Hello everyone. I have a very big problem and I don't know who to share it with, but I hope you will give me an idea. I am a 15 year old girl, a nice, fun, sociable person. I have never put anything in front of my education, because I think that this is a top priority for me at the moment. But one night a friend convinced me to go with her to "the coolest party you've ever seen!". I agreed, mostly because I didn't want to look like a fool or a jerk. A party with a capital K, as the girl put it. Alcohol, cigarettes, drugs and loud music. I don't want to think about what happened to the people there, I don't want to try to remember what happened to me. I didn't drink much alcohol - in fact, I barely licked the beer in the glass. I focused mostly on cola and mineral water - I didn't want to smell my mother's alcohol, which is already very conservative. I don't know what was in my drink! At one point, I lose everything, as if in a fog. Probably someone drugged me and then raped me. He didn't have the courage to do it with a girl to let him sober up. I don't want to think about who he is and how his conscience has allowed him. Or maybe there were more, because according to several acquaintances at one time they saw me with one and then with another boy. And ... I'm pregnant now. I don't know from whom, and I don't want to know. I'm in my second month, so the solution is definitely an abortion. I don't want this child because I know I'm not ready and I'm just going to ruin his life. But ... how do I tell my mother If I tell her the truth, she'll decide I'm covering things up to make me innocent ... Help me, please ... At one point, I lose everything, as if in a fog. Probably someone drugged me and then raped me. He didn't have the courage to do it with a girl who would let him sober up. I don't want to think about who he is and how his conscience has allowed him. Or maybe there were more, because according to several acquaintances at one time they saw me with one and then with another boy. And ... I'm pregnant now. I don't know from whom, and I don't want to know. I'm in my second month, so the solution is definitely abortion. I don't want this child because I know I'm not ready and I'm just going to ruin his life. But ... how do I tell my mother? If I tell her the truth, she'll decide I'm covering things up to make me innocent ... Help me, please ... At one point, I lose everything, as if in a fog. Probably someone drugged me and then raped me. He didn't have the courage to do it with a girl to let him sober up. I don't want to think about who he is and how his conscience has allowed him. Or maybe there were more, because according to several acquaintances at one time they saw me with one and then with another boy. And ... I'm pregnant now. I don't know from whom, and I don't want to know. I'm in my second month, so the solution is definitely abortion. I don't want this child because I know I'm not ready and I'm just going to ruin his life. But ... how do I tell my mother? If I tell her the truth, she'll decide I'm covering things up to make myself innocent ... Help me, please ... I don't want to think about who he is and how his conscience has allowed him. Or maybe there were more, because according to several acquaintances at one time they saw me with one and then with another boy. And ... I'm pregnant now. I don't know from whom, and I don't want to know. I'm in my second month, so the solution is definitely abortion. I don't want this child because I know I'm not ready and I'm just going to ruin his life. But ... how do I tell my mother? If I tell her the truth, she'll decide I'm covering things up to make me innocent ... Help me, please ... I don't even want to think about who he is and how his conscience allowed it. Or maybe there were more, because according to several acquaintances at one time they saw me with one and then with another boy. And ... I'm pregnant now. I don't know from whom, and I don't want to know. I'm in my second month, so the solution is definitely abortion. I don't want this child because I know I'm not ready and I'm just going to ruin his life. But ... how do I tell my mother? If I tell her the truth, she'll decide I'm covering things up to make me innocent ... Help me, please ... that I'm not ready and I'm just going to ruin his life. But ... how do I tell my mother? If I tell her the truth, she'll decide I'm covering things up to make me innocent ... Help me, please ... that I'm not ready and I'm just going to ruin his life. But ... how do I tell my mother? If I tell her the truth, she'll decide I'm covering things up to make me innocent ... Help me, please ...
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there is no better way to say it. Because you are not an adult, you cannot have an abortion without her consent. I'm sorry this happened to you, and I want you to find the strength to handle it.
Tell your mother the truth, if THIS is the truth. She is the only person who would understand and help you. Or if you really think that he won't believe you, say that you had a boyfriend for some time and now you are pregnant by him, and he, for example, has gone abroad and will not be bored anymore ... I don't know, it's stupid but you are you decide
My advice to you is to tell your mother everything. She can best help you. Remember that she CAN and is your best friend. After all, it's not your fault that there was something in your drink. You didn't know what you were doing. Explain everything. I tell you from personal experience that it will help you the best. And most of all, be strong and have faith in yourself. I sincerely wish you to deal with this problem and next time be careful with whom and where you go. Pick your friends! Success!
Don't worry and tell your mother. The longer you wait, the more dangerous the abortion will become. And you, if you can't trust your closest ones, who then. And this so-called "girlfriend" of yours, since she allowed something like this to happen to you, is obviously no attraction to you. Choose more people you make friends with.
I don't agree with number 2, you don't have to make up stories about a boyfriend who went abroad. Even tell the truth.
Just to remind you that whether you tell your mother or not, it will always show! You better tell her everything! P.P. and this girl who invited you to the party and allowed you to be raped, do you call her a friend :?
I'm so sorry for you. At your age, something similar happened to me, with the difference that I didn't get pregnant. The people I was at the party with were supposed to be my friends for a long time, but only. It doesn't matter I don't know your mother and I don't know how conservative she is, but if she's really that bad, get help from someone else close to you, but you can trust her more. But still keep in mind that you don't have time and you have to decide no sooner. As a last resort, tell your mother what will be better than waiting for it to be too late.
After this girl who made you go to the party with her left you to be raped, you can see how much she is your friend! And since you are a minor, the only way to have an abortion is to go with your mother and her mother to sign, nothing like that happened to a friend and she had to go with her mother, there is no other option.
I'm sorry for what happened! It is very painful ... I would like to talk, but not here ... If you want, write me an e-mail: [email protected], and I will give you my Skype there ... This problem is not for the public discussion! You need a secret and real conversation with someone who will understand you! If you have won the trust of your mother, she will dissuade you, but if you are not - it's good to work on it ... No matter how conservative the parents are, there is LOVE in front of it! I will expect you to look for me ...
I want to ask if I can have an abortion without my mother knowing because she will "kill me" if she finds out tell me what to do ????
So, you are 15, a minor, you can't have an abortion without your parents - you need a signature! Noooo 1. Are you sure you're pregnant? 2. If you think a little and understand how long the pregnancy is ... something can happen without yours. 3. What they did to you was live rape. They drugged you, and they had sex when you were unconscious! So not only do you have to tell the seams, but also get tested for AIDS and hang a lawsuit against those! Success! And do not hide from your parents!
Dear girl, I sincerely regret what happened. Your mother should be your best friend, but there are also mothers who have a conservative understanding. Well, "to kill you"? That you will be scolded, maybe the collar, but I'm sure he will understand you. And there is a way to do without it, but of course you have to consult a doctor, there is a termination of pregnancy without abortion, they gave me an injection, I think it was -estrofan, or something like that. And the fact that you are a minor complicates things, there are risks. But, I repeat only a doctor, do nothing yourself!
Well, you're not very big ... And if you had good grades SUPER! I think you should tell your mother. - Mom, do you remember the party I asked you to go to with my girlfriend? (if she says don't explain to her) Emmy there was an accident ... There was a lot of alcohol, cigarettes and drugs, but I didn't drink alcohol or smoke cigarettes and I didn't sniff drugs! I drove a car and water. Well, I don't know what was in the water or the car, but obviously there was something! They drugged me with something and ... then I lose everything! All I know is ... I'm 2 months pregnant! Mom please tell me what to do !? In my opinion, mothers can only help you not to harm you while you are also a daughter and I am sure she loves you! Tell her clearly and clearly so that she doesn't think you sniffed or drank or smoked and that you want to lie to her! Just say it! She will give you advice again and she is a mother!
Wow, I don't know, but I think like number 14. If I think of something like that, I would say it, no matter how strange it sounds to me.
There is nothing better and more reassuring for you at the moment is to tell your parents. First of all, your mother will have a stone fall from your heart, because a person generally feels calmer when he shares. Then there is no way, you are her child and she will understand you and you will find a way to deal with the problem. But I give you an important piece of advice - do not wait too long, because if you wait another two months, it will be too late for an abortion. Gather courage and tell your mother as soon as possible. Otherwise, I sincerely sympathize with what happened to you, and if you have been a cautious girl so far, be even more cautious in the future. I wish you luck and ... everything depends on you.
Eee fuck they must have put the drug in your drinking ahaha I have a lot of knowledge about drugs for one reason or another and I do not remember what it is possible that they put you haha ... even if you did not know but what you do and then no memory ... you don't remember how you got home at all; D; D I don't know ... and you need a lot of money for such a drug ... and in your words you barely had a glass oO no chance according to me. Are you sure this is the truth; d
There is just such a drug. They put it in your car, it dissolves and has no taste or smell.
I don't know how to help you
Let me ask you honestly, what did you do with such a company. There are thousands of companies that do not use drugs but have fun in another way, and you are there ..... to some extent you are to blame, because drugs do not drive well ... if you like such companies, nothing good awaits you. I have a 15-year-old cousin from another city and I had to walk around the city as a little older than her - and I was shocked ... she wanted to go to drug addicts. You're half guilty.
Girl ... you're in trouble. But she got to her feet, stood up to her mother, and told her the truth. But I think you should keep it. Good luck
What happened? Did you tell your mother? Come on, tell me what happened :)
Look, no matter how bad it is, don't wait for it to get worse! And my mother is like yours! I know what's wrong with you, but you have to tell her. This is the only thing you can do! I'm smaller than you, and yet three weeks ago something similar happened to me! Thank God it was just an experience for me and they failed! And I didn't tell my mother myself! you still have to do it! Listen to me and don't procrastinate! As bad as it is, it will help you in the best way! GOOD LUCK AND DON'T FORGET THAT YOU SHOULD ALWAYS BE BOLD !!!
will handle badi strong.
First, what happened to you is a crime. Those who have done so deserve to go to jail. You can share it with the psychologist at school or with any adult you decide! You are not to blame for what happened to you. You must be just annoying and you went there to look cool in front of others. Remember that it is not important to be like others. Be different and radically change the environment. The bad thing is that if you have an abortion, you may not be able to get pregnant later when you want to have a child. You need to be aware of this risk. I had a girlfriend who got pregnant like that and then she went to another city and gave birth there and then she gave birth to 4 children of her own. You need to make important decisions about your future quickly. Pray to God!
Tell your mother. Discuss it and make the best decision. I believe she will understand you. :)
My mother is also a hell of a conservative and panics a lot, and panic makes a person think what not .. I do not tell her many things, because I know the reaction, and I want to avoid this, but this hiding happens in less important things .. Here we are talking about something serious, tell her! You will do the right thing, and as they said above, you cannot have an abortion without the knowledge of your parents, because you are a minor ... Go ahead, do it! At first you may regret telling her, because she might make a lot of noise and panic really much, but it's normal, she's a mother after all. Do it, don't think about it, it's not too late to fix what happened! Success!
First and foremost, tell your parents. Then he had an abortion. (It can't happen without a parent's signature) And if you and your parents decide to go to the police to look for them. Good luck.
First and foremost, tell your parents. Then he had an abortion. (It can't happen without a parent's signature) And if you and your parents decide to go to the police to look for them. Good luck.
Do not have an abortion. Abortion is murder. The child in your womb is not to blame for your carelessness. If your mother was conservative, she wouldn't let you go to such brothels. You didn't have to go to parties. It is better to give birth to this child and give it to an orphanage than to kill it.