My husband and I have a strong love for each other. At the beginning of the relationship we had sex every day and so on for a year. Then he gradually began to want less and less, but I was blind and realized it after a while. I notice that when I want sex he pushes me away, and when he decides he wants he does everything to give it to him, even just to please him. He drinks two liters of beer every night, he doesn't get drunk, but it's enough that he can't pick him up later and when he starts kissing him, etc. he tells me that he doesn't like it and has already drunk. Then we go to bed, I turn my back on him, somehow offended and he then starts rubbing inside me and I feel him ... I ask him, there was no possibility today, and he says that he just checked me to see if I was sleeping and turned his back on me and fell asleep ... I talk to him, I try, but he thinks there is no problem, etc. We have sex twice a month ....
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No sense in telling you now - I don't wanna ruin the suprise. Sit down and talk about this topic. After all, you are a couple ... ask him "am I not attracted to you anymore"? Tell him you're very offended by his refusals. If the reason is not in this, but elsewhere, he will try to prove to you that you are still wanted!
I write only to express my astonishment - lately many women say things like - "there is a strong love between us, we love each other a lot", etc., and at the same time they do not get what they need from their husbands in the least. attention. I find it very interesting based on what you think they love you for. Do they declare it to you - between beer and snoring? Because the surest measure of love is passion. If it is missing - then everything is missing.
He's a fucking beer. I'm a 32-year-old man, I've never thought about problems with libido and cravings, but I, like your husband, started drinking 1-2 two-liter drinks a night for 3-4 years. At one point, the desire subsided, come on, but for the second time, no word can be said. I sat down and read, came across articles. Beer is packed with phytoestrogen, a female hormone in a nutshell. With very prolonged use in moderate amounts begins to accumulate and give effects. Patlaka gives notches, the appearance of cellulite (typically a female disease, uncharacteristic of men), fills in naughty places and especially laziness and laziness. Treatment: full stop beer at home, with friends in the company yes, but at home 1-2 two-liter NO. Sports, mainly breathing exercises: running, swimming, cycling, football. At the moment I have the feeling that I'm driving a second time 16, I want and I can fuck the whole world, with apology. It took me 4-5 months to deal with my problem.
The truth is simple and painful. Another cuckoo is singing in your nest. CHECKED.
Eh, what are these men? Only twice a month? I can't give you real advice, as I'm only 20, but I hope it doesn't happen to me. Twice a month, given that you have a woman by your side, is quite a bit.
Talk to him! Tell him you have needs too. Ask him out well if he is no longer absorbed in the connection. If he drank, he would easily tell himself :) I had a similar conversation with my husband yesterday and he told me that he loves oral love very much and would like to receive it more often. Another question is if there is a physical problem and it is difficult to get aroused, for example. Then you can fix things with teas, aphrodisiacs and other things. Success!
Well, try more variety in sex, talk to him, let him share his desires and how he wants to do it, you know that the same thing quickly bores a person, so try to predispose him so that he tells you and does something. on the issue. You also forgot to say whether you do everything or have reservations, so I can not give you more advice, but still talk to him at length and widely, this is how you can solve the problem and not suffer. Good luck dear, the sooner you solve your problem with each other, the better it will be for your successful relationship as a family.
But you women, except for m.p. member are you thinking of something else? I still think that you should be romantic and gentle and ... That's why I don't tremble when I hear that someone was raped, beaten or made a prostitute .. Good luck girls ... Moderator: Please without offensive qualifications.
Oh, darling! I think your husband has some problems he's afraid to share with you. That is why he drinks and has a low libido. You have to provoke him to an open conversation, but it will be quite difficult for you, because he is obviously not told about what is bothering him. I don't believe in the hypothesis of another woman, because you say that when you do it, he is insistent, and I believe in your love. Find out what has been bothering him lately and overcome the problem together. I wish you success! BM
What beer, what BGN 5. I think he's cheating on you. I'm 90% sure.
Don't listen to 2, which says that if there is no old age, there is nothing. My husband changes his daughter every year, but he loves his family, and he only fixes them and doesn't give them five bucks. So that there can be love without passion. I also lack sex and passion, but my husband and I love each other. I know he's knocking outside, but every night we sleep in each other's arms and we get along.
It is possible to have a health problem. It is possible that there will be another. But at this point, I recommend that you focus on trying to seduce him. You don't mention children. Think about sex not only when you go to bed. Think about preparing the situation carelessly as soon as he comes ... Maybe you just took a bath, in a bathrobe, cracked ... to ask him to rub you, that you got something ... Maybe with his coming to direct him to the bathroom and get in ... Find some erotic movie (not porn) and "start" watching it just when he comes, watch for a suitable moment and put your hand on his package or something like that. He took the initiative before pouring the two-liter bottle into his stomach. The most important thing - in no case do not ask provocative questions such as: "... there was no opportunity today" !!! Do you support yourself? How are you dressed when he comes? What do you look like - do you do something for your appearance, hygiene before he comes home? Don't answer, just think. I wish you success! And write about the result.
Number 10, people like you must have a lifelong BAS on such sites! I totally agree with number 3! This is the most correct explanation of the problem. If your husband replaces beer with sports, the problem will disappear. But he must show a strong will - men find it difficult to give up this liquid pleasure.
I think this is a very serious problem for many men, such articles have become quite a lot. Every second woman is dissatisfied because her husband refuses for some unknown reason. What if the answer lies in the simplest things,,, what we eat, drink and donate and breathe. In my opinion, the culprits are the poor quality of the products in our country, the tendency of our men to become alcoholic and the poisons we inhale. People were poisoning us !!!
The problems in a relationship are best seen in sex - if it starts to get worse and smaller - there is a problem. Whether infidelity, whether material, whether another - there is a problem, ergo, find and eliminate the problem in your relationship before it deepens. You both need to be responsible and work to strengthen the relationship. This seduction, dresses, dolls and other one-sided actions is an infantile story and does not help - it can only temporarily improve things because it is one-sided. Problems between two people are solved by both.