My problem is this: I'm finishing too fast. Sometimes even before the penetration. This is awful, because I want to enjoy the gradation of excitement and only then finish ... Every time it's the same - my husband starts stroking my chest, we kiss, then he sucks my nipples and the second he touch my clit I cum ... I don't want to, but I can't stop. It's so dumb. Then when it penetrates me I am like a river below, after orgasm I relax and it is difficult for me to finish a second time. The other unsatisfactory option is to finish as soon as I get on top and make the first move. I suffer a lot. I try to stop him from touching me so that I don't end prematurely, but he continues insistently and I just indulge in pleasure. Is this normal ... do girls happen to you ?? I'm greedy for sexual pleasure and I want more and more, I masturbate often and still get angry that I cum fast. We also try to start in different poses, but I lose the excitement of the doggy and missionary ... Eventually I go upstairs and take it on my own. I tried to push him when he caressed and stimulated me, but he got angry and didn't understand what was wrong with finishing right away. I wish it was gradual, not so fast and intense. What to do??? I have the feeling that I am crazy, I tremble before orgasm, I still have this at that moment, I just want to take pleasure in it, even at times I fantasize about how someone else is fucking me, as if I'm not excited enough without it. I don't know if it's a disease. All I know is that I want every second of sex to be good for me, not the first 5 minutes ... what would you advise me? but I lose the excitement of the dog and the missionary ... Eventually I go upstairs and take it on my own. I tried to push him when he caressed and stimulated me, but he got angry and didn't understand what was wrong with finishing right away. I wish it was gradual, not so fast and intense.
What to do??? I have the feeling that I am crazy, I tremble before orgasm, I still have this at that moment, I just want to take pleasure in it, even at times I fantasize about how someone else is fucking me, as if I'm not excited enough without it. I don't know if it's a disease. All I know is that I want every second of sex to be good for me, not the first 5 minutes ... what would you advise me? but I lose the excitement of the dog and the missionary ... Eventually I go upstairs and take it on my own. I tried to push him when he caressed and stimulated me, but he got angry and didn't understand what was wrong with finishing right away. I wish it was gradual, not so fast and intense. What to do??? I have the feeling that I am crazy, I tremble before orgasm, I still have this at that moment, I just want to take pleasure in it, even at times I fantasize about how someone else is fucking me, as if I'm not excited enough without it. I don't know if it's a disease. All I know is that I want every second of sex to be good for me, not the first 5 minutes ... what would you advise me? I wish it was gradual, not so fast and intense. What to do??? I have the feeling that I am crazy, I tremble before orgasm, I still have this at that moment, I just want to take pleasure in it, even at times I fantasize about how someone else is fucking me, as if I'm not excited enough without it. I don't know if it's a disease. All I know is that I want every second of sex to be good for me, not the first 5 minutes ... what would you advise me? I wish it was gradual, not so fast and intense. What to do??? I have the feeling that I am crazy, I tremble before orgasm, I still have this at that moment, I just want to take pleasure in it, even at times I fantasize about how someone else is fucking me, as if I'm not excited enough without it. I don't know if it's a disease. All I know is that I want every second of sex to be good for me, not the first 5 minutes ... what would you advise me?
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Cum on me a few times.
Where is the problem I did not understand? My wife is also fast and finishes 3-4 times in 20 minutes, but she doesn't complain about it, she likes it and enjoys it, and I feel good about it too.
This is not written by a woman! Grace will be for the man, if there are such women, nor will he suffer for a long time, but will receive his for a short time. Through five minutes of sex, you will save 1 hour of productive life, not grief for frigid women.
# 3, I didn't know that for men, long sex is a pain. The sex with all my partners was quite long. I always thought that they were happy to turn me around as they wished and do all sorts of things, and they obviously experienced a lot of suffering. The poor.
4, I'm not 3, but men naturally cum faster than women. Of course, there are exceptions. So when a man is young and inexperienced, it naturally ends quickly. If he starts to finish much slower later, it's only because he trained him and tried to keep it that way over time. Ie a man's slow ejaculation is almost always one of his attempts to achieve it. It's not like a woman. They do it mainly to satisfy their wives. Because imagine that they will stay for 2 minutes for the rest of their lives, but they will hardly be able to keep a woman and have regular sex like that. But many men, as long as they had a choice, would prefer the woman to cum faster so as not to bother so much. Of course, not all, but many of them, yes. I am lucky to have happened to a woman who ends safely in 5 minutes, I did not detect exactly, but quickly. Before we meet, I had achieved quite a long duration for the above reasons, and my front partner was at the other extreme. You had to shake it for hours to finish. In time, she learned to be able to. However, since I met my wife, this has become meaningless, because there is no need for more than 5 minutes, and once she is done, she will not. Then I started learning to finish quickly again and in the beginning I needed time to get used to it again. We just want to finish at the same time. Over the years, I have become so happy and used to finish quickly (which is in sync with male nature) that if I accidentally have to change a woman, in the beginning I will hardly be able to satisfy her and I will still need time to adjust. But when you finish faster, you do it more often, because if I have to spend 1-2 hours for each sex, well, I will certainly do it many times less often, simply because I always have the time, energy and ability to do so. Now the children are all around us, we have night shifts, you have not always been able to rest, etc., there is no way in such circumstances to spend 2 hours every night purely physically. And the pleasure in the end for a man is the same, because the main part of the pleasure for a man comes during orgasm, and before that whether you will shake for 5 minutes or 1 hour is not as important as for a woman.
# 5, for me personally, the pleasure of sex does not end with cumming. On the one hand, all the caresses and touches that are exchanged, on the other hand, the change of postures, pace, oral and other pleasures ... For me, the very penetration leads to a very good feeling from the very beginning. I don't mind doing it in a hurry, you still need variety, and it's not always possible to take time for more, but it's another kind of thrill. A truly satisfying session cannot last 5 minutes. Otherwise, I understand that fatigue and lack of time have an impact. Biological differences are another point. At one time, men finished fast because several lined up, then speed guaranteed a chance in the race. Accordingly, the woman had to be aroused for a longer time, so that the work would not literally dry up.
№4 (7) You have very strange thoughts, in the past men finished quickly because they were in a competition !? Since when is sex a sport? Once you go back in time, recall the story and compare how people lived then. To make it easier, learn about life in Bulgaria 100 years ago, not to go back to Ottoman times. What was life like, naturally poor and connected with agriculture. What a long sex they will have when they have been in the field until dark, and in the evening they have slept in common rooms, young and old. Sex took place either in the barns or in an open sheltered place. Could they afford sex for hours? And then sex was mostly for breeding, but not for fun, as it is nowadays. Of all the animal world, only man makes sex pleasurable and therefore artificially seeks to make it lasting. As №5 writes, the man does not care whether he will have sex for 5 minutes or 1 hour, it is important to loosen the tension, but because of the woman's insatiability he tries to struggle even more. A hot woman always cums faster than a frigid one. Better fast and hot sex with a real woman than painful with a slow warmer!
# 9, I wrote you an answer, but unfortunately it was not published. This makes the discussion a little difficult. Dear moderators, it is obviously ok to call women frigid, slowly warming up and untrue women because they want to enjoy sex for more than 5 minutes, but there is a serious problem to respond to such a comment. Once again, there is no adequate and equivalent moderation criterion. Accordingly, # 9, I can only tell you that your behavior is ugly, concepts that you use incorrect, and obviously used for another purpose. But I doubt that this comment will pass censorship.