Hello, I am 20 years old and I am currently on a brigade in Scotland. Here I met a boy who started looking for me when I came here. At first I did not respond to his messages and did not respond to the attention he gave me. Then it happened that he was moved to my group and we started talking at work, we flirted, and there were really sparks between us. It's just that all of a sudden he stopped writing to me and looking for me, he doesn't talk to me in the field, it's like he doesn't see me, at the moment I feel like I'm with a broken heart, no matter how stupid, it hurts a lot, maybe that that he stopped paying attention to me hurts me so much, all this indifference. By the way, there is a woman who is a supervisor, she is not attractive at all and she has a husband and a child and yet she is obsessed with him, she stays in his ranks all day and talks to him, he himself told me that only she was looking for him and he would not want her at all. I have fears that she has created some intrigue because she knows he likes me. I have written to him now and he has been answering me for a long time. That's all, I feel very bad, and more about myself, about being attached and falling in love so easily, often with people unworthy of me. You may find it silly to share this, but I wanted to share it with someone. I told my mother, she doesn't understand me, she says I always like junk. Thanks to the readers and I will be happy if you share your opinion. often in people unworthy of me. You may find it silly to share this, but I wanted to share it with someone. I told my mother, she doesn't understand me, she says I always like junk. Thanks to the readers and I will be happy if you share your opinion. often in people unworthy of me. You may find it silly to share this, but I wanted to share it with someone. I told my mother, she doesn't understand me, she says I always like junk. Thanks to the readers and I will be happy if you share your opinion.
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Mom always knows better. ;)
The fact that he may not feel anything for you does not make him unworthy, but all the girls share such thinking.
Your mother even understood you very correctly!
You yourself are wrong ... At first you didn't pay any attention to him, then when they moved him to you, did you somehow notice that there were sparks between you? Ole ... Well, I'm glad he dumped you, apparently he enchanted you with something, that to "fall in love" with him, I guess money. I hope he doesn't look for you anymore.
Don't bother with dumb bastards! This is my advice. When you grow up you will understand that there is no point in more words on the subject, and to think them, these idiots - is not worth it at all! Just don't be like them, they are inferior, they deserve contempt and zero attention. They recognize each other ... It just seems obvious to them, although some are big hypocrites.
So while the young man in question was paying attention to you, you were pleasantly distracted and did not respond to the jokes at all. Now that he's obviously tired of dealing with you, all of a sudden you're the victim again, and the boy has even become "garbage" in your mother's eyes. Like the mother, the daughter. The boy was right to run away from people like you (and unknowingly got rid of another evil - your mother).
At first she did not respond to his messages and did not pay any attention to him, but when she received the same after a while - she roared. Typical attention whore ...
Ask him directly if there is a problem and why you no longer communicate as often as before? If he rejects the answer or doesn't make it distracted, don't bother anymore, it's not worth it. There will always be intriguers, but everyone has a head on their shoulders and should weed them out, and if he can't, then it's not worth it.