Hello, a 22-year-old girl from Sofia is writing to you. I want to clarify that I am not crazy at all and that I am an attractive and normal girl. I've always wondered if there are men who don't look at other women when they're in a relationship. I recently talked to an acquaintance of mine and he told me that every man looks at women. The question is whether he cheats or not, but it is not enough for me that he does not cheat the very fact that he looks at other women and wants them in his mind and his mind makes me angry. And for me it is very correct what the Bible says that cheating is in the brain a kind that when you want a woman or a man you have already cheated and it does not have to be physical to be cheating. I wonder if there is such a man somewhere who when he is in a relationship and even to see the coolest chick to say to himself I am committed and I should not look at others only my wife is beautiful for example. Recently I happened to travel with an acquaintance of mine in the subway who is a very serious and decent boy and a girl got on and he said that he would fuck her a lot. This surprised me a little ... because he is generally very decent. and a good boy. And we talked to him and he told me that these were just stories and that nothing really happened to irritate his girlfriend and I thought that my boyfriend could look at other women like that and I was very sad ..
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This example with the Bible was good. The idea is that if you want it, but you are not with it, it is logical only because at this moment I do not have the opportunity. I'm surprised you even ask if there's anyone who stares while in a relationship. I'm not the best example, and even I don't look if I'm with one. I've even noticed that women look more closely, how many times have I seen one with my boyfriend and, say, getting off the tram second only to my friend, is looking, to put it mildly, provocative ... just as we wouldn't want you to look, so alone we should not do it, even if we see one that seems worth looking at.
When I'm with a woman I like, all the women around me are gray, uninteresting, etc. But I'm me, it's normal for most people to look at other people. If your friend is with you, then there is something in you that he likes. Trust him!
Looking does not always mean wanting the person. It is quite normal to look at something GOOD, be it a nice person. I, too, can look at a woman simply because she catches the eye. My father also looks at other women, my mother has noticed him and is not annoyed, this does not mean that he wants them, nor has he cheated on my mother. He has always been a great father too. So, it's normal. Those eyes are worth watching after all.
When you go to a picture gallery and fall in love with Zlatyo Boyadzhiev, does that mean that you are cheating on him by looking at Vladimir Dimitrov-the Master. Chicks are also an art form, sometimes perfect, sometimes kitsch. The purpose of art is not only sensory pleasure but also commercial. The artist / chick / must be valued, sold in order to feed at least. It's all super natural to look and appreciate, to be looked at and appreciated. In such an action, you or the other party can correct something in the clothing, behavior or other. This is not infidelity and betrayal of the loved one next to you. We were about 500 vacationers and we all made fun of a chick who literally did not allow her friend and / slipper / to look at people other than her. It was a big blade and we all sympathized with the young man. I don't believe you want that for the person next to you. But fidelity cannot be compromised, either completely or not at all, perhaps this is said in the biblical text. No one can and should strive to own another. M 1964
When one truly loves, the eyes neither seek nor see others. Applies to both sexes.
the man is the first signal, whether he sees a beautiful or naked woman hungry, all other answers are fabrications
My friend told me he was staring. Even before we left, when we were still friends, he told me that in order to have even just a friendship with a girl / woman, she initially attracted him in appearance, as if he had something else in mind. That is, yes, all his female friends are beautiful, and yes, theoretically he would sleep with each of them (except one who was fat: D). Male logic. This does not mean that he has done it or that he will do it. On the contrary, he is an extremely conscientious, kind and responsible boy who can be relied on. It's just that the male instinct is like that, but some people are intelligent enough and manage to keep these thoughts only in their head. I don't mind that, after all, I notice a nice man (and a woman too, to be honest), that doesn't mean I'll do more than appreciate beauty, which is before my eyes (I am an artist after all). And yet mine is best because it is mine. : D I don't want to shatter your illusions, but your friend, if he is a healthy heterosexual man, most likely when he sees a beautiful woman on the street, various thoughts come to him. Just because he's tied up doesn't mean he's blind. This should not bother you or make you think he is cheating on you. Be more free in your thinking and do not show so much ownership towards him. Nobody likes obsessive people. He has chosen you, therefore he sees in you something more than in the others. This should not bother you or make you think he is cheating on you. Be more free in your thinking and do not show so much ownership towards him. Nobody likes obsessive people. He has chosen you, therefore he sees in you something more than in the others. This should not bother you or make you think he is cheating on you. Be more free in your thinking and do not show so much ownership towards him. Nobody likes obsessive people. He has chosen you, therefore he sees in you something more than in the others.
Everyone would look at a nice woman or a nice man. It is quite normal. Those who have other intentions usually do not stay with just one look. Then you can already see their behavior and if you notice in your friend the beginnings of a special interest in women - run! You don't have to be with such a person.
According to the Qur'an, only deeds are important ... If you are looking to understand something about religions, it will be a little difficult for you, because they often like to contradict each other ... The truth is somewhere in the middle. It is normal for one sex to provoke the interest of the other, such is our biology. However, when a person starts looking rudely and lustfully ... he does not speak well of his value system. The behavior you describe is not that of a "very serious and conscientious boy." This has repeatedly convinced me that it is not something that women are given to appreciate ... That's why their fathers used to marry them. No man at least a little decent will allow such a comment in female company, especially when he is engaged. If you don't want to come across such an image, fix your own idea of men a bit.
Few people know what it is to love. However, if you love everyone else, they turn gray, as 2. says. Author, think about whether your relationship is based on appearance or not. Because you will one day be ugly nameless. Do you think he would be with you again? If so, let him look after his chicks. If not, let him look at them again, and if he wants to look for them, without you, however, you see the problem is that you are vain and cling to your beauty and compare yourself with others. It doesn't matter to us. My girl has been looking at other men and I'm not annoyed. Then we both joke. This is how trust is built. It's bad if he stares, however, and doesn't share it with you
They look at how else. And yours, too, even when he walks with you, maybe, but knowing he's jealous, he'll deny it. The fact that he passed on the street, for example, with a woman more beautiful than you and looked at her, does not mean that he cheated on you. Man is not blind after all! He will pass and forget her, nothing serious. If you are so filmed by this and become annoying, then you are not confident in yourself above all. Jealousy is nothing but low self-esteem, inferiority complex, lack of trust in the partner and fear that he will prefer another. Plus a heightened sense of ownership. Don't be a maximalist and don't want your partner to necessarily have the same opinion and behavior as you. This is one of the surest ways to lose it.
I absolutely support number 3.
The last paragraph killed me. Just because he (hypothetically) stared at someone and caught his eye doesn't mean that having sex with you will think of her. He probably forgot her in five seconds, and you're thinking and tormenting yourself here ... Accept that all people look at each other, but with different intentions, so to speak. Some of them just appreciate the beauty (sorry, but like a horse with caps you have to be different!), Others are looking for a potential victim, ie the latter are the ones who really cheat. Here some will probably convince you that they, you see, do not stare and are holy water not drunk. Do not believe them, there is no person who does not stare (at least briefly) at a beautiful man / woman.
Number 10, the Qur'an and the Bible are not the same. Now, if I share a few quotes from Islam, they may accuse me of making it up. In the Qur'an, the contradictions are on too important topics. For example, Jesus is not God because "Allah (God) cannot have children," and at the same time Allah has three daughters. Lying also occupies a very special place in Islam, to put it mildly, differently from that in the Bible.
I fully share the opinion of number 6, this is the truth on the subject in my opinion!
The fact that you do not consider yourself crazy, but attractive, what exactly does it play in your story? By the way, no - you're not attractive, girl. Your spelling is appalling, and that's repulsive to say the least.