk, go out very often ... At one point it all ended. He started telling me how annoying I am sometimes with my concern (which is true). He has already started making excuses not to write to me, not to talk to me, not to go out ... My question to the girls is: WHY DO YOU SPEAK BOY, YOU TALK AND YOU GO OUT WITH HIM FOR HALF A YEAR AND YOU HAVE FUN, AFTER THAT YOU DESTROY HIM LIKE A DOG ??? WHY? DOES THIS GIVE YOU PLEASURE? I want at least one girl to answer this question properly. No hate ...
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We stop corresponding with boys when you annoy us too much, they press us and suffocate us. Sam said you were annoying ... Draw your own conclusions.
I'm not a girl friend, but a lot of "stench" poured on my head from the "tender half". There was a very accurate story, but not to be vulgar and the site forbids it, I will not tell you literally. The most beautiful and good woman is the unborn! Nature, the attitude towards them and "modern life" now makes them treat men as a base. Not all of them are like that, but 80% pass. These 20% adapt quickly and live with their partner. He is ill - she takes care of him. He is hungry - he is eating something. Until a man realizes that he has such a woman by his side, he immediately stops whining and looks at his wife. And the remaining 80% are on the free market. What pictures she had. How many pieces did she have? And this is the measure of being more relevant. They don't care that they hurt anyone. After many years of "flying" from color to color, I hated them. True, we have a physiological need for them, but I forgot what it's like to have feelings. It's not worth two fingers of meat to become a substrate. The one who deserves you will show it to you. Don't get attached and don't walk on their bagpipes. Do as they do.
Because we get bored.
It depends on what you wrote, we can't guess. I wouldn't pay attention to a boy who constantly annoys me and makes an elephant out of a fly.
If I follow your understandings, I should be the gay queen of the neighborhood, because I "go out", "talk" and "have fun" with 10-20 men, and the truth is that we are talking about good friends from high school, university and colleagues with whom we drink beer, chat and go to concerts together. And I'm not gay and we don't sleep together. You were just acquaintances, but you didn't have the courage to suggest that you be boyfriends. If you don't say these things out loud, it's all just nonsense and frivolous attitude. It used to be funny when a friend decided we were going to celebrate a "four month anniversary" with a cake, but then I realized - we have to constantly prove that we still hold on to each other, especially when it's early in our relationship. When your balls grow a little bigger, maybe it's time to catch a real girlfriend.
Question to you: Why didn't you tell her half a year that you wanted her naked? If he had told her right away you would have saved 6 months;)
There are many options as to why she did it. Maybe because it was more baked and she thought you wanted to be more than a friend. Maybe it's because you suffocated her a lot. You can be bold to ask her why she's acting like that. I'm a girl this is my advice. If you don't ask her, you can only guess. Girls are hard work.
I'm sorry, but from what you've written, you look like a pretty desperate person. If you are too slimy and annoying, it is normal that the girl is tired of you. And for comment number two, I don't know what you are, but if you think that men are better than women in any respect, especially in a relationship, then you are sorely mistaken. You've probably been dumped so many times because you're useless, you already think the problem is with the opposite sex.
Because you are annoying and you don't let us breathe. Women love mystery, not to be available. Pretend you don't care a gram.
They are easily frightened, they have no mind in their head. When they see someone serious, they run away. What do you expect from creatures with an average mental capacity of 50 IQ?
(Author) Regarding what was written to me, in response I would say that I myself said that I am annoying WHEN I AM CONCERNED ... I am worried when she has problems ... Comments 3 and 4 are the best, sincere and candid so far.
Abe idiots, this is a 14-year-old child, what nonsense are you writing? For them it is something like friendship plus liking. Hey kid, girls are bad and they're users. When you stop being interesting to them, they change to another. Because there are 10 more like you. So be different from others. Make her sink on you and then you will command the parade. Never play a woman's bagpipe because it will make you annoying as it is and you will look weak.
It depends on what the girl is ... It is not right to put everyone under a common denominator. As for the case, maybe she just doesn't want (or doesn't appreciate) the attention paid to her.
All the women's comments exuded undisguised malice, and apparently the fact that the text was written by a 14-year-old gram did not touch these vipers. Pickles like that, why do you accuse the boy that purely human feelings such as worrying and worrying about a friend are a sign of weakness and boredom? Why did you tell him a lot of nonsense without a drop of glare? Maybe it's really true that 90% of you like junk and drug addicts who blow you away and then roar on the forums (and not only there) that you can't get rid of your ex fuckers. This is how you like it when the kindness in this child not only did not impress you, but was even tainted with a bunch of ugly epithets. And you, boy, I hope you don't ignore these ugly comments and draw the appropriate conclusions from them, so that in a few years you won't fall into similar situations, where you will be used, but later you will be guilty of all the filth in your relationships. Do not allow anyone to crush you, at least various girls to lead you by the nose and after you get tired of them, to throw you as an unnecessary object in search of the next fool. Be a man of character and if you smell one, run away from her before you make any contact. If you learn to recognize and cut them from now on, you will do yourself a great service in the long run.
Well, there can be many reasons. To suffocate her with your excessive attention, so that she is not in love with you, it seems that you are in love with her, but apparently she accepts you only as a friend. If she had met someone else who literally cut her legs with her eyes ... and no, I don't think she's doing it because it gives her pleasure to hurt you, but simply because she saw and felt that things wouldn't work out between you. I know it hurts, but you can't force someone to love you and like you. So just try to move on and find the girl you love, but also love you.
Emmy bro, I'm not a girl, but I've been in a similar situation. A girl wrote to me once and so she started writing to me regularly. We wrote to each other every day and we had arranged to meet, but when she asked me to go out I couldn't, when I asked her she couldn't and we never saw each other, she stopped replying to my messages and everything remained just a chat. Honestly, being "nice" is not something that girls like in a boy. I mean, if you behave terribly kind and caring about her, she'll get bored pretty quickly or she'll just leave you as a friend she uses to fix her mood when she needs it. I've been there and I know what it is. Of course I'm not telling you to be a complete bastard with girls. If you look good, you can behave the way you want, they will still like you, but if you are not 9/10 or 10/10 you can't behave the way you want. The goal is to know that you care about her and that you are ready to help her when she needs it, but at the same time to know that you are not super concerned and you can have fun without things being too serious. I wish you success with the next one.