Hello! I met my boyfriend 2 years ago. In the beginning, as always, everything was rosy, until later we got to know each other even better and various quarrels began. This, of course, is normal. I dare say, we will really fight only for serious things, not for trifles. From the very beginning he is not romantic, he rarely makes gestures, but he is very understanding, he does not be rude to me, with a few exceptions. We have almost never had too deep conversations, conversations about the real things in life, and I miss that, I am charged with such things. I need to comment on the real things happening in the world these days ... and he doesn't. He just doesn't look the same way. While I need deep thought with my friends, he needs to be angry with me for the most superficial things possible, like why I didn't pick up right away, why I didn't write at 1 pm, why I go out with friends and not with him, and if I don't go out with him, then I don't love him. I've been feeling very tired lately because of these things, and I'm angry that he's just grumbling and doing nothing. I'm always the reason things aren't ok. Just because I want a lot, I want a deep and mature relationship, we are not small, I think I am mature enough for a real relationship. Or am I living a delusion and real relationships are not based on that? Am I the only one who thinks it is normal for a man to make gestures, to make the woman next to him feel wanted, beautiful ... or are all men already women and still dissatisfied? that he only grumbles and does nothing. I'm always the reason things aren't ok. Just because I want a lot, I want a deep and mature relationship, we are not small, I think I am mature enough for a real relationship. Or am I living a delusion and real relationships are not based on that? Am I the only one who thinks it is normal for a man to make gestures, to make the woman next to him feel wanted, beautiful ... or are all men now women and still dissatisfied? that he only grumbles and does nothing. I'm always the reason things aren't ok. Just because I want a lot, I want a deep and mature relationship, we are not small, I think I am mature enough for a real relationship. Or am I living a delusion and real relationships are not based on that? Am I the only one who thinks it is normal for a man to make gestures, to make the woman next to him feel wanted, beautiful ... or are all men now women and still dissatisfied?
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Men have really become more women than women! But there are still those you are looking for. Get rid of this mold and find the real one. Good luck. M
It is always difficult to answer these questions and say them objectively. His side should also be heard as he sees things. He obviously feels repulsed and unwanted, judging by what is written. For example, would you be more romantic with another woman? Are there things you don't bring or give him, etc ...
Your friend is a congested and limited person. He is also jealous. It is better to leave it, because you do not fit on a spiritual level, and this is very bad and there is no way to change it.
Hello! I am writing to you because I have something very similar in my relationship compared to yours. Believe me, I come to the questions you ask yourself dozens of times. Personally, I insist on conversations, despite everything, but I'm stupid - stubborn - I persist to the end when I want something. Although, some things do not change .. For example the surface? F22
He's just not your man. By no means is it bad or "moldy" as he called it №1, but you're probably not on the same page and he understands it for sure.
You are from different planets with this young man, don't you understand? You better not compromise with yourself, this is not your man.